You already know what you’re capable of.

So why do you keep hesitating, shrinking, or talking yourself out of the very things you want?

In this note, Yaya breaks down the real reason so many talented, intelligent, capable women stay stuck, and it’s not a lack of ability. It’s the quiet self-talk that convinces you to wait, second-guess, or play small right before you take the leap.

Inside this note, we talk about:

• how self-talk silently blocks your confidence

• why knowing the truth isn’t enough if you don’t act on it

• the difference between fear and intuition

• how to interrupt the spiral before you abandon yourself

• what it actually takes to stop shrinking and move forward

This is not about becoming louder, bolder, or more aggressive. It’s about stopping the inner conversation that keeps you from showing up as the woman you already are.

If this note resonated with you, this is your sign to stop hiding.

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