Out With the Old, In With the YOU!

Out With the Old, In With the YOU!

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  • 5 Ways To Dive Into Your Power - Inspired by 12 Days of Christmas Song! # 172

    Ever wonder why this song sings about 6 different birds then is broken up with “Five golden rings” before it goes on to describing the last 5 days of performances by people? Was the author really talking about actual gold rings?

    Hello! It’s Christmas Eve, and today I share 5 things I have learned that help me step into my power! This podcast was inspired by the 12 Days of Christmas song, and during this episode, I share the history behind that song.

    Listen in to hear some of the theories floating around and why evidence actually points to “five golden rings” being about another bird! After doing the research, I was inspired to dig in and uncover my five golden rings!

    The 5 rings of my “step into your power” rock circle.

    The power to say no

    The power to say yes

    Accepting other’s disapproval

    Deconstructing the lies

    Unapologetically claiming your space

    Maybe this Christmas, you step into your power. The very best gift, in my experience, isn’t the birth of some “god-child” - it’s the gift of choice. The freedom to choose what feels most honoring to you. And what better time to gift this to yourself than during the “season of giving”?

    Check out this blog to read the full story behind the “ring-necked pheasant” theory!

    https://blog.nature.org/2024/12/01/the-5-golden-rings-they-might-be-pheasants/



    39 min
  • How To Change The World (without using ChatGPT) #171

    I had some feelings today. My son left to go back to Hawaii after a ten-day visit. So I took an official “sad day” to allow myself time to just feel. It’s been good. Really good. And I realized in the midst of it, I was actually accomplishing something really important.

    Join me today as I talk about what I believe to be the best way to change the world.

    We all want to have an impact. We all want to feel like we made a difference. Well, you can. It’s not as hard as it sounds. And it doesn’t have to involve ever even leaving your own home. ;)

    Listen all the way to the end for a special reading of a poem I wrote today!

    26 min
  • How Do I Find Meaning When Life Feels Purposeless? #170

    This is a question I was asked recently by a young person in their 20’s. Today I take this overwhelming, huge question and break it down into what felt manageable to me. 

    It’s not unusual for humans to ask themselves some version of this question many times over the course of their life. We all want to feel like we offer value to this world and know that our life is important and purposeful. 

    However, from my experience, I find that living a life filled with meaning doesn’t have to involve a complicated, exhausting search. There is no magic answer - but there is an answer. 

    What are the ways that make life worth living to you?

    Listen to today’s episode as I share what brings meaning to my life and a simple way you can discover your own meaningful moments!


    41 min
  • “From Cult to Queer”  #169

    This week, my amazing partner Jenna takes the lead on the podcast and interviews me about my documentary, which is coming out in January 2026!

    I share the heart behind it all by answering these questions:

    • What led me to decide to make this documentary?

    • What do I hope to accomplish through it?

    • What do I worry about when sharing my story?

    • What is the most important lesson I have learned through the process?

    • Three words to describe what this documentary means to me

    Follow me on one or all of my social media platforms to find out the details of when the documentary is available and where!

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    38 min
  • "The A.R.T. of Healing" #168

    Today I talk about a very important lesson my ankle taught me and how I am applying it to my life.


    I discuss how the things that bring us support and healing can eventually limit us from reaching our full potential and how to know when it's time to take off the brace.


    You will learn the method that I have found effective for my healing journey that comes simply from these three things:


    Awareness

    Release

    Trust


    Stay till the end to hear the Pat Parelli phrase that has helped me over the years in not only my horsemanship journey but my personal life as well!



    47 min
  • “Playing the Game Just for Fun” #167

    It’s so easy to see what we have yet to accomplish and forget to celebrate how far we have come. Our culture has ingrained so many toxic ways of thinking into our minds that most of the time, we don’t even realize that we are in autopilot mode and buying into these lies. Instead of being aware of our journey, we rush around living in constant stress with an unending To-Do List. 

    Maybe this isn’t your experience. But for those of us who have spent most of our lives believing we needed to prove our value, life can feel like trying to catch a train that refuses to slow down. It’s certainly no way to spend our precious one life.

    It’s time for us to remember.

    It’s time for us to slow down and realize that we get to choose how we live.

    It’s time for us to realize that we already fucking won.

    It’s time to celebrate ourselves!

    Please share this episode with someone you think needs this reminder! 

    38 min
  • Learning To Become Self-Centered (yes, you read that right) #166

    I have spent most of my life trying to be as selfless as possible. The very word selfish still sends me into a bit of a panic. 

    This is what religious trauma can do to you. 

    Join me today as I unpack the word “self-centered”.

     You will learn:

    • The meaning of the word and when it was first used in our language

    • What was happening in England during 1645 

    • The similarities between then and now

    • The history of “Agreement of the People”

    • My theory of why that word came into existence during that time

    •  An essay I wrote about the enlightenment I received after doing the research for this podcast

    • Why I want to be a “Leveller” and an “Agitators” 

    Check out this simple website to learn more!

    https://kids.kiddle.co/An_Agreement_of_the_People


    31 min
  • Adventure Cycling, Cow Herding, Rain Camping #165

    Join me and my hardcore partner Jenna as we laugh and share about our recent 43.4 mile cycling adventure and all the wild experiences we had along the way!


    Being new to gravel biking, and brand new to bike packing, it quickly became evident that we had no clue what we were getting ourselves into.


    But it was still a blast! We made the best of it, laughed our asses off in between exhaustion and freezing to death. ;)


    If you aren't living life adventurously, you aren't fucking living!

    43 min
  • My Poor Zelle is Sick - 164

    It's been a rough week here at Peace Out Ranch. One week ago, my beloved horse Zelle came down really sick.

    Today I share the story of how we are trying to find healing amidst a very scary neurological disease called West Nile Virus.


    Life is precious, fragile, and unpredictable. Remember to give those you love, furry friends and all, an extra squeeze this week.


    If you are interested in herbs for your horses, I recommend checking out SilverLiningHerbs.com.

    37 min
  • The Season of Fall and What It Can Teach Us #163

    Everyone loves fall - the beautiful colors and cool weather. But did you ever wonder why some trees drop their leaves and others do not? Why is it that some animals stock up and prepare to hibernate while others fly away?

    After some delightful research, I am excited to share some super cool nature facts and basic science that is sure to spark your interest!

    This research trail led me into curiosity about myself and what lessons nature might be offering me.

    -How am I preparing for the next season of life?

    -What changes do I need to make to preserve and protect my peace?

    -What do I need to let go of?

    -Where is my energy most needed?


    A great place to hike!

    Springfield Conservation Nature Center


    Coolest bird migration article ever!

    birdlife.org/news/2018/06/27/migration-marathons-7-unbelievable-bird-journeys/



    42 min

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