What if you could go back and tell your younger self the one thing that would've changed everything?

Here's what nobody tells you: your purpose isn't hiding in a job title, a career path, or some grand revelation you're waiting to stumble upon.

We break down why the question "what should I be doing with my life?" is actually the wrong question. The real work? Transformation. Growth. Learning to feel your actual feelings (not what you think you should feel).

We walk you through making the list—the actual exercise that helps you filter every decision. Every job offer. Every relationship. Every opportunity. It's about asking: how do I want to feel? And then building your life around that answer instead of what you think you're supposed to do.

Scroll through LinkedIn right now. Count how many people have posted about career changes in the last three months alone. Lost jobs. New jobs. "Exciting pivots."

It's a lot.

But here's the thing—life is full of all types of pivots. The ones you choose and the ones that choose you.

We talk about how to actually move through unexpected change, why the only way out is straight through, and what to do when the pivot chooses you.

If you feel like you're in a weird life pivot right now, this episode is for you.

What's the worst thing that's happened from asking for help? Probably nothing. So why does it feel so terrifying?

We're back! And we're talking about something that's been eating at both of us: why does promoting yourself online feel so uncomfortable? Like you're bragging or being too much?

We get into the weeds on naming what actually scares you, why everything you want really does live on the other side of cringe, and the difference between building a brand and just... being a person who's growing.

If you've ever typed a caption about your work, hovered over "post," and then deleted the whole thing because you didn't want to seem self-promotional—this episode is for you.

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In this episode, Lauren Douglass and Shannon Pruitt sit down with powerhouse communicator and author Maha Abouelenein to unpack one of the most transformational mindset shifts we can make: self-reliance.

Maha shares the inspiration behind her book, The Seven Rules of Self-Reliance, and how these principles can help anyone stop waiting for permission and start building the life they want. From building your personal brand to ditching the “waiter” mindset (think: stop waiting, start doing), Maha shares how to invest in yourself and take control of your future. They also unpack the challenges of speaking up as a woman, navigating imposter syndrome, and getting out of your own way to actually move forward.

Whether you’ve ever felt stuck, unseen, or like you’re just waiting for your next opportunity, this episode is your invitation to stop waiting and start doing.

In this reflective episode, Lauren Douglass and Shannon Pruitt explore the concept of bucket lists, not just as a checklist of "must-dos" before we die, but as a lens to reimagine how we live with intention. From rethinking what truly matters in a world that rarely slows down to asking hard questions about dreams, creativity, time, and purpose, this conversation goes far beyond travel goals and skydives.

If you've ever felt too busy to think, too distracted to dream, or just curious about what truly fills your cup, this episode is for you.

In a world that’s always on, always demanding more, so many of us are quietly overwhelmed, trying to keep it together while feeling like we’re falling apart. This episode of Open Doors is all about keeping calm and carrying on and choosing yourself with honesty, humor, and heart.

Lauren Douglass and Shannon Pruitt unpack how to find moments of peace amongst all of our daily stresses, and what it really means to show up for yourself, especially when the world is pulling you in a million directions. Whether you're walking, commuting, or curled up on the couch, take a breath, tune in, and know you’ve got this. 

What if the secret to happiness is just a conversation with your future self?

We’re getting deep—and maybe a little teary—this week as we talk about happiness and what it really means. Inspired by a thought-provoking article, Lauren Douglass and Shannon Pruitt dive into the idea of picturing our future selves and asking: what would they tell us today?

From big life choices (do I want kids? What’s my legacy?) to tiny daily decisions (why do I keep making plans my future self will hate?), we’re unpacking what it means to truly honor ourselves—now and years from now. Plus, Shannon gets real about learning to slow down, Lauren has a revelation about motherhood, and we break down the difference between a trip vs. a real vacation (trust us, it matters).

We explore how sometimes, happiness isn’t about chasing the extraordinary, but finding joy in the quiet, ordinary moments.

Listen in—because happiness isn’t a destination. It’s happening right now.

Women are leaving the workforce—or at least stepping back—and we need to talk about why. In this episode, we’re diving into the big workplace study from McKinsey and Lean In, and let’s just say…the numbers aren’t great. A third of women are saying peace out to full-time work, promotions are still playing favorites (spoiler: not with women), and the whole “work-life balance” thing? Yeah, still a mess.

But here’s the real question: Are we redefining success, or just tired of playing the game?

In this episode of Open Doors, Lauren Douglass and Shannon Pruitt get into the “broken rung” problem, generational shifts in ambition, and whether success now means more than just climbing the corporate ladder. Plus, Shannon opens up about a major life milestone, Lauren shares her own winding path post-job loss, and we introduce a new segment that forces us to actually reflect on what we just talked about.

It's a juicy one. Hit play and join the convo.