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• Watch the in-depth feature on their family’s advocacy here: KCAL Rare Disease Coverage

Chasing Glimmers, is all about finding the small, hopeful moments that shine through the darkest of times. Like you, Katie and I know how challenging the rare disease journey can be, but we also believe in the incredible power of connection, bravery and positivity. We'll share inspiring stories from the community, life lessons we've learned and explore how glimmers light our way forward. Let's chase those glimmers together!

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

Effie & Katie welcome guest Megan Gillet. Her daughter, Nellie, endures terminal Infantile MLD. Megan shares her unique journey of embracing life in all its vibrant complexity. Megan opens up about living with grief, disability, parenting challenges, fashion passions, crafting pursuits, and her love of nature—without confining herself to a single niche. She explains what it means to let life unfold authentically, finding the courage to sidestep society’s labels and expectations.

Through candid conversation, Megan reveals her family’s determination to savor each moment, knowing that some of the hardest challenges lie ahead. It’s a powerful reminder that truly living isn’t about fitting into a box, but rather about spilling beyond its edges, leaving a trail of color, hope, and hard-won joy. Tune in for an inspiring glimpse into a life that refuses simple definitions—and learn how you, too, can find beauty and meaning in every shade of your own journey.

Dear Friends,

The holidays can be a beautiful time of connection, joy, and celebration—but for caregivers, it can also be a season that amplifies the weight we carry every day. The expectations, the comparisons, the logistics of making life work for our kids—it all feels louder somehow.

This episode is my friendship letter to you, my fellow caregivers, during this holiday season. It’s for the days when the to-do lists are endless, the appointments keep coming, and the social invitations feel more isolating than joyful. It’s for the moments when you catch yourself scrolling through social media, comparing your life to others, and questioning if you’re doing enough—or if you’re enough.

Spoiler: You are.

I recorded this as a 10-minute refuge for you—a place to breathe, to feel seen, and to remind yourself that you are not alone. Together, we’re navigating the chaos, the exhaustion, and the love that grounds it all.

If you’re like me, you might feel the weight of it all a little more during this time of year. Maybe you’re thinking about your child’s progress or lack thereof, or the struggle to attend even the simplest gatherings without feeling out of place. I see you. I feel you. And I hope this episode feels like a warm hug and a reminder that you’re doing an extraordinary job in an extraordinary situation.

Every day you carry your child—physically, emotionally, and mentally—is a gift. It’s heavy, yes. But it’s also rooted in a love that’s unshakable.

Take a moment, my friend. This one is for you.

With love and gratitude,

Effie 💛

P.S. If this episode resonates, share it with another caregiver who might need it. We’re stronger when we remind each other we’re not alone.

June 20th to June 22nd. This three-day gathering united all those committed to improving the lives of individuals with Dravet syndrome – including families, caregivers, clinicians, researchers, and biopharmaceutical professionals. It provided a platform for fostering new relationships and collaborations among families and professionals alike.

Recorded sessions from the conference can be accessed on demand by both virtual and in-person registrants through December 31, 2024.

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Episode Highlights:

Mindy Henderson, a powerful advocate for disability rights and the Director & Editor-In-Chief of MDA's Quest Media. Mindy shares her journey of breaking barriers in the skies, working tirelessly to make air travel more accessible for wheelchair users and the broader disability community. She delves into practical tips for navigating travel with a wheelchair-using child, explains the importance of universal design, and discusses how sharing your story can be a catalyst for change.

Mindy also talks about her book, The Truth About Things That Suck, and the role of mindset in overcoming adversity. Packed with inspiration and actionable advice, this episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to make the world more accessible, one step—or one flight—at a time.

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Airplane Travel Tips from a One Million Mile Traveler

The recent passage of the FAA Reauthorization Act

ONCE UPON A GENE - EPISODE 133

The Unique Expertise of a Genetic Counselor - Helping Rare Disease Individuals and Families Navigate Through Complex Emotions and Circumstances Like Guilt, Grief, and Shame with Mary-Frances Garber

Mary-Frances Garber is a Genetic Counselor who has a private practice where she offers support to patients and families affected by a rare disease diagnosis. We discuss emotional responses to grief, shame and guilt.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS

Where does your career in genetic counseling begin?

I was fortunate to get into the program at Sarah Lawrence College, where the field of genetic counseling originated. I wanted to be a medical provider with a focus on helping people understand genetics. I also enjoyed the counseling side and focused my early career in high-risk obstetrics. I opened my personal practice to provide ongoing supportive care to patients, parents and families who are experiencing something related to genetics, during pregnancy, in pediatric settings or as adults. 

How do you help a parent who feels an overwhelming guilt after their child is diagnosed?

I sit with them, I'm present and I listen. Guilt is self-imposed and it's easy to get stuck in guilt and the early stages of depression after a diagnosis. Sometimes it takes time, but my hope is that someone can eventually see that the guilt they feel isn't necessarily the appropriate emotion. I remind patients to be good to themselves and to journal about why they feel guilt so they can take the feelings from their heart and head, put it on the paper and expel or release it.

How is feeling ashamed different from guilt?

Parents sometimes feel ashamed as a result of thoughts they've had about their child. We're all human and we have faults. When we're tired or overwhelmed, we have negative thoughts. Feeling ashamed, just like feeling guilty, isn't justified when you're trying to do your best. 

What advice can you share for supporting someone who is going through a genetic diagnosis?

My patients often don't want to share their news because they don't want to be pitied and they don't want to get questioned, especially when they can't answer a lot of questions themselves. Just be there, listen, reflect on what they say, validate their feelings and try not to bombard them with questions.

LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED

Listening Reflecting Healing

listeningreflectinghealing.com

Varient App 

https://www.varientapp.com/

Once Upon a Gene TV

https://www.thedisordercollection.com/

ONCE UPON A GENE - EPISODE 114 - The Bravery of the Brokenhearted - A Big Brothers Perspective on Grief From the Loss of a Sibling with Sanfilippo Syndrome with Noah Siedman

https://effieparks.com/podcast/episode-114-noah-siedman

National Society of Genetic Counselors

nsgc.org

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Spotify

https://open.spotify.com/show/5Htr9lt5vXGG3ac6enxLQ7

Apple Podcasts

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/once-upon-a-gene/id1485249347

Stitcher

https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/once-upon-a-gene

Overcast

https://overcast.fm/itunes1485249347/once-upon-a-gene

ONCE UPON A GENE - EPISODE 245

Finding Strength in Friendship - Building In-Person Connections for Special Needs Moms with Colorado Mama Tribe - Mariah Gillaspie

Mariah Gillaspie is the mom of Abby and Emma, who both have a genetic condition called THAP12, and they're the only known patients in the world. Mariah is the Founder of Lightning and Love and an active rare disease advocate. Most recently, she's shifted her focus to community and established the Colorado Mama Tribe.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS

Can you tell us about the Colorado Mama Tribe?

It's been a passion project for me that came out of necessity. When I was new to raising children with rare disease, I was very alone and lost, desperate to find someone who shared a similar story to me. It started with a small group of moms getting together and we've now grown to 400 members. We have monthly meetups for moms, which serves as a social opportunity, but also an opportunity to share and be supported by a community who gets it. We also have a yearly respite retreat and we put together care packages for moms in the hospital with their kids. We recently started providing free group and individual therapy for moms and we've started a bereavement group.

How do you fundraise and support your programming?

As we've grown, we've assembled different committees and we have an amazing fundraising committee who is rocking it. As a board, we largely handle fundraising and logistics to keep events mostly free and subsidized to take the burden off moms so they feel supported and taken care of through our offerings.

What advice do you have for other parents who want to create something for their own community?

It only takes a few people to commit to setting a time and place and showing up. Month after month, more and more people will show up and it can grow naturally. Set up a Facebook group, communicate dates and times and people will come.

How has your self-care shifted through your pivot?

Self care looks different and there's no time for bubble baths or massages right now. Colorado Mama Tribe has been a huge part of my self-care, forcing me to get out of the house, take time for myself away from my family and meet up with friends. I spend time out and about to reset, commiserate and celebrate. Additionally, it makes me feel better connected to my daughters because I'm allowing myself balance.

LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED

Colorado Mama Tribe on Facebook

https://www.facebook.com/groups/coloradomamatribe

Lightning and Love

https://www.lightningandlove.org/

ONCE UPON A GENE - Episode 074 - Rare Disease Mom Chat with Mariah Gillaspie - Lightning and Love Foundation

https://effieparks.com/podcast/episode-074-lightning-and-love-foundation

CONNECT WITH EFFIE PARKS

Website

https://effieparks.com/

Twitter

https://twitter.com/OnceUponAGene

Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/onceuponagene.podcast/?hl=en

Built Ford Tough Facebook Group

https://www.

facebook.com/groups/1877643259173346/

A collection of voicemails from rare disease parents who relate to you situation.