God expects us to honor our promises and commitments, even if we do not remember them. God may choose to withhold blessings because of broken promises, even those made by previous generations.
A church has many ministries. Without people who's gift is in earning and giving, a church may be unable to support the ministries they are called to do.
God's elections are made even before birth according to foreknowledge of a persons choices. God knows the outcome and prepares blessings for those who will choose sacred over those who will choose profane.
Let it go and live a wonderful life! This message is on how to move and not become a victim. A great life is waiting for you if you will quit hurting yourself.