We get straight to the point: clubs that cling to daft traditions and weird etiquette are driving youngsters and new players away, and if we don’t modernise our marketing, booking systems and clubhouse experience the game’s in trouble.

I bring on my good mate Colin Gray — steeped in golf from his dad’s work, gone cold on the game for twenty years and then lured back — and we riff on his return, the joy of getting your handicap down and the weird stuff that puts people off joining clubs.

We talk honestly about tech and simple fixes (better tee-booking, nine‑hole options, TrackMan/Sim bays and dynamic pricing), why the top clubs have the confidence to make bold decisions, and why mid‑tier clubs often get stuck paying the bills instead of innovating.

Col and I also share the practical stuff that helped us — pre‑shot routines, “caddying” for yourself, a towel under the armpits to stay connected, using data from sims and the Garmin R10 and actually testing shafts properly — and how those small changes shave off the wild shots. It’s a chat that’s as much about saving local golf as it is about enjoying it, with loads of laughs, a bit of ranting and proper, useful takeaways for anyone getting back into the game. Check out Colin’s show Both Sides of Par if you want more of his perspective — he’s calm, collected and annoyingly good at staying on point.

Colin and I have been mates for a long time, so this felt less like an interview and more like a pint-and-a-chat about how someone can fall out of love with golf and then, weirdly, fall back in better than ever. He grew up steeped in golf—dad a greenkeeper, a course built in Dumfries—then rebelled at 18, went to uni and didn’t touch a club for about twenty years. The nudge back came from mates and a mad annual trip they call the British Invitational: top courses, top craic, and Colin decided he didn’t want to look like an absolute tit. From being a 18–20 handicap teenager to creeping back in at 23 and then clawing his way down to low teens, he talks honestly about the erratic nature of being an adult golfer—great shots one round, absolute carnage the next—and how the real wins were mental not technical. We get deep into the mental stuff: the yips on the tee, the pressure of finishing comps, and how a pre-shot routine and “caddying for yourself” changed everything. Colin walked us through picking a target, picturing the shot, committing, and how that focus strips away the what-ifs. He also details the practical wins—driver fitting (extra-stiff, shorter shaft), consistent practice, and playing more competitive golf—and how those tiny shifts moved his handicap. It’s a proper, warm, human story: someone rediscovering joy, being a bit of a bandit at times, and ultimately learning to enjoy the game without being its hostage.

Takeaways:

• I reckon golf clubs that cling to daft rules like no hats in the clubhouse are actively putting people off, and that is bollocks.
• We learned you must decide if a club is for golfers or a community hub — you can't have a foot in both camps and expect growth.
• I found a simple mental routine — literally caddying for myself and committing to a pre‑shot script — transformed my tee confidence and scores.
• We use data and affordable tech like Garmin R10, GS Pro, ShotScope and AI (Claude/ChatGPT) to analyse hundreds of shots, pick the right shaft, and actually measure real improvement.
• I love the towel‑under‑the‑armpits drill; it forced me to stay connected, turn my body properly, and instantly add distance and consistency.
• We argued that many mid‑tier clubs are run by well-meaning volunteers who aren't marketers, so hiring pro help and designing experiences matters more than stubborn tradition.
• I care about juniors sticking with it — a welcoming clubhouse and no entitlement from some members is crucial if we want the game to grow.
• We also flagged practical fixes: dynamic tee booking, genuine nine‑hole slots and adding sims/TrackMan experiences can increase member value without wrecking people's rounds.

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In this episode, Nick Yorkshire Yips shares his journey from weight loss to becoming a golf content creator, discussing the importance of authenticity, coaching, and evolving fashion in golf. Discover practical tips for improving your game and embracing the modern face of golf.

What Nick & I discuss:

• Nick's journey from weight loss to golf content creation
• The role of coaching and fitting in improving golf
• The evolution of golf fashion and dress codes
• The mental health benefits of golf and its community
• Specific golf goals and how to achieve them
• The impact of social media on golf engagement
• The importance of authenticity and relatability in content
• Innovative golf competitions and how they benefit players

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Rob Lewis, our guest this week, shares an inspiring journey of going from a beginner to a single-digit golfer in just two and a half years. We dive into the ups and downs of his golfing experience, including the challenges he faced and the dedication he put into improving his game. Rob's story is not just about personal achievement; it’s also a testament to the power of community and support at Meltham Golf Club, where both he and I are members. We discuss the importance of playing smart and staying in play, especially when things aren’t going perfectly on the course. Plus, I share some light-hearted banter about my own mishaps with microphones during our recording session, reminding us that golf—and life—are all about having fun and not taking ourselves too seriously. Enjoy the episode!

Takeaways:

• Rob's journey to becoming a single-digit golfer in just two and a half years showcases the power of dedication and hard work.
• It's essential to play to your strengths and accept that you won't always perform at your best; sometimes just getting through it is sufficient.
• Practicing short game techniques can significantly lower your scores; Rob emphasizes the importance of mastering wedge distances for better performance.
• The mental aspect of golf is crucial; developing a pre-shot routine and maintaining focus can make a big difference in performance on the course.
• Confidence in your abilities develops through practice; knowing your distances and trusting your swing can help reduce pressure during play.
• Community and camaraderie at the golf club can enhance the experience, making it important to foster relationships and support fellow golfers.

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Today, we're diving deep into the evolution of golf technology with Lyndsey Whitefield from Shot Scope, discussing how the game is changing alongside our busy lifestyles. As golf becomes more accessible, we're seeing a surge in interest from diverse demographics, and Shot Scope is at the forefront of this shift, offering innovative products that cater to all levels of golfers. Lindsay shares fascinating insights about the company's journey, from their origins in shot tracking to their latest game-changing product, the LM1 launch monitor, which has garnered significant buzz in the golfing community.

We also touch on the importance of data in improving one’s game and how Shot Scope has successfully made this data accessible and user-friendly. This conversation is not only informative but also a testament to how technology and passion for golf can combine to enhance the sport for everyone.

Takeaways:

• In today's rapidly changing golf landscape, people are evolving and seeking different formats and experiences to make the game more accessible.
• The Shot Scope ecosystem has expanded significantly, catering to golfers of all levels with a variety of products designed to enhance their performance and enjoyment.
• Data accessibility has grown, making it easier for mid to high handicappers to understand their game and use insights to improve their skills effectively.
• The decision to remain a non-subscription business is a bold move that emphasizes Shot Scope's commitment to providing golfers access to their data without additional costs.
• Lyndsey's journey from a non-golfer to a passionate player illustrates the increasing accessibility of golf and the diversity of its community.
• The launch of the LM1 has been a game-changer, highlighting the importance of providing affordable and effective technology to elevate the golfing experience.

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Heidi Sowery is shaking things up in the golf world with her incredible initiative, the 26 Plus Club, aimed at making the sport more accessible and fun for everyone, especially those who feel a bit out of place on the course.

As we dive into our conversation, we discuss Heidi's own journey from struggling to find golf partners to creating a thriving community of over 150 members, all while navigating the challenges that come with being a new golfer. We also explore the hilarious and sometimes frustrating experiences that new golfers face, including the often ridiculous etiquette that can make the game feel daunting.

With a blend of humor and sincerity, we touch on the importance of community, connecting like-minded players, and the joys of sharing this sport with others. So, if you’re a golfer looking for camaraderie or just want to hear about the ups and downs of getting into the game, this episode is definitely for you!

Takeaways:

• Heidi Sowery's journey in golf began from a struggle to find playing partners, leading to the creation of the 26 Plus Club to foster community among golfers.
• The podcast emphasizes the importance of making golf accessible for everyone, highlighting how societal perceptions can deter new players from joining the sport.
• Heidi shares her experiences with golf gear, emphasizing the significance of choosing the right clubs to enhance performance and enjoyment in the game.
• The 26 Plus Club event aims to create a fun and inclusive atmosphere with formats like Florida scramble, encouraging participation from golfers of all skill levels.

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And many thanks again to Dye House Golf for letting us record there, make sure to check them out

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Today, I’m diving deep into the world of wedges and how my agonising quest for the perfect setup has transformed my game.

After spending countless hours over the offseason analysing the gapping and performance of my clubs, I can confidently say I’ve never been happier with my wedge setup.

I’ll share the details of my previous configurations and how I navigated the changes to achieve a setup that truly caters to my style of play, especially on the challenging courses I frequent. We’ll explore the importance of loft, grind, and bounce, and how these factors influence my shots, particularly in tricky lies.

By the end of this episode, I hope to inspire fellow weekend warriors to consider their own setups and maybe even rethink their approach to those all-important short-game clubs.

Takeaways:

• In this episode, I share my journey toward finding the perfect wedge setup that has truly transformed my game and my confidence on the course.
• We dive deep into the importance of gapping between wedges, specifically discussing how I moved from a 44.5-degree pitching wedge to a 47-degree one for better consistency.
• I explain the different types of shots I play with my wedges and how each club is tailored to handle various lies and conditions on the course.
• I highlight the significance of understanding bounce and grind on wedges, which can dramatically affect performance, especially in tricky lies.
• Throughout this episode, I've emphasized the importance of getting fitted for clubs that suit your specific style of play and course conditions.
• Finally, I encourage listeners to engage with me on social media to share their own wedge setups and seek advice on improving their game.

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Golf isn’t just about hitting a ball; it’s a mental game that demands strategy and confidence. Mark shares his recent journey of reducing his handicap, revealing three pivotal strategies that have reshaped his game.

The first strategy focuses on developing a pre-planned course strategy. Mark emphasizes the importance of knowing the layout of the course and planning accordingly. It’s about anticipating where to place your shots to minimize risks and maximize scoring opportunities. He encourages listeners to utilize tools like Shot Scope or even just a notebook to jot down notes about the courses they play. This foresight allows golfers to make informed decisions on the course, leading to more consistent play.

Mark then shifts gears to discuss the power of a pre-shot routine. He opens up about his struggles with mental pressure and the yips, illustrating how a solid routine can help combat these challenges. By verbalizing his thought process before each shot, he cultivates focus and commitment, leading to improved execution. This technique not only enhances performance but also reduces anxiety by providing a familiar structure to rely on during high-pressure moments. It’s a game-changer for anyone looking to boost their confidence on the tee.

Finally, Mark touches on the importance of being aggressive with your short game. He recounts a recent practice session that ignited a more fearless approach to chipping and putting. By embracing a more assertive mindset, he found that he could better navigate tricky situations and capitalize on scoring opportunities. It’s all about shifting from a defensive to an offensive mindset, allowing for better control and execution. Mark’s insights remind us that golf is as much about mental fortitude as it is about physical skill, and by implementing these strategies, we can all elevate our game.

Takeaways:

• Establishing a solid pre-shot routine can relieve mental pressure during golf rounds.
• A pre-planned strategy for each course can drastically improve your overall game performance.
• Being more aggressive with your short game can lower your scores significantly on the course.
• Practicing different shot types with your wedges can enhance versatility and confidence in your gameplay.

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Golf is a game of precision and patience, but all too often, we find ourselves battling against the odds—especially when it comes to putting. In today’s chat, we dive deep into the often misunderstood world of putting with our guest, Chris Dennis, a renowned coach and YouTuber. We kick things off by sharing some of our own experiences on the course, including a particularly windy day that turned into a comedic disaster.

We recount my lacklustre performance and Chris’s expert observations, shedding light on the reality that sometimes, despite our best efforts, the golf gods just aren't on our side.

One of the key takeaways from our conversation is the emphasis on the importance of positioning. Chris passionately explains that making putts is not just about technique; it’s about putting yourself in the right position to succeed. We explore the common myths surrounding putting, such as the idea that every putt should be a sure thing.

Spoiler alert: it’s not. We delve into statistics that reveal even scratch golfers miss a significant percentage of their putts from longer distances, and Chris shares actionable advice on how to practice effectively to improve our chances on the green. Finally, we wrap up with Chris’s top tips for weekend golfers heading out to play.

He suggests a quick warm-up routine on the putting green that emphasizes pace over perfection. By focusing on distance control rather than just sinking putts, golfers can set themselves up for success before they even step onto the first tee.

This episode is packed with laughs, insights, and practical advice that will resonate with any golfer looking to improve their game while having a bit of fun along the way.

Takeaways:

• As a putting coach, I often tell my students that the make percentage of putts is surprisingly low; it's about getting into the right positions consistently rather than just making every single put.
• Practicing your putting can seem tedious, but it's essential to develop a solid routine that includes both pace and line to improve your scores on the course.
• When faced with a long putt, it's crucial to assess the green's slope and break, and visualize the best landing zone to ensure you give yourself the best chance for a two-putt.
• Many amateur golfers underestimate the importance of practicing their pace putting; focusing on how hard to hit the ball can significantly reduce the number of three-putts during a round.

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Navigating the seasonal shifts in golf can be a real challenge, and in this episode, we take a hard look at the mental and physical hurdles that come with being a weekend golfer. Our host, Mark Asquith, opens up about his personal journey through the early struggles of the season. He candidly admits to experiencing the dreaded ‘yips’—that frustrating inability to make solid contact—after what he thought was a promising winter. With relatable anecdotes, Mark illustrates how winter play on mats can lead to discrepancies in ball striking once we hit the grass again. We explore the psychological aspects of golf, discussing how the game can take a toll on our confidence and how to combat it with a reset. Mark’s path to recovery involves not just technical fixes but a return to basic drills—half swings, weight shifts, and a focus on the fundamentals that we often overlook during our practice sessions.

The episode also dives into the importance of community in the golfing world. Mark reflects on his experiences playing with friends and how their different skill levels can shine a light on our own game deficiencies. We dissect what it means to be a part of a vibrant golfing community and how that can help any golfer, regardless of their handicap, push through tough patches. It’s a reminder that we’re all in this together, battling our own demons on the fairway, and sometimes, it just takes a friendly face and a shared laugh to bring us back to our game. We share tips on how to develop a pre-shot routine that incorporates physical drills aimed at correcting swing issues, while also emphasizing the need for mental clarity and focus.

In closing, we extend our gratitude to our loyal listeners and supporters of ‘Clubhouse Blues.’ This episode serves as a rallying cry for all amateur golfers to embrace their journey, acknowledge their struggles, and remember that improvement often lies in revisiting the basics. We promise a good mix of laughter, insight, and a hefty dose of reality that will resonate with anyone who’s ever picked up a club and felt the weight of expectation. So, gear up, get practicing, and let’s hit the greens together!

Takeaways:

• In the podcast, we dive into the struggles of getting out of a golf funk, sharing our personal experiences and tips on how to reset your game.
• We discuss how the winter weather affected our ability to play, and how it led to a challenging start to the new season at Nefyn golf course.
• I emphasize the importance of returning to basics in golf, highlighting drills such as the baseball grip and weight shift that helped me regain my form.
• Playing with better golfers inspired me to reflect on my technique and work on my fundamentals to improve consistency.
• We talk about the mental aspect of golf, particularly how getting in your head can impact your game and the importance of maintaining a positive mindset.
• Throughout the episode, we encourage listeners to share their golf struggles and successes, fostering a community of support among weekend hackers.

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Ryan Mouque joins me to unpack the ins and outs of online golf coaching and why it's way more than a viable alternative to in-person lessons.

We dive into the reality that improving your game takes time, patience, and a willingness to embrace the struggle—much like learning to brush your teeth with your non-dominant hand (trust me, it’s as awkward as it sounds).

Ryan shares his journey from club coaching to thriving in the online space, showing how communication and commitment can lead to serious game changes. We also tackle the common misconception that a single lesson will magically fix everything and how the mental side of golf plays a huge role in your performance. If you’re ready to take your game to the next level, this episode is packed with tips and insights that could help you drop those pesky handicap strokes.

Takeaways:

• Golf coaching is about commitment and persistence, not just quick fixes or lessons.
• Online coaching can be just as effective as in-person lessons with the right communication.
• The psychological aspect of golf is crucial; understanding your mental game can improve performance.
• Golfers often overlook the importance of proper training and practice routines to achieve better results.

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