Melanie Weller and Stephanie Drury discuss the weaponization of love and the legacy of James Dobson, founder of Focus on the Family. They explore how Dobson's teachings on spanking and authoritarian parenting influenced generations, linking it to broader cultural and religious issues. They delve into the neuroscience of charismatic leadership, highlighting the role of the ventromedial prefrontal cortex in reinforcing beliefs and reducing self-doubt. They also touch on the impact of early childhood trauma on neurological development and the broader societal implications of authoritarian beliefs. The conversation concludes with reflections on the power dynamics in relationships and the importance of internal authority.