No Thanks, Unsubscribe: A No-Nonsense Way to Choose Your Dreams Over Your Doubts

No Thanks, Unsubscribe: A No-Nonsense Way to Choose Your Dreams Over Your Doubts

By Karolina Bey AutumnEducationSelf-Improvement
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  • 79. The dark side of looking on the bright side: how & when to actually use this terrible advice: "it's happening FOR you, not TO you"

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    We’ve all heard it: “It’s happening FOR you, not TO you.” And when you’re in the middle of heartbreak, stress, loss or some other life-altering shit? It might be the last thing you want to hear. But what if there’s a reason this frustrating advice sticks around? In this episode, we’re getting into the uncomfortable space between toxic positivity and a genuinely helpful mindset shift — and what it can look like when you’re finally ready to stop carrying the past with you. If you’re a woman working on emotional healing, personal growth, changing your mindset and creating a life that actually feels good to live, grab a drink and get comfy. This one might challenge you.

    • Why good advice can be completely wrong depending on when you hear it
    • The belief I have about being supported and guided through even the situations I would NEVER choose
    • Some very personal experiences that changed the way I look at pain, loss and major life changes
    • Where acceptance fits in when you absolutely do not want to pretend what happened was okay
    • How to know whether you’re actually ready to look at a painful situation differently
    • The questions I use when I want to stop feeling stuck and start seeing a situation through a new lens

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    1 hr 2 min
  • 78. Brainwashing yourself to change your life? It works, and it’s safe. The most underrated manifestation tool.

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    What if changing your reality could start with something as simple as listening to your own voice? I know it sounds crazy, and I’m literally calling this brainwashing yourself, but hear me out. After struggling with manifestation for about twenty years, I tried something completely different…and the results blew my mind. In this episode of No Thanks, Unsubscribe, we’re talking about manifestation, shifting your beliefs, becoming the version of you who already has what she wants, and why creating your dream life might not need to feel nearly as hard as we’ve been taught to believe.

    In this episode, we’re getting into:

    • The future-self experiment I started after years of vision boards, visualization and traditional manifestation techniques not giving me the results I wanted
    • What happened after I recorded my first brainwashing voice note — including the parts that surprised the hell out of me
    • What repetition, conditioning and the things you consume have to do with the beliefs running your life
    • The very different way I’m experimenting with this technique now — and why I think my first attempt was trying to do way too much
    • How this little experiment has changed the way I look at manifestation, possibility and the stories we keep telling ourselves about what can happen next
    • Why this might be worth trying if you’ve been overthinking your future, working on your self-concept or wondering whether manifestation can actually work for you

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    1 hr 1 min
  • 77. Permission slip for you to just start and do it messy, from a recovering perfectionist

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    Get a FREE 15 minute consultation with me. I am a Goal Coach & Sound Therapy Practitioner. I use identity based, and energy shifts to unblock your life and get you going towards your dreams. Grab your free 15 minute consultation here.

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    Have you ever had something you really wanted to do, but kept putting it off because you didn’t know where to start, didn’t feel ready, or couldn’t figure out how to do it right? As a recovering perfectionist, I know exactly how easy it is to spend months—or even years—thinking about the dream instead of actually starting it. In this episode of No Thanks, Unsubscribe, we’re talking about perfectionism, overthinking, fear, motivation, and what happens when you give yourself permission to start messy and figure it out as you go.

    In this episode, we’re talking about:

    • Why big goals and dreams can leave you feeling overwhelmed before you’ve even started
    • The sneaky beliefs that can keep you waiting for the “right” time, more confidence, or more motivation
    • My own experiences starting a podcast, building a business, setting huge goals, and changing direction along the way
    • What feeling “ready” can actually look like when what you want also feels scary
    • Why the people you admire probably didn’t have everything figured out when they began
    • How perfectionism can keep you stuck in planning mode while the life you want stays just out of reach
    • A different way to think about starting before you know exactly how everything is going to work

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    1 hr
  • 76. Use rock bottom to turn your life around, don’t give up

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    The hack I lean on to navigate my life. I used to binge, not know my limits, and push myself to burnout, until I learned how to navigate life with my Human GPS. I am opening up some spaces to teach you how to do it too. Get more info about the Sovereign Self method here.

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    If you feel like you’ve hit rock bottom — or you’re exhausted from setting the same goals, trying to change your life, and somehow ending up back in the same place — this episode is for you. Because sometimes the hardest part isn’t dreaming bigger. It’s figuring out why, after everything you’ve learned and everything you’ve tried, your life still doesn’t look the way you want it to. I know that feeling intimately. After 20 years of self-help, personal development, goal setting, manifestation, mindset work and trying to become the version of myself I know I’m capable of being, I’ve reached a point where I’m calling it what it is: rock bottom. But I’m not giving up on my dreams. Instead, I’m using everything I know — plus the tools we have access to in 2026 that simply didn’t exist when I started this journey — to run a year-long experiment: Rock Bottom to Dream Life in 365. If you’re ready to stop endlessly starting over and finally understand what might actually help you move forward, grab a drink and come hang out with me.

    In this episode, we’re talking about:

    • Why you can know exactly what you want and still struggle to actually create it
    • The cycle of setting goals, falling off, starting again and wondering why nothing seems to stick
    • Why taking action and doing the reps may matter more than constantly learning something new
    • What 20 years in the self-help and personal development world taught me about why change can be so hard
    • Why trying to completely transform your life overnight can make your biggest dreams feel even further away
    • How the tools available to us in 2026 are changing the way we can approach goal setting, habits, personal growth and life transformation
    • What I’m doing now that I’ve hit rock bottom — and why I’m turning the next 365 days into an experiment in building my dream life from here

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    1 hr 5 min
  • 75. Be Who You Want to Be, Not Who You Were Raised to Be aka when your parents didn’t raise you the way you actually want to live, use this to empower & turn your life around

    JOIN 7 Days to Be Her — a free live sprint where we take control of your thoughts, beliefs, and how you show up, so you can bridge the gap between who you’ve been showing up as, and how your future self who’s living your dreams shows up. If this resonates, add your name to the VIP list here, and I’ll email you when the first round dates are picked.

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    The missing piece to your manifestations. We all think we have an understanding of who we are, but the majority of us are so disconnected that we don’t even realize it. Learn how to hear all parts of yourself. Get more info about the Sovereign Self method here.

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    Have you ever looked at the woman you want to become and thought, I wasn’t raised to be her? Maybe you want to speak up for yourself, trust your decisions, make more money, build a successful career, or create a completely different kind of life than the one you grew up around—but no matter how badly you want it, you keep slipping back into old patterns. I know that feeling because I spent years trying to become a more confident, empowered version of myself while still operating from everything I’d been taught about who I was supposed to be. In this episode, we’re talking about what happens when the life you want requires you to become someone you were never shown how to be—and why that doesn’t mean you’re stuck being who you were raised to be.

    In this episode, we’re getting into:

    • Why changing your life can feel so hard when your goals don’t match the beliefs and behaviours you grew up around
    • The connection between childhood conditioning, self-belief, confidence, boundaries, money, success and the way you show up as an adult
    • Why the voices you’ve heard throughout your life can become the voice running the show inside your own head
    • What your nervous system has to do with falling back into familiar habits, even when you desperately want something different
    • How I’m experimenting with using my own voice to support identity shifts, self-trust and becoming the woman I actually want to be
    • A first look at 7 Days to Be Her, and how you can join the VIP list if you want to experiment with changing how you show up every day right alongside me

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    FREE GUIDED PRACTICE Steal the practice I use in my own life to get clarity. Set aside 10 minutes and I’ll help you get clear on one next step you need to take towards your dreams. Grab your free copy here.

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    1 hr
  • 74. An easy way to get clarity in both your life and on the next step you need to take towards living your dreams

    FREE GUIDED PRACTICE Steal the practice I use in my own life to get clarity. Set aside 10 minutes and I’ll help you get clear on one next step you need to take towards your dreams. Grab your free copy here.

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    Your inbox, but make it more inspiring. Sign up for the free Dreams Over Doubts newsletter to get Monday morning inspo, so you can feel more confident going after your dreams. Join here.

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    The missing piece to your manifestations. We all think we have an understanding of who we are, but the majority of us are so disconnected that we don’t even realize it. Learn how to hear all parts of yourself. Get more info about the Sovereign Self method here.

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    SHOW NOTES

    You know you want more for your life. You can feel the dream pulling you forward. But when you don’t know exactly how you’re going to get there, it can be so easy to stay where you are while you wait for clarity, confidence, motivation, or some giant flashing sign telling you what to do next. In this episode of No Thanks, Unsubscribe, we’re talking about how to get clarity on the next step towards your dream life — without needing the entire path figured out first. If you’ve been feeling stuck, overthinking your next move, questioning your intuition, or wondering how to actually start creating the life you know you’re meant for, grab a drink, get comfy, and let’s get into it.

    In this episode, we’re getting into:

    • Why taking action, manifestation, and trusting your intuition are more connected than you might realize
    • What happens when you keep waiting to feel completely ready before moving towards your dreams
    • The role signs, synchronicities, and excitement can play when you’re figuring out what comes next
    • A manifestation practice I’ve been developing and using in my own life for the past four years
    • How connecting with your future self can change the way you approach your dream life
    • A mini meditation to help you connect with the version of you who is already living the life you want

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    Come say hi on socials! I’m @karolina.autumn

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    1 hr 12 min
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  • 73. A Pep Talk to Go After Your Dreams aka Get Back into Alignment with Your Dreams When you Feel Down About Them, so You Can Dust Yourself Off and Try Again

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    If you have a dream in your heart and you know it’s possible for you, but lately that belief has felt a little harder to hold onto, this episode is your pep talk. We’re talking about what happens when old limiting beliefs, familiar habits, fear, and other people’s ideas about what’s “realistic” start pulling you out of alignment with the life you actually want. I’m sharing what this has looked like in my own life lately, how I’ve been recalibrating myself back toward my dreams, and how you can start doing the same. Plus, we’ll connect with your future self, challenge some of the biggest beliefs keeping you stuck, and give you practical ways to start moving toward your dream life again — today.

    In this episode, we talk about:

    • Why your belief in your dreams can waver even when you genuinely believe they’re possible
    • How limiting beliefs and old patterns can quietly pull you away from the life you want
    • The 10 common limiting beliefs that can keep you stuck, playing small, or waiting to feel “ready”
    • How to start questioning the beliefs you’ve picked up from other people throughout your life
    • What it means to reconnect and get back into alignment with your dreams
    • Why your future self can be such a powerful tool for gaining clarity and direction
    • A mini future-self meditation to help you connect with the dreams that are calling you
    • How to create new beliefs and standards that actually support the person you’re becoming
    • Why giving yourself grace matters when you fall back into old habits
    • 5 practical action steps to help you stop waiting, build self-belief, and start going after your dreams
    • Why motivation doesn’t have to come first — and what actually keeps the fire of a dream alive

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    1 hr 5 min
  • 72. Signs to look for & what it feels like to go through a life upgrade / Shakti rising / spiritual awakening / energetic expansion journey / quantum leap / identity shift etc.

    50% OFF 1:1 INTUITION MENTORING AND LIFE PURPOSE SESSIONS — The key to authenticity is clearing the crap so you can hear your intuition louder. Come back to center, clear what’s holding you back, and align your energy with the power of sound. Sale is for virtual sessions only. Apply here for a session. Quote that you saw this to claim the discount. Valid until September 1st 2026.

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    If you’ve been feeling like something is shifting in your life this episode is for you. I’m talking about what it can actually feel like to move through a big life upgrade, spiritual awakening, Shakti rising, energetic expansion, quantum leap, identity shift… whatever language resonates with you. Because these seasons of growth don’t always look like the shiny, magical transformation we imagine they will. Sometimes they’re confusing, uncomfortable, exhausting, incredibly clarifying, or somehow all of those things at once. In this episode, I’m sharing what this journey has looked like for me, some of the signs I’ve noticed along the way, and what I’m learning about letting your life evolve as you come into deeper alignment with yourself and your life purpose.

    In this episode, we’re talking about:

    • Signs you might be moving through a spiritual awakening, energetic upgrade, or identity shift
    • What a Shakti rising, energetic expansion, or quantum leap can actually feel like in real life
    • Why major periods of personal and spiritual growth aren’t always linear
    • The unexpected ways your old life can start feeling less aligned as you change
    • What happens when you’re getting closer to your life purpose but don’t have the whole picture yet
    • Why clarity can keep evolving as you move through different layers of your transformation
    • Some of the myths about what a big life upgrade or spiritual awakening is supposed to look and feel like
    • What I’m personally noticing as I move through another season of growth, change, and deeper alignment

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    56 min
  • 71. The Everything Happens for a Reason Trap aka surrender has made you passive in your life, left you still chasing your dreams, and how to turn things around (a tough love pep talk)

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    What if your belief in surrender and “everything happens for a reason” is actually keeping you stuck? In this episode, I’m sharing the uncomfortable realization that some of my deepest spiritual beliefs had quietly turned me into a passive participant in my own life—and how waiting for the Universe to make everything happen left me with far less than I wanted. We’re talking about the difference between trusting divine timing and avoiding aligned action, how to recognize when surrender has become a cop-out, and the simple mindset shifts that can help you stop waiting and start actively creating your dream life.

    In this episode, we explore:

    • How spiritual beliefs can unintentionally encourage passivity and avoidance
    • The hidden habits that keep you waiting for life to happen to you
    • Why a “no” may be asking you to change direction rather than keep holding on
    • The difference between trusting the Universe and giving away your personal power
    • How daily resets can help you realign with your goals and dreams
    • What it means to take action as the version of you that you actually want to become

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    Come say hi on socials! I’m @karolina.autumn

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    1 hr

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