We tend to not recognize the forces that shape our values, falling into the trap of thinking that just because something is important to us, it must be equally important to Jesus. However, Paul was not satisfied with allowing the Roman church to gather around its predetermined value systems. Instead, he called them to step into the tension of pursuing relationship with those who hold differing values because they come from different backgrounds. they In doing so, they would begin to better reflect picture of the gospel and be formed into a people more centered on Jesus. One of the key ways we are shaped is by rubbing shoulders with other people in the family of Jesus who come from different backgrounds. By seeking to understand and honor one another, we become more like the Lord in whose family we are a part. 

When we talk about habits, it can sound like self-help, but in Romans 12:9-14 Paul gives instructions for us that are meant to be continual and ongoing; actions that are habitual in our life. Things like continual prayer, being diligent in zeal, and clinging to what is good aren’t about coldly going through the motions of obedience. Instead, they are about offering ourselves as a living sacrifice to God and done out of a desire to experience God and be changed by Him.