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Many women find it hard to orgasm, so this week I have my coach, Cheryne Blom, on the show to discuss why women are finding it so difficult and what we can do about it.

How can a man assist "in the moment" to make sure she isn’t in her head and is present in the moment? Can he even help her? 

What can women do to be present so they can experience an incredible orgasm?

Cheryne is the Founder of Be You Be True. She is a self-empowerment coach, author and speaker. To connect with Cheryne - http://www.beyoubetrue.com.au/ 

This week we are discussing orgasms...how do they feel for the opposite sex, is there such a thing as too many orgasms in one sex session, self-pleasure, different types of orgasms (multiple vs. one big one) and how guys can get a woman to orgasm.

My mate, Barrett Perlman, TV and documentary director & producer, was brave enough to join me and talk about her orgasms and shares her point of view for the female perspective this week.

This week we are discussing orgasms...how do they feel for the opposite sex, is there such a thing as too many orgasms in one sex session, self-pleasure, different types of orgasms and how our sexuality is suppressed within society.

Roman Wyden, host of the podcast You. Love. Life., today shares the male perspective. 

You can listen to Roman's podcast, You. Love. Life. via iTunes and GooglePlay

Ghosting, breakups via text, failure to commit – can you relate to these situations or know someone that can? The dating world can feel overwhelming at times and like a battlefield. The question is, are these love crimes?

The inspiration for this topic has come from a new comedic web series, the Broken Hearts Division.

Creator, Nicole Feenstra tackles the world of modern dating. Whether it is same-sex or heterosexual couples, each episode’s theme is very relatable to anyone currently dating as she tackles texting under the influence, wrongful wooing, serial dating, ghosting, breakups via text, serial dating, failure to commit and of course, the excessive use of a dick pic, just to name a few.

Join us for a laugh as we discuss what defines a love crime, is love black and white, the inspiration behind her show and bad dates.

Watch Episodes of The Broken Hearts Division: https://www.youtube.com/brokenheartsdivision 

Friend Zone – we have all been there when dating...right? We either want to put a guy/girl in this zone or possibly move ourselves out of this zone. To help us navigate the "friend zone" I have called on two of my surf buddies to share their perspectives.

To share the males perspective I have invited my surf buddy, Jaime. We talk about the friend zone but also living in the moment when dating, sexual compatibility, settling and Aplha females and males.

Friend Zone – we have all been there when dating...right? We either want to put a guy/girl in this zone or possibly move ourselves out of this zone. To help us navigate the "friend zone" I have called on two of my surf buddies to share their perspectives.

To share the female's perspective I have invited Trina. She often puts a man in this zone but has also gotten herself out of the "friendship zone" and has great advice for both men and women. 

There are important lessons to be learnt from an affair for all parties involved. It's very easy to sit in victimhood and only blame the partner cheating and take no personal accountability. Through my personal journey, I've learnt that the partner in the relationship that is being cheated on also contributes to the affair - we all play a role!

Today I share my learnings and how I contributed to an affair by emasculating my partner due to having an unbalance of feminine and masculine energy. My experience highlights why it is important for all of us (men and women) to have a balance of feminine and masculine energy as well as partnering with someone that is on your same frequency. 

With so many types of dates (in Los Angeles hike dates are popular) I know it can be overwhelming to decide what to wear on your first date. Today to share styling advice and help us work out what makes a great first date outfit I have invited celebrity stylist & Founder of Style Station, Melissa Meister.

Melissa is the fashion stylist for season one and two of Revenge Body With Khloe Kardashian (airing on E!) and has worked with many A-list celebrities including Serena Williams & Taylor Swift. She dressed an actress for the Globes this year and is often styling celebrities for major red carpets!

Style Station is a comprehensive online and mobile platform where A-list celebrity stylists and beauty experts share their knowledge, tips and tricks, and curate brands you can shop. Style Station will help you find your own style and guide you in the right direction for great treasure finds.

http://www.thestylestation.com 

Thank you so much for all the feedback and support with my new podcast, I am truly grateful! So many of you are opening up to me and I hear your pain and heartache. I can very much relate to this and I thought to give you some inspiration and hope, I would share my story.

Two and half years ago life was very dark for me and I didn’t see how I would get through it as my whole life crumbled around me. Literally everything was ripped out from under me - my beloved dog, long-term relationship, planned future and home…all within two months.

It took all my effort to get myself out of this dark place and eventually see the beauty in life again and press re-set on a new life.

Now life is beautiful and I am truly happy and feel joy every day. This is something you can feel again. So in this podcast I share with you the darkness but also how I got myself out of this space and healed. I hope you can use some of these strategies to help you get into happy state of mind as well.

It’s time to rise like a phoenix and you can do this!

Every two weeks we will explore one topic with the dual perspective from a male and female’s point of view.

To share the females’ perspective I have invited Jing, Founder of Coffee Confessionals. We discuss what is the best way to get a woman’s attention, deal breakers, our advice to men when asking a woman out, role reversals: women hitting on men and what we are attracted to physically and non-physically.

Coffee Confessionals has the mission to encourage real conversations and connections between people and our communities as well as provide inspiration and add a bit of fun in our lives.

http://coffeeconfessionals.com/

From listening to this episode, if it evokes further questions that you would love to be answered, please email us - [email protected]

We will be selecting a “question of the week” each week and together with my coach, Cheryne Bloom, answer it.