Odds are good that you and your spouse feel loved in different ways. In this episode, Alana and Kyle chat about the 5 love languages and how to navigate it when you and your spouse's love languages aren't the same. Like, what do you do when your spouse's love language is gifts but you have zero interest in buying gifts? Or if your love language is acts of service but you're left frustrated waiting for your spouse to take out the garbage? Or your spouse loves to touch you, but the thought of PDA makes you uncomfortable? Alana and Kyle are going to chat all about that today.
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Links from today's episode:
Gary Chapman's 5 Love Languages Book
46: Communicating During Sex

102: OPPOSITES: Love Languages

Join Alana, Kyle, and Tiera as they journey into the mission of uncovering God's truths and design for sexual freedom within marriage. They're going to be tackling some big questions. Things like why couples go into marriage feeling ill-equipped about sex, and how couples years into their marriages can find wholesome ways to spice things up.
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Kyle and Alana had an amazing time interviewing Josh Spurlock, founder of My Counselor Online. Tune in as they ask him some of the "hot topic" questions KS gets regularly!



 2:56 How do you gain confidence in the bedroom? “Husband wants me to initiate more but I don’t know how/scared”
 13:17 How to handle, mostly women, with body insecurities?
  22:55 How to increase sex drive for males? “My husband isn’t interested in me sexually”
  25:40 How to increase sex drive for females? “I used to want sex before we were married, now I have no drive.”
  29:04 How do you deal with periods where you’re not attracted to your spouse? How to tell your spouse? Should you tell your spouse? What to do if your spouse tells you that?
  34:55 My husband wants me to __ but I don’t want to OR I am nervous to try that - how to handle these situations? (Wearing lingerie, oral sex, toys, etc)
  38:28 How to handle the postpartum period sexually?
  42:00 Overcoming pornography in our marriage? How do we go back to a “normal” sex life?
  45:35 How to resolve sex drive differences?



Links from today’s episode:

  My Counsellor Online
  My Counsellor Online YouTube
  Josh Spurlock.com



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189: Hot Sex Takes: A Candid Chat with a Sex Therapist

Continuing on with the premarital conversation from a few weeks ago but in a new light: "what if we've already had sex?" Today's guest and former KS host, Rusti, talks us through her story and journey to finding healing from the shame of her past.


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 Intimate Issues
 Starting Life Together Bundle



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188: "But We've Already Had Sex..." with guest Rusti Weaver

The Purity Culture conversation continues! This time Alana and Tiera are joined by Hanna from the 'Say What?' podcast! They chat purity culture, vaginismus, pleasure, orgasms, and more! 


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 Hanna Say What? Website 
 Hanna’s IG
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  Her Turn Sex Challenge
  His Pleasure Sex Challenge



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187: Overcoming Purity Culture with Hanna Ward

So many of us enter into marriage only to then realize that how sex was taught to us- impacted us! Is pleasure possible after purity culture? Tune in to find out!


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 Episode with Jess Seitz



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186: Pleasure After Purity Culture

The newlywed season is such a sweet season in life! We get this precious time to learn so much about each other. But how do we navigate the difficulties well? Tune in to find out!


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 Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire
 Love Language Quizzes
 Engagement Guide
 Wedding Night Guide
  Newlywed Guide
  Starting Life Together Bundle



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102: OPPOSITES: Love Languages

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