Stop Confusing Your Free Time with Your Availability.

In this episode, I’m catching you up on my latest kitchen win—a DIY Biscoff cookie butter dirty matcha—and why I might never step foot in a Starbucks again. But beyond the foam, we’re getting into some heavy-hitting realizations about how we navigate relationships and selfhood.

What’s inside this episode:

• The "Wednesday Love" Routine: Why I’m reclaiming my private rituals and why "decentering" isn't just a buzzword—it's a lifestyle.

• The Destiny’s Child Deep Dive: Re-listening to Destiny Fulfilled at 35 and realizing how those lyrics gave away the "game" on toxic cycles.

• Free Time vs. Availability: A call to action for women to stop erasing their hobbies and peace the moment a new person enters the chat.

• The "Loser Epidemic": Why being a "safe space" shouldn't mean staying silent about bad behavior.

• Parenting & Healing: How being a "boy mom" who isn't afraid to roughhouse is helping me heal my own inner child.

Whether you're here for the coffee recipes, the Scandal commentary, or the reality check you didn't know you needed, pull up a chair. It’s time to stop watching ourselves (and others) die slowly and start living with intention.

In this episode, I share a masterclass on navigating the "wild" world of divorce, discipline, and digital boundaries. I start by discussing how Christy and Desmond are handling their public split with grace and brand consistency.

I also dive into the controversy of "embarrassment" as a form of punishment, arguing that it often breeds more harm than good. Sharing a personal moment with my son, Kyrie, I reflect on a recent tantrum at the store and how I’m learning to adapt my own discipline style to meet his needs as an autistic child.

Finally, I address the "support my business" culture on social media, reminding us all that friends aren't obligated to be our marketing team, and why sometimes, ending a situation on "bad terms" is actually the healthiest move for your peace.

In this episode, we dive deep into the importance of slowing down and honoring the habits and goals we’ve already built. Moving away from a timeline-driven life, the discussion explores finding peace in the current season—even if that means taking a week to finally unpack a suitcase!

We also turn our attention to the trending conversations surrounding influencer culture and church leadership, including:

• The Parasocial Trap: Why we feel so connected to couples like Christy and Desmond, and why we need to remember that "content is just content."

• Relationship Patterns: Why choosing a partner who has learned to be alone is vital for a healthy future.

• Leadership Under the Microscope: Reflecting on Druski’s recent "pastor skit" and the uncomfortable truths it reveals about modern church celebrity culture and accountability.

• Motherhood Moments: A lighthearted look at life with a toddler who is officially ready for the next flight.

Join me for a candid conversation about living with intention, questioning the leadership we follow, and embracing the "slow" in a fast-paced world.

"I had an issue with distributing the benefit of the doubt the wrong way."

We’re kicking off 2026 with a deep dive into introspection, family roots, and the radical necessity of "pruning" our lives for growth. After a restorative two-week trip to Pensacola to connect with family and reflect on a massive 2025, our host is back to share the clarity that comes from slowing down.

In this episode, we explore why we often ignore our inner voice to accommodate others' recurring patterns. If you’ve ever found yourself giving "grace" to someone who has already shown you exactly who they are, this conversation is for you.

In this episode, we discuss:

• 2026 Vision: The goals for the year ahead, including 15+ visual episodes and more guest interviews.

• Family Roots & Reflections: A personal look into the host's family history and the beauty of watching a new generation connect with their elders.

• The Forgiveness Challenge: Insights from the first seven days of looking inward and identifying where we "play ourselves" by not speaking up.

• The Benefit of the Doubt: Why this gift is meant for strangers and projections, not for people whose patterns you already know.

• The Power of Pruning: Why letting "dead things" stay in your garden suffocates the living, and why it’s time to weed out relationships that leave you questioning your worth.

"When things die in a garden and you leave them there, it starts to suffocate the living things." It’s time to stop giving away your peace to people who return it "void."

Join the Forgiveness Challenge: Check the links below to sign up and receive the materials for Week 1 and Week 2!

Connect with Wednesday Love:

• Book: https://linktr.ee/JordynAnese?utm_source=linktree_profile_share

This episode is where I express my gratitude for the year!

My linktree: https://linktr.ee/JordynAnese?utm_source=linktree_profile_share

This episode is tackling me preparing for the book signing and how I’m feeling about marketing the book myself! I also talk about community support & the whole popularity contest of networking.

Book link: https://a.co/d/2kM31ig

Substack: https://substack.com/@jordynanese?r=2qciwk&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=profile

Forgiveness challenge: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSflxvKmu9O8Z01tP85bRjEuTU3T4mUl0hHyJaWsSTglr3mPoQ/viewform?usp=header

This week's episode covers a lot of ground! After publishing my book (order here: https://a.co/d/1uuuqb1 ) and becoming an author, the first question is: What’s the next chapter for me?

I'm also giving you the scoop on my book signing event on December 16th (4:30 PM - 6:30 PM) at Elle Jae Essentials 1214 University Ave Unit 2, Flint. (Facebook event: https://www.facebook.com/share/1Q7JqLTU5b/?mibextid=wwXIfr)

Then, things get personal: I discuss my dating standards—do they make me too strict? And I share my powerful reason for choosing sexual abstinence.

Listen now and let me know your opinion on my dating rules!

Flintside article about my book: https://flintside.com/forgive-them-and-parent-better-an-interview-with-jordyn-mickens/

I mentioned my book here make sure you check it out on Amazon!

I also mention my Substack for the readers be sure to check that out!

Substack: https://substack.com/@jordynanese?r=2qciwk&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=profile

Book: https://a.co/d/8a6QHyq

What's good, y'all? This week, we've got a jam-packed episode covering celebrity gossip, real-life updates, and a special announcement for my loyal listeners!

We're kicking things off in The Shade Room with the latest on Summer Walker and the drama she's navigating. Then, we switch gears to Hip-Hop's biggest rivalry: 50 Cent and Diddy. You know 50 is always on one, and we've got the scoop on his latest move against Sean Combs.

On a more personal note, I'm getting vulnerable and sharing an update on my current journey with parenting—the good, the bad, and the chaotic!

The BIG News: I'm making a major announcement about my up-and-coming book! The e-book is now available for pre-order over on Amazon. Plus, we're showing love to a fellow author, Bry Walker, who just dropped a new book of her own.

Listen now, and make sure you tap the links below to support both authors!

📚 Links Mentioned

Pre-Order My Book on Amazon: https://a.co/d/6JKqw2W

Check Out Bry Walker's New Book: https://stan.store/BryWalker?fbclid=IwZnRzaAOT0VlleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZAo2NjI4NTY4Mzc5AAEeBG26BfH2O19CV7XbKk_51V6gRYTCcqWXsetwIbXLWA67aLARECqltK1ik-8_aem_U86b6wn71t6ZQDqTOyg66Q

This is the first time I’ve recorded late. Check it out!