Surgery with an upper limb difference is something that gets talked about a lot. Some people need it for medical reasons, others may be thinking about it for cosmetic reasons.
Megan talks to Leah, who has so far had 57 operations on her upper limb difference at the age of 23. From hospital rooms to school corridors, she shares how constant procedures shaped her confidence, independence, and identity.
This conversation focuses on the emotional side of surgeries (the isolation, frustration, and “why me?” moments), as well as the physical grind of recovery and adapting, including having to relearn life as a right-handed person. Leah also opens up about navigating a medical system that can feel overwhelming and impersonal, especially as you transition from being a kid to advocating for yourself as an adult.
She talks frankly about cosmetic surgeries the pain, the pressure, the confidence boost, and the complicated feelings that can come with changing your body. Plus, she touches on something not enough people talk about: how hard it can be to find clothes that actually work and feel good with a limb difference.
Most importantly, this episode is about resilience, community, and owning your own story. Whether you’re navigating surgeries, figuring out your style, or learning how to speak up in medical spaces, Leah’s journey is a reminder that you’re not alone and that your voice matters.
Leah's views are her own and not indicative of the charity as a whole.
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