Alex Ashley, a journalist and musician from Bellingham, Washington, has known his friend, Kit Knowles, for almost five years now. The connected after the loss of a mutual friend. When it comes to their friendship , they trust each other, they communicate — all the boxes are checked. Except one. “There’s an old proverb — you’ve probably heard it — that says ‘absence makes the heart grow fonder,’” Ashley says. “But what if that’s all you have: absence? What then?” The two communicate almost solely