Romans 12:2 "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing, and perfect will." Our world seems to deliver and an endless stream of messages of how we should be, how we should look, behave, the possessions we should have. Those expectations are impossible to meet, however, Our Heavenly Father's are not. You see He created you just the way you are, where you are. God sees you as already perfect. If you find yourself continuously striving to meet the world's expectations ask yourself who you are trying to please and why. If you are trying to impress other people it is time to reconsider your priorities. Your first responsibility is to our Heavenly Father and then to your family. They love you the way you are, where you are.