The Women Are Plotting

Our Threesome Experiences


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We trade honest threesome stories that range from awkward and hilarious to genuinely affirming, and we unpack what makes the difference between casual sex and real sex positivity. We also get practical about consent, safety, communication, and why fantasies are easier than three-person logistics. 


• survey stats on threesome interest versus actual participation 
• what sex positivity means to us and how it shows up in real encounters 
• negotiating boundaries, including touching, kissing, and comfort levels 
• Etienne’s first threesome attempt and what a “failed” goal can teach 
• Heidi’s first threesome and how relationship cracks can surface 
• movies and pop culture moments that shape expectations 
• Jane’s close threesome experiences and why coercion is not okay 
• using apps like Feeld and Grindr to find a third party 

If you have a story you'd like to share or have any comments, we'd love to hear from you!


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The Women Are PlottingBy Jane Gari, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis