Bunny (they/them, bun/buns) is a long-time, nonbinary traveler on the unending road we call a gender journey. Bun has been aware of buns transness ever since they were in high school. As is so very common, this journey has taken them through a host of identities that felt right at the time; identities that included their namesake, a bunny.

In the years since the Covid lockdown lifted, Bunny has been exploring their place in the kink community. As the soft little bunny they are, they have lavished in their role as a pillow princess bottom and submissive for a host of activities including impact and pet play.

In the episode they talk all about what it was like to endlessly crave sex while on testosterone (as well as how buns sex drive changed before, during, and after taking T regularly), the perks of exploring your sexuality in spaces that are informative and focused on learning and growth, the difference between detransitioning and living in the decisions you’ve made along the way, and quite a few more topics that I’m so excited for you to hear about!

NPR interview: https://www.npr.org/2023/01/15/1149318664/transgender-and-non-binary-people-are-up-to-six-times-more-likely-to-have-autism

Oh. My. GOODNESS! Today I am speaking with not one but TWO individuals who have quite a history in the kink community, and an even more fascinating one together!

Rooster Chantico and their slave, sol vorare, have engaged in a 24/7 Master/slave dynamic since 2021. They are both neurodivergent queers that have found a home in the kink and Leather community. They share passions for accessibility, education, and human rights.

Rooster Chantico (they/them) is a lesbian, non-binary, latine person committed to creating safe spaces and platforms for marginalized voices in the community.

sol vorare (they/them) is a lesbian, genderfluid slave [aka anything Rooster wants them to be] whose true passion belongs to their Leather heart and the strength they find in their surrender.

What a guest! Error, a long time kinkster, has explored so many parts of herself through her presence in the kink community: gender, courage, confidence, their own power!

She has seen herself change and grow time and again through the safety and intentionality exemplified when kink is done in a way that fosters these ideals. Living her life today as a transfemme hotty who oozes self-assuredness and strength, she has begun to find comfort in her own bratty, switchy existence.

Together, we talk about how she has found her confidence, and the difference it has made in her life. We dig into their experiences with T4T sex, the impact that HRT has had on their orgasms, and what happens when you toss sex scripts out the window and lean into your own joy.

I hope you have as much fun listening as I had recording this one. Enjoy!

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Pragmatically Kinking

Welcome to the practical side of the lifestyle! This isn't the place to learn some hot new play technique or cruise for new play partners.

It's where folx discuss the practical and emotional side of the BDSM/Kink/Leather/Nonmonogamy lifestyle.

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Playing Well With Others (Novel)

By: Mollena Williams, Lee Harrington

Whether you're a trembling novice or a jaded expert, there's always something new to be discovered in the endlessly changing, complex and titillating world of kink. While there are plenty of other books out there that explain how to give a spanking or tie a half-hitch, Playing Well With Others is the first book that explains kink culture -- the munches, parties, leather bars, conferences, workshops, fetish nights, exploratoriums and all the other gatherings of kinksters that turn BDSM and leather from a bedroom predilection to a lifestyle and a community. The team of Harrington and Williams offers 30-plus years of experience in diverse kink communities: top, bottom and switch; gay, bi and straight; female, male and trans; white and POC. Both former titleholders and international educators, they are an unbeatable pair of "sexual sherpas" with an inimitable voice and a great deal of wisdom.

Book Link - HERE!

Force Majeure is just that in the world of burlesque. A transgender Splendor, they delight in displaying a body in transition. Crowned 2024 Great Lakes Regional BurlyPicks champion, Force’s revolutionary character concepts have also gotten them chosen to perform with Electric Forest, The Ohio Burlesque Festival (2022-2023), Tease-A-Gogo, and so many more artistic productions.
In this episode we discuss horrible Tinder convos, phantom nipples, the joys of tits, comfort with yourself, t-dick, and a whole lot more!

Do you like that?

Enough to leave you wanting more

Just a taste

The official trailer for Our Pleasure!