O's Corner

O’s Corner Episode 12 – Healing Community

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On this episode ONYI discusses

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• The need for community healing in various ways

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• Human beings need to get it together; we continue to disregard each other

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• The role of communities in ONYI’s perspective

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• We are all a bit of everything. Remembering we are one even when presenting as many

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• Fear/self-hatred not addressed and healed is projected outside to others as issues with them

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• Conflict within and across communities

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• Changing our perspective when it comes to community will support shifts on many levels.

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• Time for us to stop “playing” around so that we can truly play in our joy and integrity with each other

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• ONYI conducts a sound healing/sound immersion to support community healing

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• Background music: Instrumental of “Moth Flutters” by Tristan de Liège ft. ONYI LOVE (from the album Usawa: https://tristandeliege.bandcamp.com/album/usawa)

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• Intro and closing voice: Vince “The Voice” Bailey (tune in to his podcast: www.BlackMentalMatters.com)

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• Graphics: ONYI

O’s Corner Episode 11 – The Love of Your Life Is You

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On this episode ONYI discusses

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• What is love? Many ideas and beliefs around this question

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• Using Valentine's Day and any other holiday as a reminder to take actions and remember people/histories daily

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• To love is to see

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• Grounding in self love before focusing on an external relationship

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• We are oftentimes conditioned to seek completion by others or through relationships

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• Coming together to complete an agreement and not each other

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• There’s a difference between humans being communal and feeling incomplete without another person

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• We attract who we are/what we need vibrationally in order to help us heal

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• Grounding in self love allows us to show up more fully in relationships as we truly are

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• Do for/with yourself all the things you enjoy versus waiting for someone else’s presence to do so.

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• Background music: Instrumental of “Moth Flutters” by Tristan de Liège ft. ONYI LOVE (from the album Usawa: https://tristandeliege.bandcamp.com/album/usawa)

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• Intro and closing voice: Vince “The Voice” Bailey (tune in to his podcast: www.BlackMentalMatters.com)

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• Graphics: ONYI

O’s Corner Episode 10 – Who, What, How Is God?

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On this episode ONYI discusses

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• The idea of God is both complex and simple

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• ONYI's spiritual/religious journey

--Aspects of her Christian upbringing

--Losing joy due to comparing her experience of God what that of others

--Being angry at God for painful situations in life

--Her return to an indigenous African spirituality/religion (Ifa)

--Her exploration of various spiritual concepts

--Resulting shifts in conceptions about God

--Revisiting Bible from a different perspective

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• Transactional relationships with God

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• God as punisher versus God as loving

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• God is all of it—nothing is outside or separate from God

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• We are all a reflection/piece of God

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• Limiting God limits us

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• Yorùbá names for God (Olodumare, Olorun--African names are powerful and descriptive

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• Learning from the experiences that occur in our lives, not blaming God or imaging we are forsaking because of negative ones

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• Choosing a perspective about God that helps you be more who you are

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~Cashapp: cash.app/$onyilovellc

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• Background music: Instrumental of “Moth Flutters” by Tristan de Liège ft. ONYI LOVE (from the album Usawa: https://tristandeliege.bandcamp.com/album/usawa)

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• Intro and closing voice: Vince “The Voice” Bailey (tune in to his podcast: www.BlackMentalMatters.com)

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• Graphics: ONYI

O’s Corner Episode 9 – Choosing and Using Our Experiences

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On this episode ONYI discusses

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• This being the first of 5 wild-card (5th) Fridays of 2021

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• Being inspired by conversations on Club House and seeing how apps like it can be a tool for people to work through speaking/using their voice

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• Shifting our perspective about conditions and challenges we face

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• Considering (and strategically using) the idea that we choose our experiences in some way, which speaks to our power

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• The unknown of whom and how many people we are helping to heal by having the experiences we do

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• We heal ourselves

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• All tool/practices are permissions slips that we are attracted to in the moment

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• Release attachment to the idea of what will help you in any given moment and allowing what shows up to support you

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Stay connected with and support ONYI:

~Website: www.onyi.love

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~Venmo: venmo.com/ONYI-LOVE

~Cashapp: cash.app/$onyilovellc

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• Background music: Instrumental of “Moth Flutters” by Tristan de Liège ft. ONYI LOVE (from the album Usawa: https://tristandeliege.bandcamp.com/album/usawa)

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• Intro and closing voice: Vince “The Voice” Bailey (tune in to his podcast: www.BlackMentalMatters.com)

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• Graphics: ONYI

O’s Corner Episode 8 – Healing the Solar Plexus

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On this episode ONYI conducts a Sound Healing & Meditation and discusses

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• The Solar Plexus/Core and what it governs:

---Our power/will power

---Confidence

---How we shine

---How we process life

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• We oftentimes imagine power to be something different than what it is.

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• We are always using our power, no matter what we do—including to imagine we are disconnected or powerless.

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• We don’t give away our power; instead, we use our power to give others the ability to

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• Are we able to process life as we witness/experience it.

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• Are we confident in who we are? Are we being ourselves?

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• What we experience in our physical bodies correlate to what is occurring energetically.

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Stay connected with and support ONYI:

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~Cashapp: cash.app/$onyilovellc

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• Background music: Instrumental of “Moth Flutters” by Tristan de Liège ft. ONYI LOVE (from the album Usawa: https://tristandeliege.bandcamp.com/album/usawa)

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• Intro and closing voice: Vince “The Voice” Bailey (tune in to his podcast: www.BlackMentalMatters.com)

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• Graphics: ONYI

O’s Corner Episode 7 – Contributing To Your Community

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On this episode ONYI discusses...

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• The paradox of life

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• Seeing the symbol of a rainbow as a reflection of both the multiplicity and singularity of life.

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• The role the individual plays in the community.

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• Showing up in your community by being yourself.

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• Considering whether one either doesn’t show up in their community or overextends because of anxiety.

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• Negative experiences or trauma that occurs in communities.

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• The word of speaking up or leaving a community as showing up.

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Stay connected with and support ONYI:

~Website: www.onyi.love

~Subscription platform: bit.ly/onyilovecommunity

~Instagram: instagram.com/onyi.love

~Twitter: twitter.com/ONYILOVE_

~Venmo: venmo.com/ONYI-LOVE

~Cashapp: cash.app/$onyilovellc

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• Background music: Instrumental of “Moth Flutters” by Tristan de Liège ft. ONYI LOVE (from the album Usawa: https://tristandeliege.bandcamp.com/album/usawa)

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• Intro and closing voice: Vince “The Voice” Bailey (tune in to his podcast: www.BlackMentalMatters.com)

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• Graphics: ONYI

O’s Corner Episode 6 – Our [Core Erotic and Sexual] Natures

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On this episode ONYI...

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• Discusses 2021 as a 5 year and breaks down why.

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• Reflects on the energy and lessons of Osun and how they are play out this year and how 2020 laid the groundwork—in particular seeing and loving who we are...our true natures.

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• Reflects on the basic idea of knowing who we are and how it extends to all areas of our lives including sex/sexuality/erotic natures.

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• Speaks about the negation of existence when we negate the validity of people being who they are in general and in their authentic sexuality.

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• Reflects on some observations about and appreciation for the agreements made in the world of kink.

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• Points out the conditioning many of us are bombarded with when it comes to ideas about how people should be, what is considered attractive/desirable, etc.

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• Tells the story about the encounter that led to the interest in creating the LSD (Love, Sex, Dating...) series.

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Stay connected with and support ONYI:

~Website: www.onyi.love

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~Venmo: venmo.com/ONYI-LOVE

~Cashapp: cash.app/$onyilovellc

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• Background music: Instrumental of “Moth Flutters” by Tristan de Liège ft. ONYI LOVE (from the album Usawa: https://tristandeliege.bandcamp.com/album/usawa)

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• Intro and closing voice: Vince “The Voice” Bailey (tune in to his podcast: www.BlackMentalMatters.com)

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• Graphics: ONYI

O’s Corner Episode 5 – Endings, Beginnings & Spirituality

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On this episode ONYI...

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• Wishes everyone a Happy New Year and marvels at the fact that 2020 is over so quickly, though it also felt very long.

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• Reflects on the none linear nature of time despite the fact that humans have constructed the idea of the linear

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• Points out that it is New Year according to the Gregorian Calendar and that many cultures/traditions have their own specific dates for honoring the New Year.

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• Encourages that while we can us these existing mass consensus dates as marker, we can also decide personally what that looks like for us (in addition to or in lieu of the mass consensus) if that is in alignment with our preference and excitement.

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• Discusses the nature of how we often view and pigeon hole spirituality and gives a bit of her perspective on what it is.

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• Speaks about how honoring multiplicity and allowing for the full spectrum helps us to be more of who we are

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• Discusses some of the beliefs and behaviors she is releasing and asks listeners to consider what there is for them to release.

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• To join the donation-based ONYI LOVE New Year Ritual occurring virtually at 5pm PST on January 3, 2021, visit https://www.onyi.love/new-year-ritual-2021

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Stay connected with and support ONYI:

~Website: www.onyi.love

~Subscription platform: bit.ly/onyilovecommunity

~Instagram: instagram.com/onyi.love

~Twitter: twitter.com/ONYILOVE_

~Venmo: venmo.com/ONYI-LOVE

~Cashapp: cash.app/$onyilovellc

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• Background music: Instrumental of “Moth Flutters” by Tristan de Liège ft. ONYI LOVE (from the album Usawa: https://tristandeliege.bandcamp.com/album/usawa)

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• Intro and closing voice: Vince “The Voice” Bailey (tune in to his podcast: www.BlackMentalMatters.com)

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• Graphics: ONYI

O’s Corner Episode 4 – Laying the Cornerstone (#4 of 4)

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On this episode ONYI...

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• Talks about the topic for the 4th Friday of the month: A moment of peace and stillness through community healing using one of various healing modalities.

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• Encourages doing the work of making time and creating space for your healing.

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• Goes over some major messages and learning from 2020

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• Looks at the idea of stillness and what we gain from it.

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• Conducts a Sound Healing & Meditation.

---Recorded specifically for this episode.

---She plays 3 metal singing bowls while doing a guided meditation and singing

---Ensure you are in a place where you can be still and focused on the healing

---Visit her website and social media pages (below) for more healings

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• Wishes everyone the ability to be in your peace and to make peace with yourselves and this year.

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Stay connected with and support ONYI:

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~Cashapp: cash.app/$onyilovellc

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• Background music: Instrumental of “Moth Flutters” by Tristan de Liège ft. ONYI LOVE (from the album Usawa: https://tristandeliege.bandcamp.com/album/usawa)

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• Intro and closing voice: Vince “The Voice” Bailey (tune in to his podcast: www.BlackMentalMatters.com)

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• Graphics: ONYI

O’s Corner Episode 3 - Laying the Cornerstones