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Not All Hope is Lost: Anca's Healing Journey
In this episode, Tamara is joined by Anca Treefan, founder and CEO of Tree-Fan events and an advocate for women in the tech world.
What was discussed:
- Anca talks about her experience moving to America from Romania and why
- She discusses being triggered by a relationship and having to leave her family behind at 19
- She thought if she didn't make that move, she'd never be able to free herself from that relationship and she struggled to understand why she was so connected to this person that it had some form of control over he
- She talks about meeting him at a young age, getting tangled in an emotionally manipulated relationship with this person, the strong bond they shared, and the impact it had on her life
- She spent 5 years trying to break free which caused her to rebound into unhealthy relationships in that time
- She talks about how a nightmare she had in 2020 forced her to go back and relive her trauma in order to unearth it and heal because how she was acting in the present was related to things that happened in her past
- Through discovery and talking to a therapist and utilizing all the tools, she was able to heal again
- Through he strong sense of spirituality, Anca allowed God to heal the places in her heart she knew were broken, which made her incapable of having full healthy relationships in the present
What you can learn from this episode:
- Unhealthy bonds can have a damaging effect on us for years and years
- It's not about what you want, but what you need
- Sometimes we’re not mature enough to deal with certain things at a certain time and when we’ve built that maturity then those lessons will come back up for us to finally deal with it even though you may feel you’re so past it.
Note to anyone listening who might be going through a tough time:
I pray that after you go through a place of healing, that you no longer have to go back and relive that trauma. I hope you’ve truly unpacked every part of it so it doesn't rise up again in the future. But if it ever does, I pray you have the strength to know that you’ve fought through this once before and you can fight through it again and you’ll come out of this much better than you entered.
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By TamaraIn this episode, Tamara is joined by Anca Treefan, founder and CEO of Tree-Fan events and an advocate for women in the tech world.
What was discussed:
- Anca talks about her experience moving to America from Romania and why
- She discusses being triggered by a relationship and having to leave her family behind at 19
- She thought if she didn't make that move, she'd never be able to free herself from that relationship and she struggled to understand why she was so connected to this person that it had some form of control over he
- She talks about meeting him at a young age, getting tangled in an emotionally manipulated relationship with this person, the strong bond they shared, and the impact it had on her life
- She spent 5 years trying to break free which caused her to rebound into unhealthy relationships in that time
- She talks about how a nightmare she had in 2020 forced her to go back and relive her trauma in order to unearth it and heal because how she was acting in the present was related to things that happened in her past
- Through discovery and talking to a therapist and utilizing all the tools, she was able to heal again
- Through he strong sense of spirituality, Anca allowed God to heal the places in her heart she knew were broken, which made her incapable of having full healthy relationships in the present
What you can learn from this episode:
- Unhealthy bonds can have a damaging effect on us for years and years
- It's not about what you want, but what you need
- Sometimes we’re not mature enough to deal with certain things at a certain time and when we’ve built that maturity then those lessons will come back up for us to finally deal with it even though you may feel you’re so past it.
Note to anyone listening who might be going through a tough time:
I pray that after you go through a place of healing, that you no longer have to go back and relive that trauma. I hope you’ve truly unpacked every part of it so it doesn't rise up again in the future. But if it ever does, I pray you have the strength to know that you’ve fought through this once before and you can fight through it again and you’ll come out of this much better than you entered.
Support the show