Bonus Episode: Affirmations From a Disappointed Daughter

A different kind of episode today. No stories, no history just five minutes of affirmations for the daughters carrying more than they should have to.

This one is for anyone who loved a parent who didn't know how to love gently back. For the women who've done the work, made peace with the past, and are still, some days, sitting with the hurt underneath it. Determination. Healing. Compassion. Growth. Say them with me.

You don't have to be finished healing to deserve peace. Press play, breathe, and let's sit in this together.

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After the death of her mother, the oldest daughter of the Senior wife of the King of Ile Ife only wants to claim what is righfully hers. Her mother's beads. However, her younger sisters have other plans.

References

Iba Se Orisa- Awo Falokun Fatunmbi

In this episode of Storytime with The Ashé Shop, we’re diving deep into the sacred mystery of Ori. The divine inner head that chooses our destiny long before we take our first breath. Through storytelling, reflection, and a touch of that Ashé Shop humor, Ashley guides you into the ancient wisdom behind why your path is uniquely yours… even when life feels messy, uncertain, or downright chaotic.

You’ll hear the pataki behind the proverb “A chosen Ori is irrevocable,” explore what it means to walk in alignment with your destiny, and learn how to honor the spiritual blueprint you agreed to before arriving on Earth.

This episode is here to uplift your spirit, affirm your purpose, and remind you that your Ori is always guiding you back to yourself.
Take a breath, settle in, and embrace the Ashé.

Storytime #46- How to Choose a Good Ori

When Orisanku (son of Ogun), Oritemere (son of Ija), and Afuwape (son of Orunmila) decide it's time for them to travel from Orun to Aye, they know that they must go to Ajala's workshop to choose their Ori. Do they make the right choice?

References:

• Cuoco, Alex. African Narratives of Orishas, Spirits and Other Deities
• Brown, David H. Patakin: Orisha Stories from the Odu of Ifá

In this episode of Storytime with The Ashé Shop, we dive into the powerful Yoruba pataki that reveals what happens before we are born, when each soul chooses its Ori—its personal divinity and destiny. This ancient story reminds us that while life may twist, turn, and hit unexpected detours, the Ori we select is final and unwavering. We can pray to the Orisha, call on our ancestors, and negotiate with the universe, but ultimately…

Ori decides.

Join Ashley as she shares this timeless tale with humor, heart, and insight—inviting you to reflect on your own destiny, alignment, and the sacred responsibility of following the path your Ori chose.

Take a breath. Settle in.
And embrace the Ashé.

What happened when Ode's wife continued to ask questions, despite his best efforts to give her the answers. She just kept asking. Does this story sound familiar?

References:

Brown, David H. Patakin: Orisha Stories from the Odu of Ifá

Cuoco, Alex. African Narratives of Orishas, Spirits and Other Deities

Lele,Ochani . Teachings of the Santería Gods: The Spirit of the Odu (p. 174). (Function). Kindle Edition

Oba and Shango had a few problems in their marriage. Can they solve this problem? Tell us what you thought about this story.

Reference: Brown, David H. Patakin: Orisha Stories from the Odu of Ifá

This story givesus insight into how nature began to take its course. You know the birds and the bees...

References:

Lele, Ochani . Teachings of the Santería Gods: The Spirit of the Odu. Kindle Edition.

They call us angry like it’s an insult. But in this episode, we reclaim that fire. These 60 affirmations are a sacred offering for every Black woman who’s been told she’s too loud, too bold, too emotional. You’ll hear powerful words rooted in ancestral wisdom and guided by the Orisha...Yemaya, Oshun, Oya, and Oba Nani.

This is not about silencing your rage...it’s about honoring it, healing through it, and remembering who you are. So press play, take a breath, and return to your power.

Because your anger isn’t the problem...your suppression is.

In this episode of Orisha University, we explore the mysterious and powerful Orisha Olokun — guardian of the ocean's depths and keeper of the subconscious mind. Discover how Olokun represents mental health, hidden truths, and emotional balance. Through story, symbolism, and spiritual insight, we unravel the lessons Olokun offers about ego, illusion, and inner healing.

References:

• Brown, David H. Patakin: Orisha Stories from the Odu of Ifá
• Correal, Tobe Melora. Finding Soul on the Path of Orisa: A West African Spiritual Tradition (p. 9). Clarkson Potter/Ten Speed
• Cuoco, Alex. African Narratives of Orishas, Spirits and Other Deities
• Jones, Nia - Morgan Oşun Yami. Merindilogun Folktales: Morals of Yoruba Odus Relating Today's Lifestyles
• Kumari, Ayele. Isese: Spirituality Workbook, The Ancestral Wisdom of the Ifa Orisa Tradition.
• Wiles Quinones, Ayoka. I Hear Olofi's Song: A Collection of Yoruba Spiritual Prayers for Egun and Orisa . Oshun Publishing.