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Disclaimer: This is a fictional narrative inspired by real-world challenges to foster empathy and understanding.

1. Setting and Initial Discovery

In 1983 at Ricks College in Rexburg, Idaho, Kathy, newly married and eager to start a family, learned she had a rare genetic condition called Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome (AIS). Although she was born with XY chromosomes, her body developed as female due to resistance to male hormones.

2. Cultural and Religious Context

Within her conservative LDS community, traditional gender roles defined women as nurturers and men as providers. Kathy was deeply involved in her church, serving as second counselor in the Relief Society. However, after word of her diagnosis spread, the welcoming atmosphere changed. People grew uneasy, and she became the subject of whispered conversations.

3. A Bishop’s Response

Kathy and her husband sought counsel from their bishop, who initially offered reassurance by emphasizing the sacredness of their temple-sealed marriage. Over time, his support waned until he suggested the marriage might not be valid in God’s eyes. Gossip within the ward increased, invitations dwindled, and Kathy’s release from one of her church callings signaled a clear shift in how others perceived her.

4. Family Ties and Redefining “Family”

Alongside community challenges, Kathy encountered mixed reactions within her extended family. While some relatives withdrew, others remained unwavering in their love and support. A few uncles, a close cousin, and a compassionate aunt reminded her she was cherished no matter what. Through these experiences, Kathy realized that the concept of family goes beyond blood or formal ties. She discovered new depths of connection and understanding from those who stood by her side.

5. Kathy’s Resilience

In the face of ward rejection and a crumbling marriage, Kathy chose to pursue medical school, determined to understand her own biology. Through intensive study of anatomy, genetics, and endocrinology, she found both academic success and personal healing. Recognizing she was not alone—many people grapple with complex identities—she committed herself to helping others who face similar societal barriers.

6. New Horizons in Seattle

Upon completing her residency, Kathy moved to Seattle, where a more progressive medical environment allowed her to focus on transgender medicine and gender-affirming research. She joined a team investigating hormone therapy and offered free monthly consultations to those in search of empathetic healthcare. Her advocacy expanded to legislative testimony and pushing for improved access to gender-affirming care. Surrounded by new colleagues, activists, and the loyal relatives who had never left her side, Kathy experienced the belonging she had once only imagined.

7. Core Themes to Reflect On

Kathy’s story illustrates how rigid gender norms and institutional biases can fracture faith, community ties, and self-worth. It also demonstrates how resilience and dedicated learning can lead to healing, breaking down stigma along the way. By comparing her conservative upbringing to her embracement of scientific research and advocacy.

8. Final Thoughts

Kathy’s journey underscores the reality that human differences are threads of vibrancy rather than defects. Her life’s mission—rooted in empathy and open-minded inquiry—offers an alternative to the misunderstandings that breed exclusion. From the pews of Rexburg to the labs of Seattle, she has shown that a true community forms around compassion and understanding rather than judgment. Through redefining family and standing firm in her identity, she illuminates how even in the darkest moments, hope and light can prevail.

Podcast Notes: Surviving the Explosions, Inside and Out

• Trigger Warning: This episode discusses explosions, loud noises, and the stress of military training. Please listen with care.

• Navigating a System Not Built for Me:

• The story of my grenade training and the sensory overload that nearly broke me.

• How autism shaped my experience in the trenches, amplifying fears and resilience.

• Lessons in Resilience:

• Resilience is not about invincibility; it’s about trying, failing, and moving forward despite fear.

• Surviving systems and challenges that weren’t designed for neurodiverse minds.

• Takeaways for Listeners:

• You’re not defined by your worst moments—keep going, even if progress is slow.

• Healing and growth happen in community; find your people and lean on them.

• Closing Thoughts:

• My grenade didn’t fly far enough, but I’ve come further than I thought possible.

• Stay odd, stay strong—together, we can face life’s explosions.

Thank you Sgt Fairchild for saving my life. I didn’t see it all until now.

Once upon a time, in the cozy chaos of my kitchen, I offered my friend a dish I’d lovingly prepared. It was a masterpiece of stir-fried vegetables, tantalizing spices, and, yes, tofu. But my friend’s reaction was priceless—a mix of horror and disbelief. “Tofu?” they asked, as if I’d served them alien food. “I can’t eat that. Won’t it mess with my hormones?”

Let’s unpack that tofu-phobia with science, humor, and a dash of sass—and along the way, dispel another fear: transphobia. Turns out, both have more in common than you think.

Hormones: Everyone’s Got Them

Here’s the first shocker: no one is purely “masculine” or “feminine.” Every human body produces estrogen and testosterone. The burliest lumberjack? Estrogen helps regulate his bone density. The fiercest femme fatale? Testosterone supports her energy levels. Hormones don’t make us who we are—they just keep us functioning.

Tofu, the food so unfairly maligned, contains phytoestrogens, plant-based compounds that mimic estrogen. But before you run screaming from your miso soup, let’s clear something up: phytoestrogens are not the same as human estrogen. They’re weaker and don’t throw your hormone levels out of whack. So, no, your tofu tacos won’t “feminize” anyone.

The Irony of Tofu-Phobia

Here’s the kicker: the “manliest” steak dinner might expose you to more estrogen than tofu ever could. Why? Industrially farmed animals are often treated with hormones to grow faster. So next time someone sneers at tofu, maybe hand them a fact sheet along with their steak knife.

What This Has to Do With Transphobia

Just as people fear tofu for imaginary reasons, transphobia thrives on myths. People worry that embracing trans identities challenges their understanding of gender, just as tofu challenges their idea of “real food.” But the truth? Just like you don’t need to fear tofu’s impact on masculinity, you don’t need to fear someone’s authentic self impacting your identity.

Everyone’s unique mix of traits, whether hormonal or societal, makes them one of one—a phrase I embrace because I’ve walked the line of misunderstanding myself. Identity is as personal as what’s on your plate.

Embrace Your Plate—and Your Look

Whether you’re rocking ripped jeans, a ball gown, or both, that’s your look. Own it. Nobody is exactly anything, and that’s the beauty of humanity. If we can celebrate individuality in food, fashion, and gender expression, imagine the harmony we’d create.

Mic Drop Moment

So next time someone scoffs at tofu or tries to tell you who they think you are, serve them this truth:

• Tofu is healthy and versatile.

• People are complex and multifaceted.

• And life’s too short to let fear—of food or identity—define our choices.

Now, who’s ready for seconds?

Author’s Note (read at lightning speed): Side effects of attacking me may include court-mandated accommodations for autism, PTSD, and intellectual disability; loss of time, energy, and possibly dignity; and realizing I have nothing valuable to take except my tofu recipes. Consult your lawyer before proceeding.

Season 3, Blog 1: Embracing the Odd

1. Welcome to Season 3

• Reflecting on the ups and downs of readership.

• Staying true to the mantra: “One read is enough.”

2. The Power of Being Odd

• Why being different matters.

• Challenging societal norms to see things in new ways.

3. My Journey

• From a Montana nerd to an AI-powered advocate.

• Using AI to transform personal growth and therapy.

4. Turning Challenges Into Strengths

• Leaving small-town life due to exclusion.

• Finding acceptance and resilience through change and technology.

5. Why One Voice Matters

• Reaching even one person can make a difference.

• Sharing personal stories to inspire others to thrive.

6. The Gift of AI

• AI as a partner for journaling, healing, and advocacy.

• Teaching others how to leverage AI for personal growth.

7. Looking Ahead

• Upcoming AI conference with over 220 attendees.

• Continuing the mission to create a better world through individuality.

8. Takeaway for Listeners

• Embrace your oddness—it’s a strength, not a flaw.

• Use tools like AI to grow, heal, and inspire.

• Remember: The world needs your unique voice.

End with a call to action: “Stick around—this season is going to be incredible. Stay odd, stay strong!”

Growing up in a sports-obsessed small town was like living in a sitcom where the laugh track was just me nervously chuckling as a dodgeball flew past my head. My dad was the high school PE coach, author of The Winning Playbook (yes, really), and the small-town celebrity of sports motivation. Meanwhile, I was out in left field… not playing, just literally out there because someone told me it was “safe.” Spoiler alert: It wasn’t.

If you’ve ever wanted to know what it feels like to have all your classmates silently agree you belong on a team only because they have to pick you, imagine the slow, soul-crushing walk to the back of the lineup. My “athletic contribution” was a combination of standing very still and perfecting the art of shielding my face from incoming balls. Coordination? Optional. Confidence? Well, let’s just say I was still figuring out which arm to swing forward while walking.

Then there was dodgeball, the gladiatorial event of elementary PE. I quickly learned there was a kind of unspoken dodgeball survival code: if you stood in the back corner, right behind the other dodge-avoiders, you could almost guarantee safety. Why risk the painful slap of a rubber ball when you could let the brave (or overly confident) kids soak up all the heat? Call it cowardly; I call it strategy.

But then came the Army, and things took a surprising turn. Who would’ve thought the kid hiding in the corner of dodgeball games would one day be chosen to run the Olympic torch for their Military Police company? Turns out, avoiding projectiles prepares you surprisingly well for things like ruck runs and shooting competitions. I even snagged some shiny medals along the way—not bad for someone whose childhood athletic career peaked at not flinching too hard when a dodgeball came close.

And let’s not forget the added charm of being “Coach’s kid.” In a town where “we killed them” was a perfectly normal thing to say about a game, people didn’t see me—they saw “Coach’s Son.” My younger brother, on the other hand, was the star athlete, leaving me in the unfortunate role of “His Brother.” Who knew “His Brother” could be a full-time job title?

Here’s the kicker: Years later, after leaving that small town, I came to find out they still didn’t know my name. But this time, they had upgraded my title. I was now known as “the smart one that left.” No first name required, but hey, I’ll take it.

The best part? I learned to laugh about it all. Who needs a touchdown when you can nail a punchline about how bad you are at catching? These days, I see those old gym classes as the training ground for my real talent: storytelling.

The Takeaway: Redefining the Game

What if your worth wasn’t tied to how well you could throw, catch, or score? What if the kid dodging dodgeballs was actually a future Olympic champion in creativity? It’s not about fitting into someone else’s playbook; it’s about writing your own rules. And if those rules involve never going near a dodgeball again, well, that’s just good strategy.

So, to anyone out there who feels like they’re “His Brother,” “Last Pick,” or just plain invisible, know this: You might just be warming up for your real sport. And if that sport is storytelling, torch running, or being “the smart one that left”—congrats, you’re already winning.

Here’s a condensed version of the piece for an audio recording:

The Unexpected Wisdom of Cats

• Misjudged Aloofness: Cats often get labeled as “aloof,” but they’re more like whiskered Zen masters teaching us lessons in intelligence, emotion, and mindfulness—with claws.

• Advanced Intelligence:

• Cats have the brainpower of toddlers with superhero senses. They notice every detail in their environment, acting as both guardians and grumpy nap enthusiasts.

• They’re emotionally complex—capable of joy, mischief, and even grudges. Earn their trust, and they’ll reward you with affection so genuine it feels priceless.

• Respect as a Partnership:

• Cats don’t people-please. They believe in property redistribution: your chair? Their chair. Negotiating with them requires understanding their rules, like when to pet and when to stop.

• Respect their boundaries, and you’ll gain a bond deeper than expected.

• Guardians in Disguise:

• Cats protect us in unexpected ways, from alerting to dangers like fires to acting as silent therapists, purring comfort on bad days.

• Their heightened senses make them vigilant, even when they’re staring at an “empty” doorway (maybe ghosts?).

• Lessons for Life and Relationships:

• Living with cats teaches us the value of boundaries, patience, and observing unspoken cues.

• Imagine if humans applied “cat diplomacy”—honoring rules and respecting boundaries—to their relationships.

• Final Takeaway:

• Cats are here to remind us of humility, loyalty, and connection. They keep us grounded—nothing says “know your place” like a cat knocking over your coffee for fun.

Closing Thought:

Respect your cat, and they’ll teach you more about life, partnership, and self-awareness than you might expect. Stay curious. Stay odd. And always respect the cat.

When we talk about progress, what are we really measuring? Is it GDP growth, faster cars, or bigger skyscrapers? For me, true progress is defined by the care and compassion a nation extends to its people—particularly the vulnerable.

This belief came into sharp focus recently, thanks to Spain’s groundbreaking “Economy of Care” summit. Leaders, advocates, and policymakers gathered to explore care as a societal cornerstone, not a private burden. Their work is an important reminder that the strength of a society is not its ability to dominate but to nurture.

Consider this: accessible employment for people with disabilities, caregiving policies that ensure dignity, and inclusive infrastructures. These aren’t just legislative niceties; they are reflections of a nation’s soul. Spain is proving this by advocating for disability care as public policy, uniting governments, businesses, and civil society in shared purpose.

This hits home for me as someone navigating life with autism. I’ve lived through the gaps in systems that were never designed for people like me. That’s why Spain’s efforts resonate so deeply. It’s not just about providing care; it’s about valuing every person as a thread in the fabric of society.

Care as a National Compass

A nation that prioritizes care understands humanity’s interconnectedness. Supporting caregivers, funding accessible technologies, and crafting equitable policies are investments in a stronger, more compassionate society.

So, the next time someone asks, “What makes a country great?” let’s challenge them to look past the numbers. True greatness lies in how we care for one another, ensuring that no one is left behind.

Stay odd, stay human, and let’s keep pushing for a world where care is the measure of progress.

Let’s break down the rainbow alphabet soup we all know: L for lesbian, B for bisexual, G for gay, T for transgender, and then the ever-expanding “+” for our beautiful diversity. But today, we’re hitting pause on the roll call to focus on one letter that’s catching an outsized amount of society’s heat: the T.

Transgender folks have been thrust into the spotlight lately, not as heroes, but as scapegoats. Some in media and politics wield their platforms to sow division, stoking fear to bolster their own relevance and cash flow. They claim to “protect” democracy, children, or whatever suits the outrage of the day, but their real goal is to pit us against each other. And right now, our trans siblings are bearing the brunt.

Unity Is Our Power

As a community, many of us—lesbians, gays, bisexuals—can admit that while things aren’t perfect, they’ve improved a lot. Marriage equality, broader representation, safer spaces—we’ve fought for and won so much. But this is no time to rest on our laurels. It’s no time to say, “Well, I’ve got mine.” When one letter in our acronym suffers, we all lose ground.

The T Is Our Compass

Trans people have always been leaders in LGBTQ+ rights. Stonewall, the origin of Pride itself, was catalyzed by trans activists like Marsha P. Johnson and Sylvia Rivera. Yet now, in the face of hateful legislation and public vilification, they need our voices, our platforms, and our unwavering support.

Empathy as Our Weapon

The path forward demands something deceptively simple but endlessly powerful: empathy. This isn’t about token gestures; it’s about understanding that when a trans person’s rights are under attack, so are the principles of freedom, equity, and love that bind us as a community.

Action Items for Allies

1. Educate Yourself: Learn about trans history, the challenges they face, and their incredible resilience.

2. Speak Out: Confront transphobia when you see it—online, in your workplace, and at your family dinner table.

3. Support Trans-Led Organizations: Groups like the Sylvia Rivera Law Project and Transgender Law Center are on the frontlines of this fight.

4. Vote: Anti-trans bills are rampant. Your vote can make the difference in who gets to make laws affecting our community.

5. Check Your Privilege: If you’re part of the LGBTQ+ community but not trans, recognize your relative privilege and use it to uplift trans voices.

No Letter Left Behind

The truth is, the fight for LGBTQ+ rights isn’t over—not until every single one of us can live without fear. Together, we’re stronger, smarter, and more resilient. Let’s not wait for things to get better; let’s make them better. Let’s honor our trans family by standing shoulder to shoulder with them.

The rainbow is most vibrant when all its colors shine.

Stay strong. Stay proud. Stay united.

Hello, dear readers—Oddly Robbie here. Today, let’s peel back the layers of our shared humanity, reflecting on a truth as old as time but often forgotten in the shuffle of modern life: how we treat the so-called “least of us” says everything about who we are.

Raised in a deeply religious setting, I often heard sermons about love, charity, and humility. Yet, it baffled me to see such stark contradictions between the preached word and the practiced world. The concept of loving thy neighbor was often reserved for those who fit a narrow mold, leaving out those labeled as “lesser.” But here’s the twist: this catch-all judgment reveals more about the judge than the judged.

In many religious traditions, there’s a core teaching that echoes loud and clear: you can’t have “lessers.” The divine doesn’t rank souls, and humanity’s great calling is to treat everyone—foreigners, outsiders, the misunderstood, and the different—with grace. This isn’t just a moral checklist; it’s the cornerstone of any society that dares to call itself compassionate.

The Danger of Othering

The word “Samaritan” was revolutionary in its time, signaling the inclusion of those dehumanized by cultural and social boundaries. Today, we face our own Samaritans—those pushed to the margins because of who they are, how they live, or the customs they cherish. Immigrants. LGBTQ+ folks. Neurodiverse individuals. People navigating homelessness or poverty. And here’s the sobering truth: how we treat these groups reflects the health of our collective soul.

Too often, we hear labels thrown around like weapons, turning people into “others” and closing the door on understanding. But every label—be it “lesser,” “foreign,” or anything else—is a choice to devalue someone who carries the same human spark as you.

A Call to Action: Feed, Clothe, House, Love

The good news is, we can do better. And it’s not complicated. This is your refining day—a chance to rise above the noise of division and choose empathy. Whether it’s advocating for affordable housing, supporting mental health services, or simply extending kindness to someone overlooked, the path forward is paved with small, meaningful acts.

Let’s push past the cynicism that tells us hate is useful—it’s not. Hate poisons the well from which we all drink. Empathy, on the other hand, is healing.

Reflections from Robbie

As someone who often passes for “normal” but feels worlds apart, I’ve seen both sides. Treated with kindness one day and suspicion the next, I’ve come to believe that the ultimate test of a society isn’t its wealth, power, or beauty—it’s how it embraces its differences.

Let today be a refining day for us all. Stand up for those dismissed as “lesser.” Feed them, clothe them, house them, love them. Not because they are weak or broken, but because they are human, just like you.

So here’s my challenge: embrace this truth, live it boldly, and let your newfound empathy be a light in the dark. We can change the course of our lives—and the world—starting now.

Stay odd, stay kind.