Have you ever caught yourself expecting someone new to hurt you because someone else did?

In this episode of Lola Speaks, we're talking about love, patience, healing, and the danger of projecting old wounds onto new people. Sometimes the hardest part of love isn't finding it—it's trusting that not everyone is the same as your past.

We'll explore the difference between discernment and fear, why healing requires patience, and how to remain open to healthy love without ignoring the lessons you've learned along the way.

Because healing isn't pretending the hurt never happened. It's refusing to let it define every relationship that comes after.

✨ Not everyone is your past.
✨ Not everyone is here to hurt you.
✨ And your future shouldn't have to pay for what someone else did.

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