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One On One with Mista Yu - Brent Dowlen "Building a Better Man"
What happens when men are defined only by their ability to provide? Relationship and Personal Development Coach Brent Dowlen unpacks this fundamental question in a conversation that challenges the core assumptions about masculine identity.
The heart of our discussion centers on what Brent calls "the biggest lie told about men"—that their value exists solely in their capacity to provide. This reductive view creates men who excel at fixing problems but struggle with simply being present. We explore why men often feel utterly alone even in crowded rooms, how "visiting other islands" can combat isolation, and why the glorified lone wolf archetype leads to disastrous outcomes in real life.
Brent shares touching reflections on fatherhood, including powerful memories of his late father waiting on the porch with coffee just to talk after long workdays. His insights on intentionality in marriage reveal why many relationships stagnate: "We forget this isn't a one-and-done... you have to choose to do something intentional every day."
Perhaps most powerfully, Brent reminds us that "the lone wolf dies!"
Whether you're seeking to understand the men in your life or loo
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By Mista Yu
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What happens when men are defined only by their ability to provide? Relationship and Personal Development Coach Brent Dowlen unpacks this fundamental question in a conversation that challenges the core assumptions about masculine identity.
The heart of our discussion centers on what Brent calls "the biggest lie told about men"—that their value exists solely in their capacity to provide. This reductive view creates men who excel at fixing problems but struggle with simply being present. We explore why men often feel utterly alone even in crowded rooms, how "visiting other islands" can combat isolation, and why the glorified lone wolf archetype leads to disastrous outcomes in real life.
Brent shares touching reflections on fatherhood, including powerful memories of his late father waiting on the porch with coffee just to talk after long workdays. His insights on intentionality in marriage reveal why many relationships stagnate: "We forget this isn't a one-and-done... you have to choose to do something intentional every day."
Perhaps most powerfully, Brent reminds us that "the lone wolf dies!"
Whether you're seeking to understand the men in your life or loo
Have a question for Mista Yu? Text the show and he’ll answer it personally.
Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now!
I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE
Here's your exclusive discount code that I negotiated just for our TCMMY listeners. You won't be able to beat this deal! Trust me!
Strong Coffee: https://strongcoffeecompany.com/discount/TCMMY
The link is in the show notes. Can't wait to hear how much you love Strong Coffee!
We love hearing from all of you about how you're enjoying our content! A really cool way you can do that is Fan Mail. Check out the promo and starting sending messages right away! It's easy and it's fun too! Trust me! Thank you for reaching out and allowing us the privilege of hearing from our faithful listeners and viewers! I can't wait to get your next message!
Buzzsprout - Launch Your Podcast Now!
I trust this host. You will too! Start for FREE
Support the show
Thank you for listening to the They Call Me Mista Yu brand of podcasts! We love hearing from you! We're available wherever you enjoy your podcasts, audio or video! Thanks again for watching and listening!
Apple Podcasts: Https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/they-call-me-mista-yu/id1535535535
YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Theycallmemistayu
Here’s how you can help us financially if you’d like---> www.buzzsprout.com/1222796/supporters/new
SEND US A TEXT. Drop Mista Yu a text at: (904) 867-4466 or (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2378778/open_sms).
Leave your first name and the city you're reaching out to us from. We'll respond to your message on the next Fan Mail episode and give you the biggest shoutout. Every message you send to me matters.
Coffee aficionados and Health Conscious listeners, our show has some new sponsors and they’re offering you the best discounts their stores have. Links are below. Start saving now!
Quantum Squares: https://quantumsquares.com/discount/TCMMY
Strong Coffee: https://strongcoffeecompany.com/discount/TCMMY
ZivoLife: https://zivo.life/discount/TCMMY