Every great story has a beginning. In this kickoff episode, Denise and Tim rewind to where it all started — how their paths crossed, the unexpected twists along the way, and the moments that set the stage for everything that followed.

They share the story of meeting and falling in love, the funny misunderstanding that sparked their friendship, and what they’ve learned about partnership, authenticity, and growth through the years. This episode isn’t just a love story — it’s about how connection takes shape in the everyday moments that build a life together.

• The surprising (and funny) way Denise and Tim first met
• What engagement reveals about personality and partnership
• How family dynamics shape the way we love and communicate
• Navigating career and life transitions together
• Finding authenticity and joy in everyday connection

“Every relationship is a story in progress — the beauty is in writing it together.”

• What’s one story you love to tell about how you met your partner, friend, or someone important in your life?
• How have your family dynamics shaped the way you show up in relationships?
• In what ways has your relationship helped you grow or rediscover yourself?

• 📘 Hold Me Tight — Dr. Sue Johnson (on emotional connection in relationships)
• 🎧 The Gottman Institute’s Small Things Often podcast
• How they fit together: Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy
• 💬 Quote from Brené Brown: “Connection is why we’re here; it’s what gives purpose and meaning to our lives.”

Everyone has a beginning — what’s yours? Share your “how we met” story or the friendship that changed everything. Tag @ourroughdraft or leave a comment on our site to join the conversation.