(A long walk through the sequence of events leading to this path)

Debriefing following the inquisitive call to DAD

Zia doesn't know what's troubling my dad.

She asked and answered directly and feels he's just frustrated (with life). Zia is a straight shooter, if she has an issue she will let that person know what she thinks Zia is proclaiming she wanted to have my dad live with her... that was in response to him asking her to come to live with him. 

Zia thinks my dad needs drugs to calm down Zia's advice is to speak to the doctor and get him some drugs for his anxiety Zia hears the true version of the multiple TS interventions, claims ignorance we have thyroid issues in common :O 

The Zia knows how I have a weaker sibling situation The Zia seems to be understanding and sympathetic however delusional and myopic. The Zia thinks he should go home to Avenue Prison, this is the early time of the first misguided return to Avenue When he was in the hospital, I assured him I could care for him... but he did not want this but Zia seems biased to an outcome - The TS outcome, she figures his frustrations are between knowing his impositions and at the same time wanted them. Profound!

Sure, easy to see in hindsight but at the time, I thought engaging some outsider's view and influence would net some answers as to what was causing so much stress to my DAD at that early time. We did not come to any clarity - when I say We - I mean ME as there's a dystopic backstory which isn't even possible to articulate - anyhow, thought it be interesting to retrace what I had experienced to date - with this subjugated circus.

Not a blame game other than an archeological quest for truth within the context of knowledge and wisdom.

It's the Dick Von Geuseppe hour

Dad is lonely and needs some change to make his life complete, Tony arrives with sarcasm and solutions...

Redemption meeting

After a few phone tag moments of scheduling, I ultimately agreed to the Thursday @ 11 am time to review alternatives available to address my dad's concerns. This takes a few twists and turns, check it out...

The actual purpose of this meeting is hidden within the dialog - can you figure out who and why called this getup standup setup?

Thank you very much brotha!

Why is my brother-in-law coaching my dad on what to say when he leaves me a phone message? At the end of the call, the call is still connected and catches my father asking my brother-in-law what he just said on the phone call - very peculiar.

Stand up! for your rights...

After witnessing the call between Zia Maria and my dad and accidentally hearing her trash my wife and her own daughter-in-law... I had to give her some instructions around making things good with my dad - I come close but don't actually give her too much reality.

July 5th, 2016... the day I find out my aunt Maria, a.k.a. Zia Maria, is just a trouble-making jealous (expletive). While speaking with my Dad about the issue of his support staff sleeps so far away in the basement and he'd much rather have her occupy one of the bedrooms upstairs. Then I get a call waiting, it's his sister looking for him - so I patch them in together... expecting a window into my dad's interactions with sister it instead flushes a toilet of unhealthy energy. His sister is not able to make an effort to visit, she has many excuses for herself. Dad says he needs to accustomed himself as I changed everything in the house and he is unable to do anything... amusing complaints at first. until the scoundrel starts fanning the flames of contempt, my dad finds an insignificant item to nag/complain about but this now takes a major prominent position for her, the sister who isn't able (willing) to go visit but now is adept to provide her ugly, negative, and inflammatory energy into my dads final years. tisk tisk, such an easy situation becomes major cancer, now to the outer family layer.

The first Villa Colombo progress meeting/report, subsequent reports will be annual. In attendance, - Doctor - Villa Colombo staff leads (from diet to social to medical) - Tony - Daria - Rocco - Lori 

Ouch!

(if you hang into time 50:00, my older and still alive sister provides a glimpse into her true motivating agenda or initiative intention - this is a difficult situation aggravated by ignorant enabling behavior environment of passive-aggressive toxicity)