God created me, formed me in my mother's womb. I'm uniquely designed and loved, right? But yet, I'm also supposed to be conforming into the image of Jesus. Can I do both? Does God want me to be a robot? Should I buy second temple period garb and start wondering around. Or is Jesus calling me to something different all together.
I highly recommend actually reading the accounts of the Rich Young Ruler, because I did an very incomplete job retelling it. It's found in Mathew 19, Mark 10, and Luke 18.
also referenced:
Colossians 3
God's Very Good Idea
Jon Tyson at Church of the City - The Way of Confrontation