Guilty as charged, I've rushed things because I was afraid I'd miss out on it, and I've fought to keep the attention of people that  weren't meant for me!  "God never takes away a blessing, unless he knows it will NOT bless you later!" Whether it's a job opportunity, a relationship, or even a house you're interested in and feel like you need to jump the gun because you may miss your shot, if it's meant to be YOURS, there's not a single person on this planet that can take that from you. What is meant for you will always find you!