In today's episode, I am sitting down with my dear friend Jo for a messy (but timely) conversation about race, tokenism, female leadership, how she's navigating the nuances of using her voice in our current climate as a Filipino-American, and her personal experiences of feeling"less than" because of the color of her skin.
Jo Encarnacion is a life and relationship coach who helps womxn: ⚡️LIVE life on purpose ⚡️CREATE play + pleasure in their relationships ⚡️CONNECT with their sexual power
She is also a queer, polyamorous, Filipino-American womxn in progress!
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I won’t be your token woman of color; I want to be chosen for me.
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https://www.instagram.com/gofitjo/
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https://www.gofitjo.com/
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Gratitude Practice-At the end of our convo, Jo grounds us with a gratitude practice. Here's why:
An endocrine system boost comes from inducing positive emotions when conjuring gratitude alongside the exponential impact of sharing good news with trusted others. This is called capitalization.
Benefits:
Opens the mind to learning
Chemical boost
Allows the nervous system to calm down
An added benefit of starting with gratitude is that positive emotions support brain function and by taking the time to get into a positive mindset we prime our brains for learning.
At the neurochemical level, feelings of gratitude are associated with an increase in the neural modulation of the prefrontal cortex, the brain site responsible for managing negative emotions like guilt, shame, and violence.
Also, at the neurochemical level, gratitude acts as a catalyst for neurotransmitters like serotonin, dopamine, and norepinephrine – the ones that manage our emotions, anxiety, and immediate stress responses.