Not Quite There with Chris Howard and Mike Mobley

Mike and Chris discuss the difficulty of asking for help and the cultural factors that contribute to this reluctance. They explore the fear of appearing weak or inadequate, the desire for self-sufficiency, and the societal emphasis on individualism. They also highlight the importance of community and the value of asking for help, both in receiving assistance and allowing others to exercise their gifts.

Chris and Mike share lessons learned so far from being a husband in terms of effective communication. Communication is a huge deal within marriage and requires active listening and initiation along the way. Here’s practical advice for husbands includes initiating communication, asking meaningful questions, and being intentional in pursuing our wives.

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There’s no question in this life we will come across difficult people at times, but how do we handle those moments? Mike and Chris talk about 6 practical ways to deal with difficult people in our day to day lives including sometimes when we find ourselves to be the difficult person. Prayer, humility, and forgiveness is huge in navigating relationships with difficult people.

Over the first 15 episodes, Mike, Chris, and guests have covered a lot of topics related to taking a step forward while even taking a few steps back to see the bigger picture. If you’ve joined us so far, here’s an opportunity to reflect on some of our favorite content. If you are new to the podcast and want to join us mid-journey, here’s a chance to get caught up with some highlights.

Chris and Mike’s daughters take over this week’s episode with a few questions of their own, putting the guys back in the hot seat. There’s plenty of laughs, surprises, and even some affirming time as the Dads tell their girls some things from the heart.

Producer and Songwriter, Chris Clayton, joins the guys to talk about his journey to Nashville and his love for the music industry. Chris shares his journey of faith and career in the music industry, highlighting the importance of taking risks and trusting God's guidance. He encourages aspiring musicians to invest in their craft, build relationships, and be patient with the process. Ultimately, Chris emphasizes the importance of aligning one's steps with God's plan and finding fulfillment in making an impact rather than just seeking success.

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The guys talk about the importance of embracing discomfort and letting go of control. This process can be uncomfortable and challenging, but it leads to tremendous freedom and growth. It's important to spend time with Jesus and develop a relationship with Him to discern His leading and find confidence in stepping into the discomfort. We should approach each day with open hands, asking God what He has for us and being willing to embrace the uncomfortable opportunities He presents.

The waiting is the hardest part. We just don’t like having to be patient and if we are honest, we don’t want to be dependent. We are raised and taught to be independent, but is that really the best thing for us? There’s so much development that takes place through patience and it’s crucial to be honest with God in the process. He is always present and faithful and brings about the good through us in the midst of waiting.

Chris and Mike share stories of their worst days at work and the lessons they learned from their mistakes. Both stories highlight the importance of slowing down and showing empathy towards others when they make mistakes.

Chris and Mike interview Jordan Hill, LifeGroup Minister at 121 Community Church, about current struggles and successes going on within the local Church and how the Bible and Community often get overlooked.