This episode hits deep. We’re talking about the apology we’ll never get — the one that keeps us replaying the past, questioning our worth, and waiting for validation from someone else.

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There comes a point where the person you used to be can’t come with you anymore. In this episode, we talk about what it really means to outgrow old versions of yourself mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.

We’ll walk through John 15 and the pruning process, the tension of release, and the grace in realizing growth doesn’t always feel good… but it’s still God.

This one’s for anyone who feels caught between who they were and who they’re becoming.

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For the first time (Officially) Alex and I sit down together to talk about our relationship the real story behind how it started, what we’ve learned, and how being together has changed us both. We share how tension, communication, and growth have shaped a stronger connection, and give honest relationship advice for anyone dating, healing, or in a long-term relationship. This episode is raw, fun, and real a look at love that’s still being built, one honest conversation at a time.

You ever look back on a relationship and realize… it wasn’t them? It was the story you built around them.

In this episode, I get real about red flags, excuses, and the full-time job of creating reasons for behavior that shouldn’t be tolerated. We talk boundaries, healing, and how God steps in as the ultimate designer remodeling your heart, clearing out the chaos, and restoring peace where you least expect it.

Tune in if you’re ready to stop loving chaos and start being redesigned. 💛

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Okay… let’s talk about it. You’ve set boundaries with people, with work, maybe even with your phone but have you ever set boundaries with your mind? Yeah, the part of you that never stops talking, worrying, or replaying what you wish you’d said differently.

In this episode, we’re breaking down what it means to lead your inner world not shut it down. Inspired by Dr. Allison Cook’s book Boundaries for Your Soul and the story of Jesus calming the storm, we’re learning how to invite God into the chaos instead of hiding it from Him.

This one’s for the overthinkers, the feelers, and the ones who are tired of pretending they’re fine. Peace isn’t found when everything’s quiet it’s found when Presence steps in.

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Jackie joins me for laughs, wisdom, and real talk on love, heartbreak, and healing. From divorce to confusing situationships to finding closure, she shares how God is teaching her contentment in this season. Plus, some Big Sis Jackie hot takes you don’t want to miss.

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Unforgiveness doesn’t usually crash into our lives all at once — it creeps in quietly, like a root under the surface. And if we’re not careful, it starts reshaping our stories in ways we never intended. In this episode of Not So Parallel, Jess opens up about the weight of pain, the passive damage of bitterness, and the surprising freedom that comes when we let God reframe our stories instead of letting resentment rewrite them.

Through scripture, raw storytelling, and real-life reflection, this conversation will challenge you to face the quiet places where bitterness has taken root and remind you that your pain isn’t wasted. There are receipts — proof — that God is still with you, even in the hardest chapters.

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What if the very pain you’ve been carrying is actually proof that God is still at work in your story?

In this episode of Almost Canceled, Jessica opens up about her own journey through divorce, mental health struggles, and the deep questions that come when life feels shattered. Through honest conversation and the story of Elijah in 1 Kings 19, she shares three “receipts” — undeniable pieces of evidence that remind us pain isn’t wasted, God hasn’t left, and even in our most human moments, He shows up.

This isn’t a sermon. It’s an invitation into a real, raw conversation about how to reframe pain, recognize God’s presence in the middle of the mess, and build the kind of trust that holds steady even when life hurts.

If you’ve ever wondered, “Where is God in this pain?” this episode is for you.

Ever feel invisible? Like life is passing by and no one really sees the real you? In this episode, we dive into the story of Hagar a woman overlooked, nameless, and wandering through her own wilderness. But here’s the thing: God saw her, named her, and brought hope when everything felt impossible.

We’ll unpack what it means to be truly seen, how God calls us by name, and why your messy, unseen, hard seasons aren’t wasted. Plus, I’ll share some personal moments from my own life from celebrating birthdays to fighting for my health and give you a few practical ways to notice the wells of hope in your own wilderness.

Your story matters. Your struggles matter. And God sees every part of it.

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We expect God to move in fire, thunder, and miracles — but what if His power is in the whisper?

In this episode, we walk with Elijah into the cave, into the exhaustion, into the moment where God doesn’t shout… He leans in close.

I’m sharing a personal story from my own life, where I didn’t get the loud answer I wanted — but I found something better.

If you’ve ever wondered where God is in your silence, this one's for you.

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