Caros and Ben Fodor didn’t always hate each other’s guts. “Like, at birth, when he was first adopted, we were close, because he didn’t talk,” Caros said. The irritation is mutual. “Caros and I really didn’t get along growing up,” Ben said. “I don’t even know how to describe that guy. He’s kind of an a------, but he’s not like your stereotypical jerk. He’s got his own little way of ruining things.” In many ways, Ben and Caros couldn’t be more different. Caros is quiet, 32 years old, a Marine