Relationship Reset - Friendship
"Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here! All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation: that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting people’s sins against them. And he has committed to us the message of reconciliation. We are therefore Christ’s ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us. We implore you on Christ’s behalf: Be reconciled to God. God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God." 2 Corinthians 5:17-20 NIV
"Forgiveness wasn't Christ's ultimate goal on the cross. Reconciliation was. And there's an important difference, Reconciliation, literally means "the restoration of friendship". It doesn't just say, okay, things are right between us now, you can move on your life without debt, reconciliation says, Forget what you owe me - I want you, I want what we had before this crisis. I want your presence in its fullness being fully enjoyed by me as I'm fully enjoyed by you. I've sorted what's owed? Forget that? Now you can truly know feel and experience how much I love and celebrate you. And you can know me as that father again. - This is the gospel and how incredible it is - that God hasn't just forgiven us, He's fully restored our place at his table of friendship forever. It is stunning that we might be called, friends of God."
Strahan Coleman - Beholding (ISBN-13: 9780830785186)