Jim Collison

Today's Project #CravingEncouragement story comes from Jim Collison. Find him at The Average Guy website. Thanks, Jim for the encouragement, friendship, and support. Jim was one of the very first financial contributors to helping me get the Rode Rodecaster Pro here inside The Yellow Studio.

You'll hear Jim's stories at the very end of the episode.

 

"Old men are dangerous: it doesn't matter to them what is going to happen to the world."        - George Bernard Shaw

But old men are dangerous for so much more. It's not that old men don't care, it's that they've learned what to care about most. Experience has taught them what matters and what's irrelevant.

Old men are dangerous because they're able to teach younger men the things they most need to know. Nobody can teach younger men more than old men. if only younger men would listen and learn. ;)

2019 has been a year focused on the old men in my life. In the spring I lost one. Others are growing weak and frail. Old men have always been very important to me. I've lot a handful of them over the years. Old men who taught me a lot, but I know there was so much more I could have and should have learned.

Old men aren't likely so different from old women. Not when it comes to the resource they are for those who are younger.

Younger is relative. Earlier this year I lost an old man in my life. He was 74. Meanwhile, there's another old man in my life who is 96 and still going. My dad. That's a 22-year spread and it makes me wonder when a guy goes from being a young man to a man, then goes to being an old man.

To a 10-year-old boy, a 25-year-old is likely an old man.

To a 25-year-old, a 50-year-old is for sure an old man.

To the 50-year-old...well, old just takes on a very different connotation.

Narrowing down the when is important. After all, old men are dangerous so we have to figure out who the old men are! ;)

I'll leave that to you to figure out for yourself.

I happen to think old women are just as dangerous as old men. If not MORE so. ;) So I don't discriminate. I'm equally fearful.

Being dangerous isn't restricted to being fearful though. There's dangerous in a good way. Sorta like the word "bad." Then there's dangerous in a terrible way. As in, "That concert was bad." That means the concert was awful. It can be good. As in, "That concert was bad." That means the concert was awesome.

Let's talk about the fearful. I grew up learning fear very quickly. Spanking was how all good kids were brought up. Not beatings. Not abuse. Spankings. I don't think it was a regional practice either. Rather, I think it was pretty universal born from years of practice sparked by Old Testament (and New Testament) teaching on discipline. "Spare the rod, spoil the child," and all that. It clearly was a defective form of discipline and training because most of the kids I knew addressed adults as "sir" or "ma'am." Classrooms were mostly well ordered and teachers, policemen and other authority figures were shown respect by all but the very worst kids. So it was clearly NOT the way to raise and train children.

I mean it's barbaric really. Better to have every child behaving like a spoiled hellion, smarting off to teachers, flipping off police officers and general showing disdain for anybody who dare suggest he not get his way. Society is greatly improved by our intolerance for any kind of physical discipline to show kids that they are NOT in charge. After all, the kids ARE in charge so let's treat them that way. Like the royality of all knowledge and wisdom we know them to be. Just like when we were kids, right?

When I was a boy old men were dangerous. Old women more dangerous.