In this episode, we discuss...

• What it's like to be a black woman in a kink space.
• Majestyyy's journey into finding her kink community.
• Group sex and sex club/party etiquette. 
• How sex can be awkward, playful, and funny.
• Her breast reduction surgery and alternatives to body modification.
• Big dick privileged and  pleasure advocacy.
• What it means to live a pleasure-centered life.

Guest: @thefunsexual

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We discuss:

• Madam Carmen's journey in to BDSM and being a pro dom.
• Kinks, fetishes, and other lifestyle terminology, like mummification, degradation, and race play to name a few.
• Hard and soft limits.
• How to vet potential play partners.
• KinkNik as a safe haven for BIPOC and queer kinksters.
• How to prepare for a pegging scene and advice for cishet men.

Bad Girl’s Bible “ The Complete List of 239 Sexual Fetishes and Kinks”
Madamcarmen2.com
IG: @madamcarmen45 and @kinknik_ 

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In this episode I discuss...

• My introduction to erotica through literature.
• A trip to "P-town" and the Sex History Museum at Toys of Eros.
• The etymology of masturbation, hysteria, and dildos. 
• Sexual trauma and it's impact on my connection to my body and romantic partnerships.

TRIGGER WARNING: This episode mentions sexual trauma and suicide.

To see images from the Sex History Museum, check out this post.

Sexual trauma statistics can from here.

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In this episode, we discuss:

• Sage the Flame's introduction to and vision for being an adult content creator.
• The internal and external pressures associated being in an erotic field. 
• Her greatest accomplishments thus far and where she sees this work going. 
• Her relationship and family planning views.
• The interference of legislation in sex work.
• How she used her pussy to give back to her city and travel. 

Connect with our guest on...
Instagram: @_sagetheflame
Twitter: @sagetheflame1

Other mentions in this episode..
https://www.o.school/  
https://www.freerootoperation.com/ 
https://baltimoreceasefire.com/

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In this episode, we discuss...

• The vast nature of sexuality. The emergence of new terms to accommodate new understandings.
• How to connect with and build community in spaces that are inclusive.
• The relationship between sexuality and relationship dynamics.
• The many different ways celibacy can look to meet where people are in their journey.
• Lisasia's journey as a pansexual poly women exploring sexual abstinence. 

Guest: You can find Lisasia @fertilefemme  on IG

Blog post referenced: "Mindful Masturbation"

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In this episode we discuss:

• Darling Nicky's organic transition into sex work and how she got her name.
• The need for sex workers to legitimize themselves and share content on multiple platforms.
• What an intimacy artist is and how body work can move energy collectively.
• Our favorite scenes and the future work she aspires to create.
• The importance of consent and the need to have those conversations.
• Dating as a sex worker, her sexuality, and relationship style.
• How you can be an ally to sex workers.

Guest: @xdarlingnicky on IG and Twitter

Ally support: @bipoccollective on IG

Resources on adultification referenced on this episode...
Listening to Black Women and Girls: Lived Experiences of Adultification Bias
Adultification: The Effects of Kids Raising their Parents and Siblings

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In this episode I discuss:

• Common reasons why people divorce or dissolve relationships.
• Outcomes of 1 or multiple parties being dissatisfied with their sex.
• 3 actions you can take to address challenges in your sex life.
• 4 steps to pleasure advocacy.
• Examples of ways to have sexual performance feedback conversations.
• 6 signs that you are sexual dissatisfied.
• Whether or not you should schedule sex with your partner.
• The sex conversation I have with my partner.

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In this episode, we discuss:

• How a non-traditional relationship style (poly) looks for this couple of 20+years.
• The inner work that is required to have a healthy poly relationship.
• The different types of poly relationships.
• Navigating jealously and exercising emotional and sexual freedom.

Connect with our guest IG: @black88apple

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In this episode, we discuss:

• The simultaneous fetishization and shaming of plus-size black femme bodies.
• The lack of inclusion for full-figured women, despite the body positive movement.
• Men chasing BBW (Big Beautiful Women) for clout.
• Closeted plush pal lovers.
• The parallel journey of body acceptance and physical health.

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IG: @authenticallynay
www.authenticallynay.com

Affiliate: Content Confident 

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In this episode, we discuss...

• How blktouch (black erotic content) came to be, from sensual photography to becoming a full XXX site.
• What it's like behind the scenes planning, casting for and recording adult content.
• The difference between mainstream porn and erotic work.
• How understanding and leaning into the power of the erotic is creatively inspiring and life-changing.

Connect with our guest and become a member.
IG: @blktouch
Twitter: @blktouch

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