One Degree to Victory

What if your future self could send you a letter of encouragement right now? What would they tell you about the life you're building and the choices you're making today?

This episode opens with a powerful visualization—a letter from your five-year future self who's living in a home filled with light and love, enjoying financial stability, thriving relationships, and genuine peace. They want you to know that every hard choice you're making right now matters. Every boundary you're holding and every tear you're crying in silence is building that beautiful future. You are not failing; you are becoming.

After returning to the microphone following a break, I dive deep into the deceptive nature of complacency—that dangerous comfort with the status quo that tells us everything is fine just as it is. This comfort zone has become a prison for many single mothers navigating family traumas, keeping us trapped in toxic relationships, financial struggles, and limiting beliefs.

The truth is that your potential for the future you imagine is far greater than your current circumstances might suggest. Growth doesn't require you to feel ready—it simply requires you to begin. Even in the middle of trauma, even in survival mode, you can make one small change that sets in motion a cascade of positive transformations.

When your fears speak up, your future self has answers: When you say "I'm afraid," she says "be willing to try." When you say "I don't know which way to go," she simply says "forward." The enemy of your future isn't failure—it's complacency.

Ready to start writing your own letter from your future self? Subscribe to Ways to Win Wednesday and join me on this journey of transformation. Love yourself a little more than you did yesterday, and get to your business of becoming.

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I pray that the roots of setbacks, storms, satanic attacks, and even self-sabotage erode, crumble, and wither away, to be replaced by the incorruptible strength, peace, and joy that only heaven can give that will neither change nor fade.

Ruth's story isn't about finding the perfect man but about how she moved forward with faith and humility in dire circumstances.

• Moving from gleaning to growing shifts us from survival to strategic influence
• When money flows into women's hands with authority to use it, everything changes (M. Gates)
• You are the channel that shapes what's possible for your family and future generations
• Every intentional choice about resources creates room for transformation
• You are your most important investment—God created you to thrive, not just survive
• Shifting your mindset about money means seeing every dollar as a seed, not a sacrifice
• Ruth wasn't just picking up leftovers, she was positioning herself for legacy
• We control what we gather, how we steward it, and where we sow it next

From this day forward, sow in purpose. Shift your mindset, invest in the version of yourself you haven't met yet. Gather what's yours gracefully, and prepare to grow.

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I pray that the roots of setbacks, storms, satanic attacks, and even self-sabotage erode, crumble, and wither away, to be replaced by the incorruptible strength, peace, and joy that only heaven can give that will neither change nor fade.

Have you been caught in the cycle of retail therapy, hoping a new wardrobe might chase away the blues? You're not alone. I recently found myself filling shopping carts, seeking transformation through purchases, only to discover that nothing felt truly luxurious or glamorous while I remained mentally and emotionally undernourished.

True luxury goes far deeper than designer labels. When we break down the word "glamorous," we discover something profound: "glam" relates to magic and divine transformation, "amour" means love, and "ous" means full of. Authentic glamour is about being filled with love and divine beauty that transforms us from the inside out – not through the world's standards, but through soul-deep healing.

• Healing is layered – involving mental peace, emotional regulation, spiritual clarity

• Dress your soul before your body through spiritual practices and self-forgiveness

• You don't have to be fully healed to live beautifully – just be honest and intentional

Love yourself a little more than you did yesterday, and go get glam intentionally.

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I pray that the roots of setbacks, storms, satanic attacks, and even self-sabotage erode, crumble, and wither away, to be replaced by the incorruptible strength, peace, and joy that only heaven can give that will neither change nor fade.

Ever been told you're strong when you feel anything but? That's exactly where this raw, unfiltered conversation begins. Strength isn't what people think—it's not about being naturally tough or unbreakable. True resilience comes from fierce determination, from making the decision to rise despite life's crushing blows.

• Rewiring the mind to focus on beautiful possibilities rather than toxic "what's the worst that could happen" thoughts
• Creating a soul-stirring, spirit-awakening playlist that changes your atmosphere and drowns out doubt
• Remembering your "why" as the anchor that carries you forward when you don't know how
• Doing just one thing instead of aiming for perfection—the power is in the pivot

Our futures aren't made with empty wishes on stars but with radical, determined hope.

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I pray that the roots of setbacks, storms, satanic attacks, and even self-sabotage erode, crumble, and wither away, to be replaced by the incorruptible strength, peace, and joy that only heaven can give that will neither change nor fade.

Hope isn't found in specific goals but in knowing multiple pathways exist when obstacles block our way. Life presents us with choices offering different routes that might lead us to even better destinations than we originally planned.

• We often get locked in on one path or outcome, forgetting that life is not a one-way street
• Hope is a system built on three things: goals, pathways, and willpower
• When fixated solely on goals, we crumble when specific opportunities don't materialize
• Pathway One: the clear road—conventional, straightforward, but sometimes blocked
• Pathway Two: the back road—slower, less traveled, but often brings peace and alternative success
• Pathway Three: the waterway—the leap of faith requiring radical intention without guarantees
• The back roads of life require more focus,s but avoid the bottlenecks and noise of conventional paths
• Some answers must be lived—the best road forward isn't visible until you start walking

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I pray that the roots of setbacks, storms, satanic attacks, and even self-sabotage erode, crumble, and wither away, to be replaced by the incorruptible strength, peace, and joy that only heaven can give that will neither change nor fade.

Hope is the radical act of believing your future can be brighter than this moment and knowing you have the power to make it so despite obstacles, setbacks, and losses along the way. For those who've faced trauma, adversity, and setbacks, the path forward begins with a radical decision to believe again.

This week, we journey through the concepts of:

• Moving beyond focusing on what trauma takes from us to recognize what it leaves us with

• Identifying and removing voices that undermine your dreams and confidence

• Setting small achievable goals that prove you are moving forward

Your future isn't constructed from empty wishes cast upon stars but through radical, determined hope. This message will show you that you are not too far gone – you are exactly where you need to be to begin again.

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I pray that the roots of setbacks, storms, satanic attacks, and even self-sabotage erode, crumble, and wither away, to be replaced by the incorruptible strength, peace, and joy that only heaven can give that will neither change nor fade.

Fannie Tristan, a clinical social worker and founder of Her Soul Supply, shares her journey of supporting women of color through breakups and relationship challenges while helping them reclaim their power and find joy in singleness.

• Background as a clinical social worker for over 15 years, specializing in supporting women of color
• Created Her Soul Supply after noticing limitations of traditional therapy for women experiencing breakups
• Offers retreats and digital courses focusing on holistic healing beyond the medical model
• Emphasizes ethical travel as part of the healing journey for women
• Explains positive power reclamation through setting boundaries rather than aggressive power-taking
• Describes how people-pleasing drains our energy and leads to feeling disempowered
• Provides practical advice for rebuilding community after removing toxic relationships
• Discusses the importance of self-confidence when entering new social situations
• Shares insights about personal style as a tool for expressing authenticity rather than conforming
• Promotes ethical travel practices that support local communities

Visit hersoulsupply.com or follow @hersoulsupply on Instagram, TikTok, and Threads to learn more about retreats and access a free guide to combating loneliness.

Grab her free guide to combating loneliness. This provides 5 actionable steps women can take to stop feeling stuck in their loneliness and start building community and confidence.

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I pray that the roots of setbacks, storms, satanic attacks, and even self-sabotage erode, crumble, and wither away, to be replaced by the incorruptible strength, peace, and joy that only heaven can give that will neither change nor fade.

Hope is an empowering and actionable force that can reshape your life. In our latest episode, we dive deep into the nuances of cultivating hope.

• Exploring hope as an active force  
• Vision and clarity in setting tangible goals  
• The importance of creating multiple pathways 
• The role of willpower as essential fuel for progress  

Until next time, remember to love yourself a little more than you did yesterday.  

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I pray that the roots of setbacks, storms, satanic attacks, and even self-sabotage erode, crumble, and wither away, to be replaced by the incorruptible strength, peace, and joy that only heaven can give that will neither change nor fade.

Explore the transformative power of decision-making and how it shapes our lives and futures. We discuss the significance of radical intention and navigating the resistance that often accompanies strong commitments.

Get ready to challenge your perspectives and step into a new level of self-assuredness. By embodying your decisions with confidence, you’ll shape your future and inspire those around you to begin their own journeys of transformation. Don't miss this enlightening conversation—subscribe, share, and join the movement of single mamas stepping bravely into their futures!

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I pray that the roots of setbacks, storms, satanic attacks, and even self-sabotage erode, crumble, and wither away, to be replaced by the incorruptible strength, peace, and joy that only heaven can give that will neither change nor fade.

This episode explores how to turn visions into reality through radical intention and focused action. We discuss the importance of daily declarations, eliminating distractions, and showing up as the person you're becoming before you even get there. 🙌🏽 #ODTV #WaysToWinWednesday #OneDegreetoVictory

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I pray that the roots of setbacks, storms, satanic attacks, and even self-sabotage erode, crumble, and wither away, to be replaced by the incorruptible strength, peace, and joy that only heaven can give that will neither change nor fade.