Introduction:
Every year a list of fears people have is published, we know them as phobias, things that people are debilitatingly afraid of, if you end up in this situation things will literally shut down for you and the fear associated with the phobia takes over. There are very common phobias that we know of: claustrophobia: the fear of tight spaces, acrophobia: the fear of heights, for those who know my personal hatred for spiders there is arachnophobia, there are many common phobias that we deal with as humans every day.
But there are also some not so common phobias some that you may not have every heard of: There is Nomophobia: fear of not having mobile access, there is Ablutophobia: fear of bathing, this one becomes very apparent with junior high boys at summer camp, there is Spectrophobia: the fear of one’s one reflection and of course there is Phobophbia: the fear of phobias.
There is no shortage of phobias, things that we are afraid of, but one that is perhaps one of the most common, least talked about phobias is Kakorrhaphiophobia: The fear of failure.
How many of you have failed so massively that you never want to do so in that way ever again? Or perhaps you have tried so hard to not fail, to try to make sure everything is perfect, that you get lost in the see of indecision because you are trying so hard not to fail? I know I have, but what I have also learned is there is an appropriate place of failure in our lives. We fail, we learn, we grow, we move forward. Where failure becomes a problem for us is when it becomes a fear, I am so afraid to fail that I will spend more time trying to not fail that I will pursuing living the life God has for me. In many ways this lifestyle of not wanting to fail creates a grim reality for us; as we move day by day closer to the reality of meeting the Lord face to face, (no man escapes that), the more days we waste trying to not fail, the less time we have to live in intimacy with God.
There is a great line from one of my favorite movies The Shawshank Redemption. Morgan Freeman’s character, a wise old stick up man named Red, after spending years in prison says this, “Get busy livin’ or get busy dyin’.” Well living in the fear of not failing, you’ve done plenty of dying without a lot of living!
Friends we live in a fallen, sinful world that sets us up for failure, but there has to be a way for us to live without the fear of failure and know how to respond when we fail.
Transition:
Open your Bibles with me to Acts 4 starting at verse 5. As we continue in our series Everyday Leaders, Biblical Principles of Leadership for Every Christian today we are going to look at a leader who failed, possibly in the worse way you can fail, a man who denied the Lord Jesus Christ, today we are going to be looking at Peter, The Failed Leader. I call him the failed leader, not because that defines him, but because of where his failure brought him, that failure was a part of his narrative just like it is for us. And what we are going to learn from Peter this morning is that Failure is a Building Block for Growth in Jesus Christ.
Let’s stand together as we read from Acts 4:5-20, hear the Word of the Lord.
Teaching:
5 On the next day their rulers and elders and scribes gathered together in Jerusalem,
6 with Annas the high priest and Caiaphas and John and Alexander, and all who were of the high-priestly family.
7 And when they had set them in the midst, they inquired, “By what power or by what name did you do this?”
8 Then Peter, filled with the Holy Spirit, said to them, “Rulers of the people and elders,
9 if we are being examined today concerning a good deed done to a crippled man, by what means this man has been healed,
10 let it be known to all of you and to all the people of Israel that by the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, whom you crucified, whom God raised from the dead-by him this man is standing before you well.
11 This Jesus is the stone that