A year ago today Micah and I were in Mérida for our wedding. It was a week long affair with multiple events leading up to the big day and contained some of the most unforgettable moments we've ever have. However, it didn't come without its own set of anxiety and emotions.

Anyone who has planned a wedding (especially in a pandemic) knows that it can be a  rollercoaster. For us there were many unexpected twists and turns including rain, multiple injuries, important guests not being able to make it, last minute vendor changes, etc. So much of wedding culture in media and movies tells you that your wedding is supposed to be the most perfect, amazing, happiest day of your life. But the reality is, planning such  an intimate and significant event can be extremely vulnerable. It's so much pressure mixed with very high expectations and a shit ton of logistics.

I put off making this episode for a while but ultimately thought it was important to share because not enough people talk about this. There were so many moments when I felt crazy and wished I could hear someone else's story to make me feel less alone. So this episode is for anyone who is currently going through the wedding planning process and feeling it too. Please know that you're not alone, and while your wedding should be (and will be!) so amazing and joyful, don't deny any other feelings you have around it too. They are just as valid, completely normal, and in the end it will all be part of the story.

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Our Vendors
Venue: Private Haciendas
Planning: Nicoella Events
Photography: Marissa Alves
Dress: Roxanna Moix
Flowers: Floweriize
Rentals: Archive Rentals
Catering: Apoala

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