When you considers the humanity of others in the same vein you have accepted yours, there tends to be more room for grace. It not only makes our existence much more pleasurable without strife, it promotes more efficient human growth.
Let's give each other an appropriate measure of grace...especially yourself.
Matthew 7:5 (KJV Version)"Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye"