How can we include pleasure in the consent conversation? Listen as founder of Learning Consent Dr Joy Townsend goes beyond the traditional definition of consent and discusses effective role modelling and consent culture in todays society. Learning Consent delivers comprehensive relationships, sexuality and consent education programs for educational institutions and organisations. Joy shares with Naomi her passion for helping young people to catch a vision for how great communicative, connected and pleasurable sex can be.

This episode was recorded in March 2023

CONTENT WARNINGS: This episode references sexual assault and sexual violence  

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Welcome to Consent , Teaching Consent & 1800Respect 

References

Learning Consent 

Joy’s PHD “Her sexual self: A narrative investigation of young women’s sexual subjectives” 

Marie-Pierre Cleret 

UNESCO International technical guidance on sexuality education 

Comprehensive Consent Sarah Casper 

French Philosopher – communicative approach to consent 

Bad sex vs sexual violence blog 

Laurie Penny 

Secondary School Survey  

Liz Kelly’s Continuum of sexual violence 

Professor Michael Flood 

Porn literacy curriculum 

Betty Dodson 

National Student Safety Survey 

Credits

Host: Naomi Viret

Guest: Joy Townsend

Producers: Maddy Stratten & Winnie Adamson 

Music: Little Pastries Instrumental (descript) 

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Naomi is joined by Maggie Smith, a Clinical Nurse Consultant from the T150 clinic at the Albion Centre in Sydney. T150 is an innovative specialist HIV and Sexual Health Service providing holistic care for the transgender and gender diverse community in a dedicated clinical space. Maggie provides clinical insight into TransHealth and unpacks the importance of community advocacy in ensuring accessible healthcare for the trans and non-binary community.  

This episode was recorded in August 2023

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T150 & He She They 

References

Albion Centre 

Australian Professional Association for Transgender Health (AUSPATH) 

Australian Sexual Health and HIV Nurses Association (ASHHNA) 

The Gender Centre 

Brotherboys and Sistergirls 

First Nations People 

Cervical Screening (Pap Smear)

Transgender Definition 

Dr Melissa Kelly 

World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH) 

Maple Leaf House 

Binary and Non-Binary 

ACON 

Pre-Exposure prophylaxis - PrEP 

Gender affirming health care - Transhealth 

Reassignment surgery 

Cis 

Pronouns 

Medicare 

Pharmaceutical Benefit Scheme  

Reandron 

Decanoate 

ERMS 

IMS 

Blood Borne Viruses precautions 

MDA National 

Risk of Regret 

Credits

Host: Naomi Viret

Guest: Maggie Smith

Producers: Maddy Stratten & Winnie Adamson 

Music: Little Pastries Instrumental (descript) 

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Join Maddy as she sits down with Ruiqi Fan, a clinical nurse specialist working at the Sydney Sexual Health Clinic. Ruiqi talks about being an international student to now working with international students in a clinical setting, providing insight into the experience. Listen as we better understand why having multilingual nurses and interpreters is important in delivering sexual health services for the Culturally and Linguistically Diverse (CALD) communities in Australia.

This episode was recorded in June 2023 

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The International Students Health Hub & Sydney Sexual Health Centre 

References

Sydney Sexual Health Centre 

International Student Health Hub 

RMB – Chinese Yuan currency 

The Guardian 

The Daily Telegraph 

CPR training 

Vaginal douching 

Sexual Health Infolink 

Australian Healthcare System 

Provincial – China health/hospital cover 

Medicare 

ACON 

Multicultural HIV and Hepatitis Service 

Translating and Interpreting services 

PrEP campaign – ending HIV 

Caddyshack Project Instagram 

Caddyshack Project Facebook 

Credits

Host: Maddy Stratten

Guest: Ruiqi Fan

Producers: Maddy Stratten & Winnie Adamson 

Music: Little Pastries Instrumental (descript)

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How can we treat ourselves with kindness when unexpected emotions arise? Naomi sits down with psychologist Chris Cheers and reflects on the mental health impacts of lockdown on the queer and creative community. His book, The New Rulebook is a practical game changing guide to embracing uncertainty offering radical, evidence-based solutions to improve wellbeing. Providing individual psychology services and workshops to artists and creatives, and the LGBTQIA+ community, Chris is passionate about creating accessible, accepting and safe spaces.

This episode was recorded in May 2023

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Recommendations    

 The New Rulebook & QLife 

References   

Emotional Agility Susan David 

Acceptance commitment therapy 

Viktor Frankl Man’s search for meaning 

Friends by Robin Dunbar

Credits 

Host: Naomi Viret   

Guest: Chris Cheers 

Producers: Maddy Stratten & Winnie Adamson 

Music: Little Pastries Instrumental (descript) 

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Maddy catches up with Kirli Saunders and dives into the importance of language, decolonization, feminism and queer space. Kirli is a proud Gunai Woman and award-winning multidisciplinary creator and consultant. Awarded NSW Aboriginal Woman of the Year in 2020, Kirli is an experienced speaker and facilitator advocating for the environment, gender, racial equality and LGBTIQA+ rights. In this episode Kirli shares her passion for continuing connection to Country and reads a powerful poem called Based On Us from her book Returning.

This episode was recorded in October 2022

Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander listeners are advised that this episode contains the name of and discussion around a deceased person. This episode may contain words, descriptions and terms which may be culturally sensitive and reflect the views of those at the period in which the content was created. 

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AIATSIS, Kindred & Returning

References

Vale Aunty Velma Mulcahy  

Cyanotype 

Joyce Saunders

The Incredible Freedom Machines 

Matt Otley 

Bec Young 

Red Room Poetry 

Tamryn Bennett 

Jo Featherstone 

Kirli Saunders Consulting 

Bindi 

Kindred 

Returning 

Going Home Play 

Department of Education on language 

United Nations Indigenous Decades of Language 

Brotherboys and Sistergirls 

Uluru Statement 

Griffith Review Dr Lilly Brown and Genevieve Grieves 

Raise the Age 

Alok 

Heartbreak High  

Tony Birch The White Girl 

Melissa Lucashenko 

Ellen Van Neerven 

Jazz Money 

Florence Given 

The Front Left  

Gang of Youths 

Frontier War Stories 

Horror Show 

Based On Us – Poem from Returning 

Credits

Host: Maddy Stratten

Guest: Kirli Saunders 

Producers: Maddy Stratten & Winnie Adamson 

Music: Little Pastries Instrumental (descript) 

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Curious about sexology and the difference between a sex therapist, body therapist, sex coach and sex worker? Maddy chats with Aleks from The Pleasure Centre to explore why an individual or couple may seek sex therapy. Offering a safe and inclusive place, Aleks' practice is guided by multiple evidence-based therapeutic approaches. Hear about the Sex Buffet and Queering Sex concepts and how to put pleasure and desire on the menu. 

This episode was recorded in September 2022

CONTENT WARNINGS: This episode references sexual trauma  

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Recommendations

The Pleasure Centre & The Science of Sex 

References  

Tanya Koens 

Matt Tilley 

PLISSIT model 

Polyvagal Theory by Stephen Porges 

Sapiens 

Schitts Creek 

Credits

Host: Maddy Stratten

Guests: Aleks Trkjula 

Producers: Maddy Stratten & Winnie Adamson   

Music:  Little Pastries Instrumental (descript) 

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Join Maddy in conversation with Frances Turner from Nurse Nettie, answering the most commonly asked sexual and reproductive health questions by young people. Nurse Nettie is an online service that provides qualified sexual health information to young people living in New South Wales, Australia. Fran provides a glimpse behind the curtain of how the team approach answering questions without judgement, making health information accessible and inclusive. 

This episode was recorded in June 2022

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Nurse Nettie & Sexual Health Infolink (SHIL) 

References

Nurse Nettie 

NSW Health Play Safe 

Pronouns 

Sexual Health Infolink 

LGBTIQA+ community 

Labia Library  

FemFresh 

NSW Health 

Caddyshack Project 

Medicare Card 

Herpes 

Urinary Tract Infection (UTI) 

Sexually Transmissible Infections (STIs) 

Men who have Sex with Men (MSM) 

Sexual Health Clinics 

Aboriginal Medical Services 

Child Protection Units 

Mandatory Reporting Guidelines (MRG) 

Can I get an STI from that? 

Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP) 

Cervical Screening (Pap Smear)

Diethylstilboestrol (DES)

Premature ejaculation 

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) 

Citalopram 

Credits

Host: Maddy Stratten

Guests: Frances Turner from Nurse Nettie

Producers: Maddy Stratten & Winnie Adamson   

Music:   Little Pastries Instrumental (descript) 

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Listen as Naomi chats with Liz and Jan from Relationships and Private Stuff about their lived experience of working with people with disability. People on the autism spectrum, with disability or brain injury face the same issues as other people when it comes to relationships. Friendship is important. And the desire to love and be loved, whether as a friend or an intimate companion, is a drive that defines a person in a way that no disability ever can.

This episode was recorded in May 2022

CONTENT WARNINGS: This episode references sexual assault  

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Recommendations

Planet Puberty & Sexuality, Education, Counselling and Consultancy Agency (SECCA) 

References

Relationships and Private Stuff 

Lotus Project 

Family Planning 

Dateables 

Love on the Spectrum 

Sex, safe and fun guide 

Shine SA 

National Disability Insurance Scheme (NDIS) 

Jewish Care 

Participate Australia 

Anglicare  

Credits 

Host: Naomi Viret

Guests: Liz Dore & Jan McGuire  

Producers: Maddy Stratten & Winnie Adamson   

Music: Little Pastries Instrumental (descript) 

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Join Naomi as she unpacks the transgender experience with Sophie from ACON’s TransHub. TransHub is a digital and resource platform providing clear and easy information about gender affirmation and healthcare for all trans and gender diverse people in NSW. Sophie dives deep into the history of transgender language and provides insight into the trans and non-binary experience.

This episode was recorded in February 2022 

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Recommendations

Transhub & Disclosure 

References

Transhub 

ACON 

Trans Definition

Census 

Marriage equality 

Asexual 

Gender identity vs Sexual orientation 

Cisgender 

Cisalpine and Transalpine Gauls 

Pronoun 

Gender dysphoria 

Elagabalus 

Brotherboys and Sistergirls 

Gender Fluid 

Social affirmation 

Legal affirmation 

Medical affirmation 

Gender affirming doctors 

Informed Consent Medical guidelines

Top surgery 

Tucking 

Binding 

Transphobia 

Pansexual 

RuPaul's Drag Race 

Courtney Act 

Disclosure 

Norman Bates (Psycho movie) 

Ally 

Credits  

Host: Naomi Viret

Guests: Sophie Keeffe 

Producers: Maddy Stratten & Winnie Adamson   

Music: Little Pastries Instrumental (descript) 

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