What happens when one chapter of your life ends and you realise you’re ready for something more?

In this episode, I’m sharing the real story behind Next Chapter Society — why I created it, what was missing from the social world for me, and why I decided to build the community I couldn’t find.

From making new friends as an adult and meeting interesting people, to creating new experiences, travelling, going out, trying new things and simply having more fun, Next Chapter Society is about connection without the agenda.

No dating pressure. No forced networking. No need to fit into a particular box.

Just good people, great experiences and the freedom to create your own next chapter.

If you’re ready to meet new people, make new friends and say yes to more of life, this is for you.

Find out more and join the community:

www.nextchaptersociety.co.uk

What happens when a simple afternoon out leaves you questioning whether you belong?

In this deeply personal episode, I share a recent experience that genuinely stopped me in my tracks. What should have been an ordinary visit to a social venue became something much bigger—a reflection on invisible barriers, gatekeeping, elitism, and the growing challenge of finding spaces where people truly feel welcome.

This isn't about calling anyone out. It's about exploring how seemingly small interactions can have a lasting impact, why so many adults struggle to make new friends, and how hidden barriers quietly shape the communities we build.

I also talk about why this experience has strengthened my mission with Next Chapter Society and why I believe we need more communities built on kindness, connection and belonging—not status or exclusivity.

And sometimes... when one door closes, another opens. I'll also share the exciting opportunity that came out of one of the most disappointing afternoons I've had in a long time.

Watch this space...

• Why belonging matters more than ever
• The difference between rules and gatekeeping
• How elitism and snobbery create invisible barriers
• Why adults are finding it harder to make friends
• How hidden barriers affect confidence and belonging
• Why one interaction can shape how someone feels forever
• Why creating welcoming social spaces matters
• How this experience has strengthened the mission behind Next Chapter Society
• Why communities should open doors—not close them

If this episode resonated with you and you're looking for a community where people genuinely want to see one another succeed, we'd love to welcome you.

Join Next Chapter Society here:

👉 https://www.hyperbaric-house.com/next-chapter-society

No cliques.

No gatekeeping.

No elitism.

Just good people, meaningful conversations, new friendships, and opportunities to connect, grow and belong.

Have you ever walked into a place and instantly felt like you didn't belong?

Or have you experienced a community that made you feel welcome from the very first moment?

I'd genuinely love to hear your experiences.

Let's start talking about the hidden barriers that too often go unnoticed—and, more importantly, let's start building communities where everyone feels they belong.

Because the world doesn't need more gatekeepers.

It needs more door openers.

🎙️ EPISODE 11: FFS WE MUST STOP OUTSOURCING OUR WORTH

Why dating apps, networking groups, gurus and validation-seeking keep pulling you away from yourself.

Are you constantly looking outside yourself for proof that you're enough?

In this episode, I'm talking about something that's become a huge problem in today's world: outsourcing our worth.

Whether it's dating apps, networking groups, self-development gurus, manifestation coaches, social media validation, or people promising to "fix" your life, many industries profit from your self-doubt.

The truth?

The moment you genuinely know your worth, you become much harder to manipulate, recruit, sell to, or control.

I'm sharing why vulnerable moments make us easy targets, how to spot the red flags, and why real growth isn't found in another course, another membership, or another person's approval.

It's found by coming home to yourself.

This is a raw conversation about self-worth, healing, boundaries, trusting your intuition, and learning to lead your own life instead of following someone else's script.

Because your worth was never missing.

You were just taught to look for it in the wrong places.

✓ Why people outsource their worth without realising it

✓ The business model behind insecurity

✓ Dating apps and the validation trap

✓ Networking groups, gurus and false belonging

✓ The difference between empowerment and dependency

✓ Why real self-development isn't always glamorous

✓ Learning to trust your own voice again

✓ How to stop becoming someone else's business model

✓ Coming home to yourself

"The moment you stop outsourcing your worth, you stop becoming somebody else's business model."

NCS Society is a community for people creating their next chapter with honesty, courage and connection.

No gurus.

No hierarchy.

No pretending.

Just real conversations, real growth and real people finding their way back to themselves.

Follow NCS Society or join us https://www.hyperbaric-house.com/next-chapter-society

Real Talk. Real Growth. Real Freedom.

"You're not welcome here."

It's probably the last thing you'd expect to hear from someone building a community.

But what if the most authentic communities aren't the ones that say everyone is welcome...

They're the ones that are honest about the mindset they exist to nurture.

In this episode, I'm challenging the idea that community is something you find.

Instead, I explore why so many of us have outsourced our social lives, our confidence and our sense of belonging—waiting for someone else to organise the events, make the introductions or create the friendships we long for.

I share why I created the Next Chapter Society, not as another networking group or social club, but as a platform for proactive adults across South Manchester who are ready to stop waiting and start creating the life they want.

If you're looking for someone to rescue you, this episode may feel uncomfortable.

If you're ready to take ownership of your life, your friendships and your next chapter...

Welcome.

✨ Why "everyone is welcome" isn't always the truth

✨ The difference between being open to everyone and being ready for everyone

✨ Why most people don't actually need another community—they need to stop waiting

✨ The hidden cost of outsourcing your social life

✨ Why belonging starts with belonging to yourself

✨ The difference between consumers and contributors

✨ Why confidence comes after taking action

✨ The philosophy behind the Next Chapter Society

✨ Why genuine community is created, not consumed

This episode is for people who are ready to...

✔ Stop waiting to be invited.

✔ Stop waiting until they feel confident.

✔ Stop expecting someone else to organise their life.

✔ Create opportunities instead of consuming them.

✔ Build genuine friendships through shared experiences.

✔ Take responsibility for their own happiness and connection.

• Where in your life are you still waiting for permission?
• Are you looking for community... or are you looking for certainty?
• Do you expect other people to create opportunities that you could create yourself?
• What would you do this week if you stopped waiting to be chosen?
• What invitation could you make instead of waiting for one?

Don't wait for someone else to organise your weekend.

Create one opportunity yourself.

Invite someone for a coffee.

Go for a walk.

Book the padel court.

Visit the new café.

Explore somewhere you've never been.

Do the thing you were already planning to do...

And simply leave the door open for someone else to join you.

Because community isn't built by waiting.

It's built by people willing to go first.

The Next Chapter Society is a platform for proactive adults across South Manchester who believe life is meant to be lived—not waited for.

This isn't another networking group.

It's not a dating app.

It's not an events company.

It's a different way of thinking about community.

Instead of waiting for someone else to organise your social life, you're encouraged to create opportunities through the life you're already living.

Going for a walk?

Invite someone.

Trying a new restaurant?

Share it.

Fancy a game of padel?

Ask who wants to join.

The idea is simple:

Live your life anyway... and leave the door open for others to walk alongside you.

Because the strongest communities aren't built by one organiser.

They're built by lots of people taking small acts of initiative.

If that resonates with you, we'd love to welcome you when you're ready.

Find out more:

https://www.hyperbaric-house.com/next-chapter-society

Or...

Or...

Or...

If this episode challenged the way you think about belonging, share it with someone who's ready to stop waiting and start creating.

And if you enjoyed the conversation, I'd love it if you left a review. It helps the podcast reach more people who are looking for something deeper than surface-level connection.

Remember... your next chapter doesn't begin when someone invites you in. It begins when you decide to open the door yourself.

When was the last time you felt genuinely excited about your life?

Not because something extraordinary happened, but because you woke up with a sense of purpose, curiosity and momentum.

In this episode, we're talking about your "umph"—that inner spark that fuels your energy, your confidence and your willingness to embrace life.

So many of us believe we've lost it, but the truth is... your umph isn't gone.

It's just been buried beneath years of self-doubt, people-pleasing, routine and waiting for the "right time."

We'll explore why motivation isn't something you wait for, why curiosity is one of your greatest superpowers, and how taking small, imperfect actions can reignite your passion for life.

If you've been feeling stuck, uninspired or like you've forgotten who you are, this episode is your reminder that your next chapter starts with one simple question:

What am I curious enough to try next?

✨ What your "umph" really is—and why it matters

✨ Why most people don't lose themselves, they simply stop listening to themselves

✨ The myth that motivation comes before action

✨ How curiosity can become your greatest guide

✨ Why routine slowly drains our energy without us noticing

✨ The power of trying something before you feel ready

✨ Why confidence is built through action, not thinking

✨ How your energy inspires the people around you

✨ Why creating your own experiences leads to a richer life

• When do you feel most alive?

• What have you stopped doing because you think you're too old, too busy or too late?

• What are you genuinely curious about right now?

• If fear wasn't in the way, what would you try this month?

• Where in your life are you waiting instead of moving?

Don't spend this week looking for motivation.

Create momentum instead.

Choose one thing you've been curious about.

Book the class.

Take the walk.

Visit the café.

Start the hobby.

Send the message.

Make the invitation.

Don't wait until you feel confident.

Confidence is built by doing.

Your umph grows every time you choose action over hesitation.

One of the reasons I created the Next Chapter Society was because I believe adults need more opportunities to explore, reconnect with themselves and create meaningful connections through shared experiences.

It's a platform for proactive adults across South Manchester who are ready to stop waiting for life to happen and start creating it.

Whether that's discovering a new hobby, inviting people for a walk, trying somewhere new or simply saying, "I'm doing this anyway, who wants to join?"

It's about building a life you're excited to wake up to—and finding others who value curiosity, courage and genuine connection along the way.

Find out more at:

https://www.hyperbaric-house.com/next-chapter-society

Or...

Or...

If this conversation sparked something in you, share it with someone who's been feeling stuck, uninspired or ready for a fresh start.

And if you enjoyed the episode, I'd be so grateful if you'd leave a review. It helps more people discover the podcast and join a growing community of people who are choosing curiosity over comfort and action over waiting.

Until next time… stay curious, keep moving, and don't forget to find your umph.

The Community Isn't Here to Save You

We're constantly told to "find your tribe," "join a community," and "find your people."

But what if the problem isn't that you haven't found the right community...

What if you've been waiting for one to save you?

In this episode, I challenge some uncomfortable truths about self-abandonment, the identity of being an "empath," and why so many of us outsource our happiness, confidence and social lives to other people.

I also share why I created the Next Chapter Society—not as another networking group or events company, but as a radical social experiment.

A platform where proactive adults stop waiting to be invited and start creating the life they want.

If you've been waiting for someone to organise your social life, this episode might be uncomfortable.

If you're ready to take responsibility for creating meaningful connections, it could change the way you think about community forever.

✨ Why identifying as an "empath" can sometimes be a form of self-abandonment

✨ The difference between empathy, compassion and emotional responsibility

✨ Why burnout isn't always caused by caring too much

✨ The hidden cost of waiting to be chosen

✨ Why most communities unintentionally encourage dependency

✨ What real belonging actually looks like

✨ Why confidence comes after action—not before it

✨ The philosophy behind the Next Chapter Society

✨ How to stop consuming community and start creating it

Are you waiting for someone else to create the life you want... or are you prepared to lead it yourself?

The Next Chapter Society is a social platform for proactive adults across South Manchester who want genuine connection without waiting for someone else to organise their life.

It's not a dating app.

It's not a networking group.

It's not another community where one person creates everything while everyone else consumes it.

It's a platform built on one simple idea:

Live your life anyway—and invite others to join you.

Whether it's a walk, a coffee, a paddleboarding session, co-working, a run, dinner or trying somewhere new, the invitation starts with you.

Because meaningful connection isn't something you find.

It's something you create.

If that resonates, we'd love to welcome you.

Find out more:

https://www.hyperbaric-house.com/next-chapter-society

If this episode resonated with you, I'd love to hear your biggest takeaway.

🎙️ EPISODE 3: WHY MAKING FRIENDS AS AN ADULT IS SO BLOODY WEIRD

Welcome back to The Next Chapter Experiment.

In this episode, Gem tackles a topic that doesn't get talked about nearly enough: adult friendships, loneliness, identity and what happens when life doesn't quite look the way you imagined it would.

Because let's be honest...

Making friends as an adult is weird.

One minute you're surrounded by people through school, work, relationships and family life. Next, you realise your social circle has quietly become smaller, life has become busier, and you're wondering where everyone disappeared to.

But this episode isn't really about making friends.

It's about something much deeper.

It's about reconnecting with yourself.

In This Episode

✨ Why social media has convinced us everyone else has their life sorted

✨ The problem with toxic positivity and always showing the highlight reel

✨ Why so many people feel disconnected despite being constantly connected

✨ The reality of becoming an empty nester, a new singleton, widowed, divorced or even a "single married person"

✨ Why friendships often disappear when life changes

✨ The importance of taking responsibility for your next chapter

✨ How to rebuild confidence, identity and a stronger sense of self

✨ Why energy matters more than age, relationship status or job title

The Truth About Next Chapter Society

Next Chapter Society isn't built around people who have perfect lives.

It's built around people who have been through real life.

People who have experienced loss, change, disappointment, setbacks and uncertainty.

But instead of staying stuck there, they've decided to keep showing up.

To try new things.

To meet new people.

To take ownership of what happens next.

Because the people who thrive in their next chapter aren't necessarily the people who've had it easiest.

They're the people who keep moving forward.

The Big Idea

Next Chapter Society isn't really about friendship.

Friendship is what happens along the way.

It's about energy.

It's about surrounding yourself with people who are curious, proactive and willing to participate in life.

People who don't wait to be rescued.

People who don't spend years blaming their circumstances.

People who ask:

"Right then... what's next?"

Join Next Chapter Society

If you're ready to stop sitting on the sidelines and start creating your next chapter, we'd love to welcome you.

👉Learn more or Join us

About The Next Chapter Experiment

Hosted by Gem, founder of Next Chapter Society.

A podcast about friendship, reinvention, wellbeing, identity, adventure and building a life that feels aligned with who you are now — not who you used to be.

Because your next chapter isn't about becoming someone else.

It's about coming home to yourself and creating a life that feels good from the inside out.

And the best chapters are rarely the ones we planned. ✨

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🎙️ EPISODE 10: WE NEED TO TALK ABOUT THE "WE MUST CATCH UP" LIARS

Welcome back to The Next Chapter Experiment.

This week, Gem tackles one of the biggest myths in modern adult life:

"We must catch up soon."

Do we though?

Because let's be honest...

How many times have you bumped into someone, promised to organise a coffee, a drink, a walk or a catch-up... and then done absolutely nothing about it?

No judgement.

We've all done it.

But somewhere between good intentions, busy diaries, work, family, golf, padel, Pilates, dog walks and life generally doing its thing, many of us have become experts at talking about connection rather than actually creating it.

In This Episode

✨ Why "We must catch up soon" has become a national pastime

✨ The difference between good intentions and real action

✨ How social media can create the illusion of connection

✨ Why so many adults know lots of people but rarely see them

✨ The hidden reason friendships fade over time

✨ Why organising a coffee sometimes feels harder than planning a military operation

✨ The power of becoming a "doer" rather than a "one day" person

✨ How small actions create meaningful relationships

The Truth About Adult Friendships

Most people aren't short of people.

They're short of action.

They've got contacts.

Acquaintances.

Followers.

WhatsApp groups.

People they genuinely like.

But connection doesn't happen through good intentions.

It happens through participation.

Through saying yes.

Through showing up.

Through sending the message.

Through booking the coffee.

Through getting out of the house.

The Big Idea

Intentions don't create connection. Action does.

The friendships, opportunities, experiences and memories we cherish don't come from conversations about doing something.

They come from actually doing it.

Because life isn't lived in the planning.

It's lived in the showing up.

What This Has To Do With Next Chapter Society

At its core, Next Chapter Society is a community of doers.

People who stop waiting for the perfect moment.

People who share what they're already doing and invite others to join.

People who understand that a coffee, a walk, a gym class, a game of padel or a spontaneous drink can be the start of something meaningful.

No pressure.

No awkward networking.

No endless online chatter.

Just real people creating real opportunities.

Join Next Chapter Society

If you're tired of talking about doing things and ready to start doing them, we'd love to welcome you.

👉 https://www.skool.com/next-chapter-society-5646/about?ref=fa5bc545ead44463b19ebb6f38b337c8⁠�

About The Next Chapter Experiment

Hosted by Gem, founder of Next Chapter Society.

A podcast for people who want more from life, more connection, more adventure and more meaningful experiences.

For people who know there's still plenty of life left to live and aren't prepared to spend it sitting on the sidelines.

Quote From This Episode

"Life's too short for imaginary coffees."

Challenge For This Week

Think of one person you've been saying "We must catch up soon" to.

Stop talking about it.

Send the message.

Pick a date.

Get it booked.

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🎙️ EPISODE 9: HAVE YOU OUTGROWN YOUR OWN LIFE?

Welcome back to The Next Chapter Experiment.

This week, Gem explores a question that many people secretly ask themselves but rarely say out loud:

Have you outgrown your own life?

Not because your life is bad.

Not because you're ungrateful.

Not because everything is falling apart.

In fact, this episode is for people who've built a good life.

The house.

The family.

The career.

The business.

The routines.

The responsibilities.

The life they once dreamed of.

But somewhere along the way, they've changed.

And now they're wondering whether the life they've built still fits the person they've become.

In This Episode

✨ Why "fine" can sometimes be the most dangerous place to stay

✨ The hidden challenge of evolving whilst your life stays the same

✨ Why so many people feel stuck despite having everything they thought they wanted

✨ The difference between being grateful and settling

✨ How our priorities naturally change as we move through different chapters of life

✨ Why outgrowing old routines, friendships and expectations is completely normal

✨ The importance of giving yourself permission to evolve

✨ The question that could change everything:

"What do I actually want?"

The Truth About Growth

One of the biggest myths about adulthood is that once you've built a life, you're supposed to stay exactly the same.

But life doesn't work like that.

You change.

Your experiences change you.

Your losses change you.

Your successes change you.

Your values evolve.

Your priorities shift.

And sometimes the person who created your current life isn't the same person living it today.

That's not failure.

That's growth.

The Big Idea

You can be deeply grateful for your life and still want more from it.

You can appreciate everything you've built and still feel ready for a new adventure.

You can love your life and still recognise that you're evolving.

The goal isn't to start over.

The goal is to stop pretending you haven't changed.

What This Has To Do With Next Chapter Society

At Next Chapter Society, we believe your next chapter should reflect who you are now, not who you were ten or twenty years ago.

That's why our community is full of people who are curious, open-minded and ready to create new experiences, friendships and opportunities.

Not because they're running away from their lives.

Because they're running towards a bigger, more aligned version of themselves.

Join Next Chapter Society

If you're ready to stop shrinking yourself to fit an old chapter and start creating one that feels more like you, we'd love to welcome you.

👉 https://www.skool.com/next-chapter-society-5646/about?ref=fa5bc545ead44463b19ebb6f38b337c8⁠�

About The Next Chapter Experiment

Hosted by Gem, founder of Next Chapter Society.

A podcast for people navigating change, rediscovering themselves and creating a life that feels exciting, meaningful and aligned with who they are becoming.

Because life isn't about staying the same.

It's about growing into who you're meant to be.

Quote From This Episode

"You can be grateful for your life and still want more from it."

Question To Reflect On

Have you actually outgrown parts of your life... or are you still trying to squeeze yourself into a chapter that's already finished?

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🎙️ EPISODE 8: ONE DAY ISN'T A DAY OF THE WEEK

Welcome back to The Next Chapter Experiment.

This week, Gem explores two of the most dangerous words in the English language:

"One day."

One day I'll join that class.

One day I'll book that trip.

One day I'll get fitter.

One day I'll make more time for myself.

One day I'll start living the life I keep talking about.

Sound familiar?

For many of us, especially as we move into a new chapter of life, "one day" becomes the place where dreams, plans and possibilities quietly go to gather dust.

Not because we don't care about them.

Because life gets busy.

Responsibilities take over.

And before we know it, another year has passed.

In This Episode

✨ Why "one day" can be one of the biggest traps we fall into

✨ The hidden cost of waiting until everything feels perfect

✨ Why confidence rarely comes before action

✨ How life starts to feel different when you become more aware of time

✨ The difference between planning your life and postponing it

✨ Why so many people stay stuck in "fine" for years

✨ The question that could change your next chapter:

What have you been saying "one day" about?

✨ How to stop waiting and start participating in your own life

The Truth About Time

At some point, many of us realise something powerful:

Life isn't necessarily getting shorter.

But it is getting more valuable.

We become more aware of how quickly the years pass.

How important experiences become.

How precious our time, energy and attention really are.

And that's when the question shifts from:

"What if it doesn't work?"

To:

"What if I never try?"

The Big Idea

The biggest risk isn't failure.

The biggest risk is postponing your life.

Because the perfect moment rarely arrives.

The perfect version of you isn't coming.

And most of the best things in life begin before you feel completely ready.

What This Has To Do With Next Chapter Society

Next Chapter Society is built around one simple belief:

Life is happening now.

Not when you've lost the weight.

Not when work settles down.

Not when the kids leave home.

Not when you feel more confident.

Now.

It's a community for people who are ready to stop waiting for permission and start creating experiences, memories, friendships and opportunities in the chapter they're living today.

Because the next chapter isn't something you wait for.

It's something you create.

Join Next Chapter Society

If you've been waiting for a sign, this might just be it.

👉 https://www.skool.com/next-chapter-society-5646/about?ref=fa5bc545ead44463b19ebb6f38b337c8⁠�

About The Next Chapter Experiment

Hosted by Gem, founder of Next Chapter Society.

A podcast for people who know there's still more life to live, more adventures to have and more stories to write.

For people entering a new chapter and ready to stop putting themselves at the bottom of the list.

Quote From This Episode

"The biggest risk isn't failure. The biggest risk is postponing your life."

Question To Reflect On

What have you been saying "one day" about... and what would happen if you started today instead?

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