This week’s parsha, Vayetzeh, offers countless lessons, but today, I want to focus on one profound idea: gratitude—a cornerstone of what it means to be Jewish.
Let’s revisit the story of Leah and her fourth son. When Leah gave birth to him, she named him Yehudah, saying, “This time, I will gratefully praise Hashem.” (Genesis 29:35). The name Yehudah literally means “I will give thanks,” and from it, we derive the name Yehudim—Jews.
This name encapsulates our identity: a people rooted in gratitude. When Leah named Yehudah, she recognized that she had received more than her fair share of blessings, acknowledging Hashem’s kindness and generosity.
Gratitude in Our Name and Identity
As Jews, our very name reflects thankfulness. It defines who we are—a people constantly expressing gratitude to Hashem for His blessings. Compare this to the term Israelis, derived from Yisra’el, which means “struggling with God.” While the broader nation of Israel wrestles with Hashem’s will, as Jews, we’re called to live in gratitude for His guidance and providence.
A Lesson from Yeshua: Gratitude in Action
In the Gospel of Luke (17:11-19), Yeshua tells the story of the ten lepers who were healed. Only one returned to express gratitude. This minority mirrors the Jewish people—a small nation tasked with modeling gratitude to the world.
Like that one leper, we’re called to make teshuvah (repentance), recognize Hashem’s blessings, and live in a state of thankfulness. This extends not only to Hashem but also to those around us, as we act as examples of gratitude.
Rabbi Eliyahu Dessler, a great Mussar teacher, once said, “The true service of God is built on a foundation of gratitude.” Our service to Hashem isn’t just about obedience but about serving Him with a grateful heart.
Gratitude Through Obedience
Gratitude isn’t merely spoken—it’s demonstrated. In Deuteronomy 11:1, we’re instructed, “Therefore you shall love the Lord your God and keep His charge, His statutes, His judgments, and His commandments always.” Obedience to Hashem’s commandments is one of the most powerful ways to express our thankfulness.
Think about it—actions speak louder than words. When we follow Hashem’s will, we show our gratitude in a way that transcends mere lip service. Yeshua’s parable of the two sons highlights this principle: the son who initially refused his father’s request but later fulfilled it proved his love and respect through his actions.
Bringing Gratitude into Our Homes
Gratitude begins at home. How can we show thankfulness to those who care for us? Through acts of service, listening, and, most importantly, obedience. A cheerful attitude helps too!
Teaching gratitude starts with family traditions. One simple yet powerful way is to share thankfulness during your Shabbat evening meal. Go around the table and have each person share something they’re thankful for from the week. Whether it’s one thing or three, this practice fosters a spirit of gratitude that can transform your home.
Your Challenge: Start a Tradition of Thanks
This week, I challenge you to start or renew a tradition in your home. Every Friday night, during your Shabbat meal, take a moment to express thankfulness. It’s a small act with a big impact, aligning our hearts with Hashem’s blessings and teaching gratitude to our loved ones.
Gratitude as Our Legacy
Remember, being Jewish is synonymous with being thankful. As we live out this identity, we embody the lesson of the one leper who returned to give thanks. Let’s embrace our calling to be a light of gratitude in the world—grateful to Hashem, obedient to His will, and an example to others.