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From the c-suite to executive leadership coach and author, Emily Sander was a pleasure to have join me on One Sharp Sword. 

Superman is Emily’s favorite Superhero. As with Clark Kent, Emily is adopted. She also uses - and encourages others to use - the superpowers for good and to never give up. 

She enjoyed business and leadership and especially loves 1:1 interactions where small points of leverage make a huge difference. 

Emily notes that the #1 skill someone can have is communication. And, with that skill comes the adaptability about both listening and conveying information to the person or people in front of you, each of whom likely have a different style from you. Huge leadership tidbit, here!

She notes that many execs (I’d say almost all) hit a point of questioning what it’s all for. 

We discussed the existential dilemma which brought us down a great rabbit hole worth exploring!

Skill for self: Be deliberate and avoid distractions. 

Emily provides us with food for thought noting that we need to question whether in putting things off for someday or “one day,” is it one day or day one? Again, be deliberate!

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Find Emily Sander on LinkedIn and be sure to check out her books and her coaching offerings at www.NextLevel.Coach

GREAT conversation with Alain today. From the culture he grew up with to how he guides leaders today, you’ll get a lot out of listening.

His three Cs are key to leadership, whether at home or in your organization:

And he spoke of Consistency, which I’d call a 4th C in his model.

Alain’s book Cracking the Leadership Code is worth picking up! 

We connect as human beings. Our world demands people who can think and co-create within an organization.

Leaders must find a way to convey that each employee feels valued and cared for. That’s how you get real connection.

Communication is about creating shared, mutual understanding. If you assume that the default is that what is being communicated will be misunderstood, what will you need to do to ensure true understanding?

Collaboration means creating the culture together by asking the question of what gets the BEST out of people.

In the interview, we discussed the graying of the workforce, mentorship, and remote work. Super interesting! 

Consistency counts and so does actively seeking feedback (so that you can get better).

Think about this, too. It’s called the Fundamental Attribution Error: We justify our actions based on our intentions. Others judge us based on the outcomes and results. 

Find Alain Hunkins on LinkedIn and visit www.AlainHunkins.com for more!

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A performance coach coming from the corporate sector who, after reflecting on what he wished he had been taught, Aaron Trahan set out on his path as a coach. He now helps others in leadership roles.

He notes that complacency must be met head on. Current success could block your future success if you allow yourself to get too comfortable.

While it’s easy to get comfortable, he also knows that no one says that they don’t want to get better results. 

The remedy: Get a bit uncomfortable. That discomfort is you stepping out of your comfort zone. 

The biggest thing that stops people - they think they have to be ready or that they have to do things perfectly. Forget perfect. Start. Take imperfect.

Aaron’s five-level methodology demands strength at each level:

Take action.

Test your “why.” 

Filter what is IN and what is a distraction. 

Focus and Attention correlates with Speed and Progress

Check out more at www.PerformanceMindsetCoaching.co

What does a musician and conductor know about leadership? My guest, Hugh Ballou, sees his work at conducting transformations. He defines what leadership is and isn’t and what components go into great leadership. His company, SynerVision is a crossover between synergy and vision. Here are some key points. Listen in for more!

Find more about Hugh at:

www.AboutHugh.com

www.HughBallou.com

And for a free, 31-day leadership program, 5 minutes/day, go to www.BetterLeader.me

Can you get excited about conflict? 

There’s an old movie from 1950 that caught my attention. It predates me, but still enchanted me. The play-turned-movie is Harvey. The main character, Elmer P. Dowd, finds people in an uproar talking about what he believes in. Elmer’s response, “Oh an element of conflict in any discussion is a very good thing. It shows everybody is taking part and nobody is left out. I like that.” 

Hesha Abrams is an attorney-turned-mediator, something she’s done for the past three decades. Her wisdom is epic and has lessons we can all learn from.

Conflict resolution has shortcuts. Mediation is about talking to work out deals. The idea of “win-win” doesn’t work because there’s all too often someone’s ego involved. There’s either fear or a desire to dominate. That never makes for an equitable win-win. Logic, reason, and rationale do not solve problems. 

Key points from this episode with Hesha Abrams: 

Empower by taking responsibility. Apologize. Request a “do-over.” This gives the other person the power to say yes and allows you to model a culture that you value. 

Hesha and her resources may be found at:

website:  www.HoldingTheCalm.com And her book: HOLDING THE CALM

website: www.heshaabramsmediation.com

LinkedIn: hesha-abrams-esq   https://www.linkedin.com/in/hesha-abrams-esq/

Facebook: HeshaAbramsHoldingTheCalm     https://www.facebook.com/HeshaAbramsHoldingTheCalm

You Tube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPcPngGiIF-GlC8w1l3sH8A

Having grown up in PA, Dr. Kevin Gazzara had a propensity for taking things apart and putting them back together, it was a natural curiosity that drove him. He found himself organizing events for his friends. And what do you get when you have a curious kid who likes to organize? A focus on business and engineering.

After decades with Intel and other organizations, Kevin took to entrepreneurship. He became an executive coach, putting his experience to great use. His focus: productivity and building teams. 

He believes in action learning, engaging those he teaches to have immediate, practical impact. He looks at six key areas:

Pain Points in most organizations include:

Leadership and management lessons can cross over to parenting if you think about it. I like to build that bridge. We want to build upon values and create autonomy by building mastery and purpose. Along the way, there’s accountability.

The lessons here are great for everyone, from leaders to family members!

Check out The Leader of Oz (Kevin’s book) at www.Coachsultants.com

Kevin and his team can be found at https://MagnaLeadership.com and Positive Intelligence info is at https://PQTrainingAndCoaching.com 

And be sure to look for a special gift at www.MagnaLeader.co/GIFT (GIFT is all caps)

What’s the ONLY thing you need to know about my guest this episode? Roy Osing is the ONLY author, entrepreneur, and executive leader who delivers practical and proven “audacious and unheard-of ways” to produce high-performing businesses and successful careers.

His focus is on helping build what he calls The ONLY Statement, identifying what makes each individual or business stand out above everyone else. The key here is that if you claim to be The Only one doing something, you’ve basically owned that field. 

His brand (website, book, etc.) is www.BeDifferentOrBeDead.com focuses on differentiation. Roy notes that you have to learn to satisfy clothes in a way that matters to them. Figure out what you need to do “in a superlative way.”

In terms of the norm, common, average, or herd-mentality way, you can either comply with or confront that flow. Roy and I agree that it’s exceptionally important for business leaders and, truly any of us as individuals, to find that natural expression of self. 

While he doesn’t call it this, what his approach gets back to is First Principles: that is, if we look at the current situation and started over with our thinking, not knowing what we know about what society expects of us, how would we approach this for the best possible outcome? How can we do this (whatever “this” is) differently?

I created a bridge in our discussion, noting that this question lands as exceptionally important both in business and in your personal relationships, as well. This is what Roy calls the “Be Different lens.” 

As you look at being different, it’s important to recognize you can niche way down and still have a great business. Roy invites you, the listener, to decide who you’re going to serve (aka, the Target Market). And again, building a bridge from the business world to your home life, that could be a family member (partner, parent, child, etc.). 

Then determine what they CRAVE, not what they need. You can, of course take care of the basic needs. And once done, “you’ve earned the right to dazzle.”

THE ONLY Statement and Strategic Game Planning Process is done relatively quickly. 

Find Roy at www.BeDifferentOrBeDead.com and at [email protected]

I often have guests with a similar focus to mine as a way to look at differing approaches. Noah St. John has a great message and has managed to distill it into multiple columns, maximizing how that message gets out.

He’s a best selling author, a speaker, and an executive coach. And, his results are undeniable.

He went from living literally dirt-poor while growing up to becoming a multi-millionaire by helping others become successful.

He bounced from a suicide attempt to finding his purpose. He’s a writer and a synthesizer of information. He looks for the missing pieces of information that’s out there and offers those in frameworks that anyone can learn from.

His offerings include Power Habits (a book and online course) focusing on the subconscious habits of successful people. One habit he shared with the audience is Asking Empowering Questions (something I discussed in my blog about a year ago, so super important to dive into). There’s a difference between affirmations and asking positive/empowering questions of your subconscious.  

He offers his Seven Figure Expert book for free (just pay his shipping charges) at www.SevenFigureExpertBook.com

Here, he discusses the inner game and the outer game for selling your guidance as a service. Work on your mindset, then work on your offers, funnels, and getting traffic. 

And Noah invites you to set up a consultation with him at www.BreakThroughWithNoah.com

And learn more about him and his offerings at www.NoahStJohn.com

From an entry level position at Enterprise Rental Car spanning over two and a half decades when he left the company as the Regional Vice President, Eric Stone learned a thing or two about CULTURE.

Through engagement and other key steps, you create Culture Carriers. Look at:

Find Eric Stone on Linked In and Instagram (ClearPathVentures_) and pick up his book Jumpstart Your Workplace Culture wherever books are sold!

Marco Torres grew up in the Caribbean as his father ran GE Credit Corp from Puerto Rico. He learned about adventure and entrepreneurship. At 12 y/o he was featured in the news for having the largest paper route in the area. 11 years later, with his brother and mother, he opened a series of restaurants. And a couple years after that opened a nightclub. His realization: he wanted to employ others more than be employed by others.

While formal schooling was never his thing, as an entrepreneur, continuous learning is a necessity! He notes, “be a student first!”

So what makes Marco different and what is this Marketing Boost thing? At the risk of part of this episode sounding like a fascinating infomercial, Marco’s business is helping people add value to their offers.

His company essentially offers travel perks that others (like you and I) can subscribe to in order to give ourselves, our family members, our clients, and our prospects the gift of free hotel stays (or restaurant outings). Imagine this, “When you buy my xyz, you’ll also get three nights’ accommodation (less travel and taxes) at this ____ amazing hotel.”

There’s something to that and it got me thinking. I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I enjoyed talking with Marco Torres.

To learn more about him, go to www.MarketingBoostSolutions.com for a link to a free (limited) trial of his services.

(I’m not affiliated with Marco Torres or his Marketing Boost program in any way, so I receive no compensation or any other perks. I only recommend him because the program sounds interesting. No, I haven’t tried it yet myself. I will, and at the time of this writing, I haven’t.)

By the way, have you checked out my masterclass on getting from Desire to Destination? I call it my PowerfulPresence masterclass! Check it out HERE