Notes to Her

Note 28: You Are the 1, Not the 2 — Stop Acting Like You’re Replaceable


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Too many women are settling for half-love, mixed signals, and emotional crumbs, not because they don’t know better, but because they’ve been taught to prove their worth instead of protect it.

In this bold, honest note, Yaya breaks down why women confuse attention with affection, why loving harder doesn’t fix broken patterns, and how low self-esteem quietly keeps women stuck in situations that drain their confidence.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  1. Why settling feels safer than walking away (and why it’s costing you your peace)

  2. The difference between attention and real affection

  3. How past conditioning teaches women to earn love instead of receive it

  4. Why loving someone harder doesn’t make them show up better

  5. How to step into the identity of a woman who knows she’s the prize


This note is a wake-up call for any woman who’s been shrinking, settling, or waiting to be chosen.

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Notes to HerBy Yaya Reed