When we educate about some topics we always get someone who accuses us of being a "one twue way" person or podcast. This is something called the invincible ignorance fallacy where the person in making this statement simply refuses to believe the teaching, ignoring any evidence given. Instead they offer, "There's no one way to do anything in BDSM" which is absurd! We are Traditional, meaning we draw principles from our BDSM history and form a philosophy of how to do BDSM based on those principles. There is BDSM that works and other stuff that, when added, makes BDSM fall apart. We are trying to give people the tools to have good, lasting relationships and safe play scenes.