Pray
Read: Ecc 3:1-8.
Meditation
“Time flies,” we often say, don’t we? And probably it would be a cliché, if it weren’t such a constant and powerful reality. Time really does fly by. As children, we don’t tend to notice it. I distinctly remember waiting for my parents to stop talking after church on Sunday; five minutes felt like an eternity. In our twenties, we feel invincible, and existence still seems timeless. And yet, as life goes on, we realise the truth as the decades continue to roll by at a startling rate. The older among us are acutely aware: time flies.
In Psalm 90, Moses says, “like grass that is renewed in the morning: in the morning it flourishes and is renewed; in the evening it fades and withers.” That is what our lives are like.
Things are continually changing. An older sibling moves out of home and gets married. New babies arrive. A career changes. We move house. Elderly relatives die. The seasons of life are constantly moving, and everything continually changes.
And so, in the midst of this changing life, it is important to ask ourselves: How can we use our time well? This is why, again in Psalm 90, Moses prays: teach us to number our days. We must use what little time we have wisely, redeeming the time. In our passage, Solomon very helpfully instructs us on how to do that. This book is all about the “hevel” of life, the shortness and transient nature of existence. Solomon wants to teach us how to be aware of time so that we can use it well.
Picking up in verse 1, Solomon says: “For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven.” Let’s pause here for a moment. Solomon is not just waxing lyrical about the nature of life. Yes, we have different times and seasons, but what he is saying is far more profound. He is saying that there is an order to time. One translation puts it this way: for everything there is an appointed time.
And if time has been ordered, then someone has ordered it. We should not misunderstand Solomon here, because the overarching truth he is pointing out is that God is behind the seasons of time. God appoints times and seasons. We do not live in a random universe. Everything has a God-appointed time; for everything, there is a season. Solomon even says this explicitly in verse 11: “God has made everything beautiful in its time.” Note: God has made. As Ephesians 1:11 puts it, God “works all things according to the counsel of his will.”
Let us not beat around the bush: Solomon is saying that God is the sovereign ruler over all history. He ordains time and all its seasons. One of our hymns calls him the “Potentate of Time.”
In God’s good order, there are different seasons in life. There are appointed times for different purposes. One does not live as a child when they are 40 years old. One does not begin university studies at the age of 10, unless one happens to be a child prodigy.
There are three life-applications that flow out of this meditation.
Firstly, we must accept the seasonal nature of life. We must accept and embrace the natural changes of life. You can try to resist the change of time, and many people do, but it is as futile as trying to reverse a tidal wave with your bare hands. God has ordered it. This might seem like basic advice, and yet many people rebel against God’s ordained seasons. Our culture is often in outright rebellion against them. Everyone wants to be in their twenties. Teenagers look forward to the freedom of their twenties. People in their thirties pretend they are still in their twenties. People in their forties and fifties do everything possible to hold on to their youth. And even those actually in their twenties are often dissatisfied; all the travelling and partying in the world cannot bring true satisfaction.
Even in our final years, rather than contentment and joy in God, there is often a sad lamentation that our best is behind us, which is not true. Euthanasia is another example. One reason it is gaining traction is that people refuse to accept God’s appointed seasons, whether old age, sickness, or difficulty.
We might think ourselves immune to these mindsets. And yes, we will and should oppose euthanasia. But do we not sometimes long for a season to end, or pine after one that has gone? We do. No, says Solomon, we must embrace the seasons of life that we are in. They are ordained by God and are in his hands. Honouring Christ, fearing God, will look like living in and engaging with each season in its proper time.
Remember, this is not just Solomon speaking to us. This is Christ speaking words of wisdom to us. Christ is the wisdom of God (1 Cor 1:24; Col 2:3). He says to us: “I have saved you. You are in my hands. I have ordained the seasons of your life. Whatever comes to pass for you is under my control.” Accept these seasons and all that they bring. They may not be what you hoped for, but your seasons have been custom designed by God. He calls you to embrace them, and one day he will show you the glorious things he has accomplished through them. Do not idolise a change in circumstance; live and walk through your seasons in reliance on him.
The second application is that we ought to focus on the present season. Not only do we embrace the seasonal nature of life, we throw ourselves into each particular season. We are aware of life’s stages, the advantages and temptations of each, and we seek to please Christ in them. If we are young, we use our energy and freedom to grow in Christ and serve others. We listen to and honour those who are older because they have experience. If we are older, we do not long for days gone by. We give thanks for them, we may reminisce at times, but we do not live in a fantasy land of seasons past. Instead, we apply ourselves to the present time. We pray for the younger, mentor and disciple them, as Titus 2 instructs. As parents, we throw ourselves into the tasks of our season. As singles, we learn to take advantage of the gift of singleness while we still have it.
Prayerfully applying our minds and searching the scriptures allows us to live for Christ in whatever season we find ourselves. If we struggle with longing for what we have lost or do not yet have, we can replace daydreams with prayers of thanksgiving, recalling our present blessings one by one and giving thanks to God. We can also consider prayerfully the opportunities and advantages of the present. Remember, each season is limited. If we do not focus on the present, doing good, we may find ourselves with regret later when the time has passed. Everything changes. Christ has placed you exactly where you are, but you will not be here forever. Even our time in this world is fleeting.
Finally, we may draw from this that we are called to live fully in each moment. We must live in the moment of each day. It is easy for our minds to wander instead of focusing on what is happening now. We may think about later tonight, next weekend, or the next chapter of a book we are reading. But fearing God in each season includes applying our minds to the present moment, living in today. God wants us aware of the season and engaged in the moment, with our minds in the here and now.
Today, that might mean listening well to a sermon. Later, it might mean driving safely or going to bed on time. Jesus says in Matthew 6:34: “Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.”
When we set aside time for morning devotions, having our attention fully there is essential. At work, we keep our focus on the task. When someone is speaking to us, we listen. Whatever we do, we need to be self-aware of what is happening, why we are doing it, and deliberately engage in it. Verse 3 reminds us there is a time to break down and a time to build up. You cannot build well if your mind is on demolition; you must apply your attention appropriately to the present.
This is particularly relevant today, in an age when technology scatters our attention. Our phones ping in our pockets, drawing us away. We scroll through feeds and receive countless messages in seconds. Christ says: be self-conscious about how you use your phone. Set aside times for emails or social media. Ask yourself why you are on it, what purpose it serves, and how it helps you live for Christ. Once you know the purpose, determine how much time it deserves. Hours or minutes?
Ephesians 5:15-16 says: “Look carefully – carefully – then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time.” Time is a limited resource, and careful diligence is required to use it well. We are often aware of our money, but time is far more precious. Each second spent disappears from the bank of our lives. There is a total account, and one day it will all be spent.
When Christ saves and restores us to God, forgiving and redeeming us, he redeems our time as well. It belongs to him. He gives it to us and calls us to use it for him. Christ imparts wisdom: walk carefully and wisely. He has ordered the seasons of our lives and given us one day at a time. Live in today, focus on what is before you, and be aware of the seasonal nature of life. SDG.
Prayer of Confession & Consecration
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