Being an oldest daughter comes with advantages. You are able to ease into leadership roles naturally. Your foresight is usually pretty good. You can size up a situation immediately upon entering and getting it under control. Chaos doesn't seem to overwhelm you so much as an older daughter. You are also naturally encouraging to those around you.

Oldest daughters suffer from feeling lonely when not used for something. It's not easy being a naturally quiet leader. Restless and ready. Who shows sympathy when the same isn't always granted.

We do have to grow from that mindset and feel true rest by allowing space for someone else to take up the mantle.

In what ways was as an oldest doaughter did you find peace with your duty.

* Mookie Toujour💜

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