If you’ve ever wondered how books shape who you are—not just what you know—today’s episode is for you. I sit down with David Ask, an entrepreneur, coach, and soon-to-be author, to explore why reading matters for anyone who wants to grow, create, or simply feel more grounded. We talk about how the right books can help you discover your true identity, and David shares why starting with “who” you are matters more than chasing a goal or purpose without self-awareness.
If you’re a podcaster or creator, you’ll walk away with two fresh insights:
— How the practice of reading—even just a few books a year—can spark new connections and shift your creative outlook.
— The real difference between grit and resilience, plus how knowing that difference can shape the projects and stories you pursue.
We also get a peek into David’s journey writing his new book, and why the process itself has helped him—and can help us—go deeper on what really matters, both in work and in life.
Connect with David Ask
Website: https://davidaskmusic.com/
Twitter: https://x.com/davidaskmusic
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Chapters
00:00 Celebrating National Read a New Book Month
01:03 David’s Most Impactful Reads
02:27 Lessons Learned Writing Guardians of Grit
05:21 Finding Time and Motivation to Read
07:08 Why “Start With Who,” Not “Why”
10:11 Books and Stories for Identity
12:39 Nature, Personality, and Finding Identity
14:10 The Role of Stories in Self-Discovery
15:28 Grit vs. Resilience Explained
17:24 Introducing Guardians of Grit
19:56 What David Hopes Readers Take Away
21:03 Where to Find David and His Work