🎙️ Episode 25: Flip the Switch — From Victim to Victor

Ever feel stuck, passive, or discouraged? You might be operating with a victim mindset—and not even realize it.

In this episode, John and Will share hard-earned wisdom from the Montana wilderness, where a “rite of passage” trip for fathers and sons turned into a powerful lesson in mindset.

They unpack the difference between a victim mindset and a victor mindset—why it matters, how to recognize the warning signs, and how Jesus calls us to live from a place of victory, not defeat.

🔑 Topics include:
– What a “victor’s mindset” looks like in real life
– How your words reveal your mindset
– Leading your marriage, family, and faith with responsibility
– Personal stories of failure, healing, and redemption
– Why your mindset impacts not just you—but generations after you

This one’s for the man who knows there’s more, but keeps getting stuck. It’s time to flip the switch.

📖 “Thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.” — 1 Corinthians 15:57

🎙️No Plan B: Resilience, Faith, and Becoming a Green Beret

In this special travel edition of the On Assignment podcast, we’re joined by host John Harvey’s son, Austin Harvey, for a powerful, behind-the-scenes look at what it takes to become a U.S. Army Green Beret—and the mindset required for men to endure the toughest challenges life throws their way.

Austin shares his personal journey: from feeling called by God to join the Army at 19, navigating delays and COVID chaos at Fort Benning, enduring grueling physical and mental trials through airborne school and Special Forces selection, to conquering self-doubt in advanced weapons training.

This episode is about far more than military service. It’s a raw and inspiring conversation about perseverance, fighting the urge to quit, overcoming comparison, and surrounding yourself with resilient men who help you go the distance.

Whether you’re leading a family, growing a business, or battling personal trials, Austin’s story will challenge and encourage you to stay faithful to your assignment—and keep pushing forward, no matter how steep the climb.

Key Takeaways:
✅ Why there’s no substitute for training—physically, spiritually, and mentally
✅ The power of “no plan B” in facing life’s hardest moments
✅ How surrounding yourself with the right men changes everything
✅ Lessons on enduring adversity, from the barracks to the proving ground

Don’t miss this authentic, father-son conversation about resilience, calling, and what it means to live life fully On Assignment.

In this special episode of the On Assignment podcast, John and Will bring their wives, Brenda and Cydney, into the studio for an honest, unscripted conversation about marriage.

From silly arguments about socks and clutter, to deep reflections on faith, priorities, and how love matures over decades, the couples answer real-life questions drawn from a hat.

Whether you’re single, newly married, or navigating the challenges of long-term commitment, this episode offers laughter, wisdom, and practical takeaways for building a marriage that goes the distance.

Plus, discover why leaving lights on, stacking piles of stuff, or hiding socks in couch cushions might just be part of loving—and choosing—each other daily.

Key Topics:

• Quirks that drive each other crazy (and how to accept them)

• Scriptures and faith principles that anchor marriages

• Supporting each other’s dreams without losing sight of marital goals

• Recognizing disconnection—and how to reconnect

• Practical advice for couples balancing busy lives and young kids

• The difference between love when dating and love after decades together

Tune in for laughs, heartfelt insights, and a reminder that strong marriages aren’t perfect—they’re intentional.

In this episode of On Assignment, John and Will dive into what it really means to lead like Jesus—through servant leadership.

Whether you're managing a crew, leading a family, or just trying to influence the world around you, this conversation will help you drop the ego and embrace a more powerful way to lead.

Drawing from real-world experiences in construction and firefighting, biblical wisdom from Mark 10, and inspiring examples like Captain Winters from Band of Brothers, this episode is packed with practical insights for any man who wants to grow his influence by putting others first.

Learn how to build trust, shape culture, and lead in a way that honors Christ—at work, at home, and in every assignment you've been given.

Hard work isn't just about paying bills—it's about becoming a man who’s grounded, trusted, and useful.

In this episode of On Assignment, we explore the practical and spiritual importance of hard work. You’ll learn five traits of a hard worker, how discipline develops your character, and why God values men who show up, day in and day out.

Whether you’re dragging your feet or grinding every day, this conversation will challenge and encourage you to embrace the work in front of you as part of your assignment.

If you say you’re following Jesus, then there’s no room for backup plans. 

In this episode, we talk about what it means to go all-in on your faith—how to live with clarity, conviction, and courage when the world is full of distractions and compromises.

We also unpack four key traits of a fully surrendered life that every man needs to wrestle with: obedience, loyalty, faith, and purpose. 

Whether you're feeling stuck or just tired of half-hearted Christianity, this one's for you!

When a man chooses faith over fear, everything changes.

In this episode, John and Will unpack what it looks like to live boldly for Christ—whether it's praying out loud, sharing your story, or stepping into something radical.

Drawing from scripture, real-life failures, and stories of radical obedience, this episode is a call for every man to speak up, step out, and start walking in bold faith.

If you’ve been stuck in comfort or silence, this one’s for you.

What happens when connection fades in your marriage—but you’re still living under the same roof?

In this honest, hope-filled conversation, John is joined by his wife, Brenda, to talk about the daily work of staying connected, understanding your spouse, and building a marriage that goes the distance.

Whether you're married, divorced, or hoping to be married someday, this episode will equip you to lead with love, fight for connection, and break out of passive patterns that destroy intimacy.

In a world saturated with sexual confusion and compromise, how do we raise kids—especially sons—who walk in purity and purpose?

In this raw and powerful episode, John sits down with Pastor Ben Rose to unpack how fathers can lead the charge in building sexual integrity at home. Ben shares his personal story of hidden sin, devastating consequences, and ultimately, freedom through confession and discipleship. Together, they offer honest, hope-filled strategies for dads who want to break generational cycles and cultivate a culture of openness, identity, and grace in their homes.

If you're a man wrestling with your past but still committed to raising your kids differently—this one's for you.

Let’s be real—being trustworthy isn’t just about telling the truth. It’s about being the kind of man people can count on when it matters.

In this episode, Will and John pull no punches as they talk about what it really takes to become a trustworthy man.

From the hidden weight of secret failures to the power of small, consistent actions, they unpack how trust is built—or destroyed—over time.

You’ll hear raw stories of confession and restoration, practical ways to stop cutting corners, and why your word still matters in a world that says it doesn’t.

If you're tired of feeling like you’re faking it—or carrying something you’ve never dealt with—this one’s for you.

It’s time to lead from the front!