Only Trying to Help

In this episode, Dr. Kate Watson sits down with Reyna Puentes for a candid conversation about our natural urge to give advice—especially when we want to help. Together, they unpack why “fixing” often feels like caring, how advice-giving can unintentionally shut down connection, and what to do instead when someone comes to us in pain. It’s an honest, insightful look at the tension between wanting to help and learning to truly listen. 

In our season finale, Kate and Peter talk about how it can (sometimes) be helpful to break the rules. Unprecedented times might call for it. 

Andrea talks about severe mental illness

Nurture by Nature: A Chat with Marie Burgess

Explore the connection between our bodies and our minds with Somatic Therapist, Marie Delorme.

Margo joins us to talk about helping yourself in tiny simple ways

Scott Kerby joins the show to talk about the power of togetherness and group support.

Kate reads a letter from a listener who is curious about ambiguous loss

Back to basics! Jennifer and Kate talk about simple listening skills. 

Ravi joins us to talk about performative helping