We need to be doing each stage of life and relationships really well: Singleness & Marriage. Contentment and Submission. When God calls us, God defines us - circumcised or uncircumcised, slave or free is not our primary identity. How does this relate to the idolisation of relationships, sex and marriage? 

We should not be defined by our relationship status - whether it’s the one we want or not. The more content you are when you are single, the more content you’ll be in a relationship. Contentment is cultivated through gratitude.